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Dragon Age Polyshipping

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Inspired by Pan-Fandom Polyshipping Day (now inactive) a group of Dragon Age fans decided to get together to celebrate polyamorous ships starting in 2021. For 2022, Polyshipping Week events will be held quarterly, and our second annual exchange will be held from Sept 2022 - Nov 2022.

I fancy many things

A Dragon Age fan exchange focused on healthy polyamory in all its forms! Open to queer platonic relationships, one-time threesomes (or moresomes), and long-term relationships.

What do you mean by "healthy polyamory"?

We highly recommend visiting the website for a mobile-friendly browsing experience if you’re looking for more info!

Thank you for participating - we'll see you in 2025!

  • Nominations Open: Sunday, September 1st, 2024 12p ET
  • Nominations Close: Sunday, September 8th, 2024 12p ET
  • Sign Ups Open: Sunday, September 8th, 2024, 12p ET
  • Sign Ups Close: Wednesday, September 25th, 2024 12p ET
  • Assignments Out: Friday, September 27th, 2024 5p ET (or sooner!)
  • Assignments Due: Sunday, November 17th, 2024 12p ET
  • Works Revealed: Sunday, November 24th, 2024 12p ET
  • Creators Revealed: Sunday, December 1st, 2024 12p ET

CONTACT

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

GENERAL LINKS

TAGS

Please filter these tags if the content would be upsetting for you.

CREDITS

The DA:I-inspired poly heart featured in our icon and queue banners was used with permission by enigmalea to create our avatar. Please check out the other pride hearts by Dirthenera here and here.

Polyamorous Exchange - Featuring Krem!

Creators have been revealed so I can share the piece I made for the @dapolyshipping exchange! This was my first time writing Krem so I had fun trying to find his perspective. Let me know what you think! <3

Title: A Romantic Evening with Friends Relationship: Cremisius "Krem" Aclassi/Cullen Rutherford/Cassandra Pentaghast Words: 4,829 Rated: M https://archiveofourown.org/works/60620932

Summary:

Cullen & Cassandra have been together for a while, but they have a massive crush on their dear friend Krem. Krem has a hard time believing that.

Krem reread the letter a fifth time, mumbling to himself in a disbelieving voice that let more of his clipped Tevinter syllables slip through than usual. “You are invited to a romantic evening…” The words were so clear and yet he couldn’t wrap his mind around the meaning. Was there some kind of mistake? But no, his name was scrawled across the top of the page in formal, looping handwriting that he had rarely seen penned by the Seeker’s hand — Ser Cremisius Aclassi — perfectly aligned on a piece of Cullen’s stationary with an honorific of respect he didn't truly have claim to. He wouldn't admit it to anyone in the Chargers, but the unearned title thrilled him a little whenever his friends bestowed it upon him. The envelope had been sealed in red wax, stamped with the seal the two had designed together when they got married. Krem recalled Cullen agonizing over the border.

Cassandra had hand delivered the note earlier that evening saying to open it once she’d left, so there was no mistaking its origin. She had stood with her shoulders back and exuded a raw confidence that he usually saw reserved for the battlefield, or perhaps before a particularly harrowing public event. He had been a bit star-struck by her presence even though he’d known the Seeker years. But the particular jut of her jaw and the fire in her eyes made it hard to look away from her as she retreated down the stone hallway. Then he read the invitation. A page arrived with a bouquet of flowers not thirty minutes later and found Krem in a state of shock.

Keep reading on AO3:

This is my @dapolyshipping exchange gift for @enigmalea

Pairing: Anders/Male Hawke/Karl Thekla Rating: Mature Words: 11,150 Summary: When Anders needs a place to lie low for an evening, he chooses The Hanged Man at random. He doesn't expect to run into anyone he knows there, much less two people he loved at different points in his life. Who are now apparently together.
Dragon Age: Polyamory event ( @dapolyshipping) creators have been revealed!

That means I can share my piece! I got the delight of writing a slew of my favorite characters and favorite ships. Excerpt below as Krem attempts to wingman for Cullen and Dorian, but gets in way over his head.

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Krem also realizes he’s a little in love with them both.

