halfway to sainthood

"But they're destroying their bodies for a fetishhhhh" wow great opinion, where did you get it from? Your mom who told you that your new tattoo you got for fun and joy ruined your sacred body?

Additional point: people have a right to autonomy, meaning if they want to "destroy" their own body for literally any reason, then they have a right to. If it's a sex thing that's not any morally better or worse than anything else like ballet, taking steroids, or starving.

YES excellent fucking point, health is not a moral issue and addressing it as such is less toeing the line into ableism and more doing a cannonball in

benicio 🚬

people keep reposting my comics without credit or permission so heres a dump of my comics frome my twitter @/cuptoast

do not my reposts my art, if u see one of my comics uploaded to here, it was not with my permisiions!

idgaf if my parents are disappointed in me I'm not impressed by them either

Credits: Moakley

wonderful pair of posts on the dash tonight

I took a 6yo boy to his placement and as soon as I got him situated in the back he saw my SpongeBob driver’s license air freshener hanging on my rearview mirror. He asked if that’s really SpongeBob’s driver’s license and I said yeah it’s real. Then he asked where I got it if SpongeBob’s underwater so I told him I wore a helmet like Sandy and stole it from SpongeBob when he slept, and without missing a beat he goes “That’s identity fraud”

I love visiting people who have some kind of pet reptile because they're always like "would you like to hold the reptile" and I'm like "of course I would" and then the rest of the conversation happens with me just holding a random reptile and the reptile Has No Feelings about the situation. They always just sit there, probably vaguely wishing to return to their heat lamp but clearly exuding an energy of This Might As Well Happen. and then I put it back in its enclosure and go home and the reptile very clearly has no strong feelings about the situation.

i gotta remember this

please think about male pregnancy outside of a meme context at least sometimes. idc if you say "I'm gonna get him pregnant" or things like that but male pregnancy is going to become an increasingly serious issue for us trans men/mascs

just. acknowledge that there are men irl who can get pregnant, not always by choice, and how that effects us. because we're going to need it. we already need it

Ok but if trans men are men like yall say then why do some still wanna get pregnant if you’ve transitioned to a man? Wouldn’t that stir up body dysmorphia or something?

everyone is different, for some they don't mind bc they don't see it as conflicting with their gender, other people think it's worth it. there are also going to be people who didn't make the choice and either can't or don't want to get an abortion. there are lots of different possibilities someone might experience and they all deserve to be respected as people just like anyone else, and part of respecting them as a person is respecting their gender and autonomy

But also like, maybe pregnancy isn’t something that is inherent or exclusive to womanhood. Maybe reproduction is not a subject that exclusively concern women. Maybe we have idealized maternal love to a point where we can’t imagine that men can actually love and care and nurture.

Being trans doesn’t stop you from wanting a family nor does it render your ability to create said family void. Which means that even if every trans man didn’t want to have kids, you would still have to normalize pregnant men because accidental pregnancy happens.

I don’t understand this need to enforce this idea where women are the sole authority on reproduction. It is based in patriarchal logic. Stop.

After watching my first ryan gosling movie:

the tragedy of tumblr is you will inevitably meet people who you should be having a sleepover with. you should be rolling around on their floor and rummaging through their fridge and watching shitty movies with. you should be shopping with should be going out to a cafe with should be wandering through the aquarium with. people who you should be experiencing quotidian joys with... and you cannot! because they live one million miles away