softness persevering

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Edwin takes a large sip of the wine. It’s not good — too dry even for his tastes and not rich enough to balance it out. He forces it down anyway, almost relishes in the bitterness. His gripe with the situation is as follows: It has been good. Better, even, than he ever imagined, or could have imagined that first morning. Charles has been an absolute delight — bringing him flowers and taking him out and worming his way into every little nook of Edwin's life. He can scarcely go more than twenty minutes without thinking of Charles, pining away like some 19th century heroine. The sex, as promised, is spectacular. They can’t keep their hands off each other, tumbling into bed whenever they meet up. Most importantly, Edwin has been good. He’s kept a lid on his more eccentric side, pushing down the shards of ice that are permanently nestled inside his lungs and chiselling away at the rough edges of his outline. Maybe he was naïve to think he could do this. He was never able to before.

Edwin's and Charles' growing relationship, told in 6 prayers and 6 hymns, featuring grappling with past relationships, family, growing pains, and lots of laughter.

☾・☀︎・☽

read the morning after au sequel on ao3:

I hate to break it to you, but they were right. You really do just have to finish that first draft. It can be a hot mess, but you can’t clean up a room that doesn’t exist

Some women are conditioned to be fragile and weak, and to believe that it's a sin to outperform a man. Her feminism would involve allowing women to be strong.

Some women are expected to be strong at times when they can't. Her feminism would involve reassuring her that it's okay to not be strong.

Some neurodivergent people are raised to believe that they're too stupid to ever amount to anything. Their disability activism would involve reassuring them that they're capable.

Some neurodivergent people are raised to believe that they're smart and gifted, and are expected to live up to impossible standards. Their disability activism would involve allowing them to fail, make mistakes, be stupid, etc.

Some children are constantly reminded "you're the child, I'm the adult" in order to deny their autonomy. Their youth rights activism would involve treating them like an adult at times when they feel ready for it.

Some children are treated like adults in order to justify increased expectations or to downplay abuse against them. Their youth rights activism would involve allowing them to be a child.

There is no one-size-fits-all solution to oppression. Each individual person's experience is different. Whatever trauma is caused by their oppression, the activism should focus on undoing it.

u know someone’s about to get dragged through the mud when an academic uses the phrase ‘it’s tempting to assume’

“it’s tempting to assume” is academic speaking for “you might think, if you’re a fucking idiot,”

You can survive almost anything through the right combination of:

  1. Bitching and moaning
  2. Hater-ology
  3. Doing a goofy little bit about it
  4. Having a buddy say "that's so fucked up" at intermittent points (you can also be your own buddy)
  5. Destroying the cursed amulet you carry everywhere, why do you even have that thing

SOOOOO funny when you’re having a strong emotion and your logical brain KNOWS you’re overreacting but you literally can’t do anything about it.

Emotional brain: fire and rage and biting and biting and biting

Logical brain: That was an innocent mistake, and not anyone’s fault.

Emotional brain: you’re right… fire and rage and biting biting biting for one thousand years tho

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