Supernatural is so fucking wild. Charlie can’t flirt with a guy because she’s gay, fair. So the obvious solution is to have Dean flirt with the guy??? Genuinely what the fuck is this show
Bought a whole block of brie and fancy crackers because I suddenly remembered that I'm an adult and I'm allowed to.
Spending the rest of the day resisting the urge of naptime.
Not the contradiction within the post; if you’re allowed to buy fancy brie you can take a fancy nap
bf don't let me :c
Nap on bf. What's he gonna do, move? That's at least 80% as evil as moving a cat that's sleeping on him.
If I lay down during daytime, he'll join me for a cuddle, fall asleep in 35 seconds as he does every single time he is placed horizontally, and then takes a five hour nap. Even if I'm done being in bed in like two hours. Me going to bed will ruin his whole sleep schedule.
Just lock the bedroom door to keep the boyfriend out. Like a cat
Our whole apartment is only one room.
Put hin outside. Like cat
He is recovering from a surgery, I can't put him outside. Also, I can't risk having him get hit by cars, fight other outdoors guys and decimate the local songbird population.
does anyone have a beginners guide for communication with deities? i’ve researched all the other shit but no one talks about the actual communication part in detail or how to sense their presence.
i have no idea if I’m talking to a deity or if something is fucking with me bc i can’t sense shit. (also I’m autistic and shit’s too vague)
pls help
so… it was a random fuckass spirit that gave me nightmares for a week.
does anyone have a beginners guide for communication with deities? i’ve researched all the other shit but no one talks about the actual communication part in detail or how to sense their presence.
i have no idea if I’m talking to a deity or if something is fucking with me bc i can’t sense shit. (also I’m autistic and shit’s too vague)
pls help
PLEASE DO NOT USE TIKTOK AS A RESOURCE FOR HELLENIC POLYTHEISM
Tiktok is probably one of THE WORST places to learn about REAL hellenic polytheism because it is rampant with misinformation and most creators are only interested in views and parroting misinformation THEY heard. Yes there are some great and informative creators on there to learn about the hellenic gods but they are far and few in-between.
INSTEAD if you're new to the religion and have no clue where to start researching/learning, here are a few phenomenal creators on here with wonderful and informative posts!
@wisdom-devotee has an amazing guide for starting out in hellenic polytheism
@seasaltdevotion also recently made a fantastic post on resources for starting out
@crazycatsiren has a SUPER long list of resources and research material
@khaire-traveler has possibly the greatest list on subtle deity worship for just about every god
Please actually learn from those of us that truly love and covet this religion and spread information that will truly benefit you.
How to Read the Deity Identification Spread
So, first of all, I’d suggest at least looking over the companion post to this, How to Read the Deity Communication Spread. A lot of the same ideas and concepts I mentioned there are going to apply here as well.
Secondly, if you’re not sure what I’m talking about – check out the Deity Identification Spread!
The purpose of this spread is to build a profile of information about a deity so that you can discover or narrow down their identity. It won’t always hand you the answer on a platter! But as I said before, and will say numerous times again in the future, the act of taking that information and searching for the answer is often part of the process of working with deities and spirits.
Another purpose for this spread is to verify the identity of a deity that you’re dealing with. It’s actually quite useful for this one, and quite a bit easier, because you’re going to have a better idea of what you’re looking for already.
(Also, just for funsies, if you’re a writer or someone else who finds themselves needing to do some world building, it’s great for generating up fictional deities as well)
Overall Advice
As always, God stuff is weird. It won’t always be easy, but this spread should point you to the signs along the way to figure it out, even if it doesn’t hand you the answer.
Be willing to think creatively. The “answer” may come from the card meaning or imagery, but it could also be a pun on the name or number, or something that is whispered to you when the card is turned over – see above: God stuff is weird.
Remember: you may have to do the leg work on this. The cards should ultimately give you symbols and signs to look out for – so be looking out! See what deities you find that are connected to your answers. Search the myths and lore. See how and where they fit.
Like I said in the post about the Communication Spread, it’s okay to draw more cards for various positions, perhaps even more so in this spread. (You can uh….draw multiple cards for positions on any spread?? by the way?? Just throwing that out there)
Even if you don’t discover the identity of the deity, you’re going to get some useful information in terms of allowing you to reach out to them – clues about their nature, information on their symbols and associations. The closer you get, the more answers may be revealed.
CARD ONE: The Deity
Like in the Communication Spread, this card sums the deity up, typically giving you the particular aspect that is appearing to you.This card should give you hints on where to start looking for the deity’s identity – their name, personality, their appearance.
Relate this card to the other cards to start building an image of the deity.
CARD TWO: Quality/Trait (”Negative”)
As I say in the spread, I usually interpret this trait as being something “negative” – note, by the way, that you may not get a straight answer here if the deity doesn’t have any overtly negative traits or if you personally won’t perceive or experience those traits.
The “negative” trait may be something they’re classically associated with – jealous, impulsive, potentially cruel. But it may be something you personally may not like – associations that make you uncomfortable or challenge you.
