Avatar

There's a butterfly in the well...

@butterflyinthewell / butterflyinthewell.tumblr.com

✨Queer 40+ year old fandom hag. Nerdy autistic self-advocate. Antibullying activist. Likes to sing. Yells about Godzilla.
⚠️ *** Blacklist “naughty post” to avoid occasional NSFW content. It’s usually fanfics and bawdy jokes/memes, but pics or fanart that show a bare butt may happen too. ***
🦋Blog desktop background credit: lbkr14 on Desktop Nexus.
⛔️No DNI lists here; I hit the block button when I see someone I don’t want to interact wi

You need to be okay with being crap at things to get anywhere in life. You might not be the best but that doesn't mean you can't fight for what you want. In the end it's always the people who are least ashamed to go for what they want who will get what they want.

Avatar
bearded-book-boyfriend-deactiva

If you Anon someone's inbox don't be a dick. The world has enough people dealing with self-esteem issues, lack of confidence, and mental illness to have to be subject to anyone being an asshat in someone's inbox. If you have to try and degrade people to make yourself feel better, then you are the weakest form of individual and need to go reevaluate yourself.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but if you cancel/postpone an event or activity because you’re not feeling up to it physically or emotionally, and then you feel better after resting/not doing the thing, this doesn’t mean that you were lying, or that you actually were well enough. You just gave yourself the time you needed to rest and recover. Look after yourselves.

You are using an unsupported browser and things might not work as intended. Please make sure you're using the latest version of Chrome, Firefox, Safari, or Edge.