I think it can be hard for people to confront this card because it can be scary. If you get an answer here you don’t like, maybe you don’t want to know the answer after all. If that’s going to be an issue for you, enough that you can’t get over it, then eh, maybe don’t specify this to be something negative. But I think it’s worth it to know and it can be very illuminating.
CARD THREE: Quality/Trait (”Positive”)
This card is the same as above, but with a more positive slant. So these may be things that are aspects they’re known for, such as beauty, generosity, wisdom, or things that you’ll appreciate and be supported by.
This card can be confusing when the positive trait comes up as a negative card, so firstly, let me suggest reading what I said about negative cards in How to Read the Deity Communication Spread.
But overall, consider that a negative card may:
- Be expressing a positive aspect of itself – The Tower as liberation, the Five of Pentacles as a light for the lost.
- Represent something symbolic – the Ten of Swords may be someone who is known for stepping out of their physical body or granting that ability to those who worship them. The Ten of Wands may be someone who is known to take on many burdens or many followers.
- …may just be negative? You might not have a good time with every deity. It happens.
CARD FOUR: Ruling/Power
This card should point you to the deity’s domain, if you will. The cards can be a bit cheeky here, so be prepared for that. The Lovers may indicate a love goddess – but it may also come up for a crossroads deity.
You should be willing to have a dialogue with your cards here. Pull more than one if you need to, but don’t be afraid to actually give a think to what you draw here – and for all of the cards, to be honest…
Contemplation and comparison to the other cards should help you out here.
CARD FIVE: Symbol/Association
This can be straightforward or not, so good luck!
Again, sometimes the answer is in the imagery – a lightning bolt on The Tower, there might be a dolphin on your Knight of Cups, or maybe it will be in the name or meaning. The search for the answer can be part of the work you’re supposed to be doing, remember?
But what you’re looking for here are symbols, animals, places, concepts, or whatever else you can strongly link to a deity – which you can use not only to identify that deity, but to reach out to them.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
I really can’t stress this enough – even if you don’t get the answer directly, you’re going to get clues to follow along the path and you’re going to get keys to help bring you closer to that deity.
If you follow those signs and if you use those keys, you will be able to build a bridge of communication and build a relationship that is going to bring you closer to the answer of identity.
This is especially useful for lesser known deities or deities whose names have been lost to time!
But ultimately you need to be willing to sit with these answers and explore them, especially if a straightforward identity isn’t presented to you. Sometimes the answer is something that unfolds over time rather than something that hits you straight in the face right away. Maybe you can eliminate some names along the way!
Like I said in the closing thoughts on the communication spread breakdown:
“One of the reasons this spread can be difficult is that deities are difficult. Discovering who they are and what they want from you is sometimes part of the whole challenge or bonding process, and the quest to find those answers is often as useful and important as actually accomplishing anything they’re going to ask from you.
So it’s okay if you don’t get all of the answers right away. Sit with what you’ve got. Explore what comes up. Keep asking the questions. Don’t be discouraged by the work it might take you to get there, especially if you feel like it’s keeping you from starting. If you’re in this process? You’ve already started.”
how tf do you do line breaks @staff
nvm i figured it out
"when did supernatural go downhill" is the wrong question to be asking because supernatural does not exist on an XY axis where it can go 'up' or 'down' hill, it exists in a plane that extends towards and away from the audience at various times based on writing, plots, and whether or not the gay angel is there. but at no point does it move up or down hill.
some excellent points being made in the tags
hello if i want to read venom comics because i liked the movies where do i look??? i’m more interested in eddie/venom dynamic more than anything else but i don’t know where to start
this is ramble-y pls help
The main comicbook runs that focus both on their dynamic and establish their story, imo, are:
- Venom:Lethal protector
- Venom: The hunger
- Venom: Planet of the symbiotes
- Venom: Separation anxiety
- Mike Costa's run if Venom from 2016
- Venom: Last host
Of course, there are many more that show their relationship beautifully, but I can't think of more at the moment
I haven't included their appearances in "The Amazing Spider-man", but if you're interested, I'll revisit this post
This is a very short list, so I hope other users will add more
Hope this helped!
having checked out these recs and looked online there are some specifications I’d like to make:
- Venom: Last Host as listed above should be Venom: First Host and is absolutely worth reading
- Mike Costa's best (imo) is Venom Vol 1-4 (Homecoming, The Land Before Crime, Lethal Protector - Blood in the Water, The Nativity)
- All Venom Lethal Protector arcs are worth checking out, including the original, Blood in the Water, and Heart of the Hunted)
and if anyone is interested in the full comic layout check out this link!
I come from a long line of mentally unstable and unhinged men who are remarkably pretty for a brief flash in their early 20s, live just long enough to manage to get some idiot pregnant once or twice, and then promptly dying of alcoholism. While being obnoxious and annoying the whole time. God had to make me gay, 5'6, and completely incapable of producing sperm just to make that shit stop.