Of course this is about more than their relationship. He’d befriended them somewhere along the way, a camaraderie stretching beyond station, and all along, Krem thoroughly believed that was the whole of it. They’re good men, both better than they think they are, both beautiful and a bit damaged and entirely deserving of something steady and tender. He’s been so single-minded in his goals, blinders tight, that he completely missed the why.

And somewhere along the way, Krem’s gotten his own heart tangled in the strings he’s weaving.

Creators Have Been Revealed!

Creators, you can start claiming your works! You can add your works to personal collections and series on AO3, thank your betas, link to your social media accounts, swap out unsigned art, and/or share your work(s) on social media!

Feel free to tag @dapolyshipping and we will share your works on our account!

Reminders & Info:

Artists: don't forget to swap out your unsigned art for a signed copy if you'd like to!

☆ If you haven't already, please make sure to comment on your main gift! While you are not required to comment on treats, if you cannot distinguish whether a gift you've received is a treat or your main gift, you should comment on both. It is good etiquette to comment on all gifts received.

The collection will remain open for treats! You can post treats to any of the DA Polyshipping collections at any time.

Thank you so much to all of our participants! We hope you had fun and that you'll join us again next year💙

Works Have Been Revealed!

Check your email, check your AO3 - this year's collection is now live!

Reminders:

☆ Creators are still anonymous - please do not publicly share your work as your own or claim it until creator reveals on December 1st, 2024, 12pm ET

☆ You are allowed to publicly guess who your creator might be, share recs, or link people to any of the works in the collection!

☆ Creators, don't forget to update your publication date to today so that it will show in Recently Updated searches! To do so: Edit Work → under Associations check "Set a Different Publications date" → enter today's date)

☆ Don't forget to comment on your gift!

Treats:

The collection will remain open for treats, so there's still time to post an extra gift if you'd like to!

You can treat specific people by checking out the requests list and you can see who has not received a treat yet by checking the Treatless List. You can also treat the exchange as a whole by creating for ANY PAIRING on the Nominations List.

For more information and a detailed how-to, check out our Treats & Treatless FAQ!

Contact the Mods: ask | discord | email: dapolyshipping@gmail.com

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

Work Reveals Delayed

Hi all!

There will be a slight delay for today's work reveals to ensure that everyone has a gift in the collection before we open it. Thank you for your patience and understanding - we will make a follow-up announcement when the works have been revealed.

‼️Pinch Hit Needed‼️

We are looking for someone to fill a pinch hit! You do not have to be signed up for the exchange currently to claim this pinch hit.

Type of Gift: Fanart or Fanfic Ships: Male Lavellan/Dorian Pavus/Emmrich Volkarin, Zevran Arainai/Male Lavellan/Dorian Pavus, Female Adaar/Morrigan/Vivienne, Female Adaar/Charter/Tessa Forsythia, Neve Gallus/Female Lavellan/Bellara Lutare Full Requests: AutoAO3App

Please email the mods at dapolyshipping@gmail.com if you would like to claim this pinch hit! We will post again when it has been claimed.

PINCH HIT CLAIMED!

‼️Pinch Hit Needed‼️

We are looking for someone to fill a pinch hit! You do not have to be signed up for the exchange currently to claim this pinch hit.

Type of Gift: Fanart or Fanfic Ships: Male Lavellan/Dorian Pavus/Emmrich Volkarin, Zevran Arainai/Male Lavellan/Dorian Pavus, Female Adaar/Morrigan/Vivienne, Female Adaar/Charter/Tessa Forsythia, Neve Gallus/Female Lavellan/Bellara Lutare Full Requests: AutoAO3App

Please email the mods at dapolyshipping@gmail.com if you would like to claim this pinch hit! We will post again when it has been claimed.

‼️ASSIGNMENTS DUE TOMORROW‼️

Your assignments for the DA Poly Exchange are due tomorrow, Sunday, November 17th, by 12pm ET!

Visit our website to see the schedule in your local timezone and a countdown of the time remaining. If you need an extension or will not be able to finish, please complete the extension form or email the moderators ASAP.

Contact the Mods: ask | discord | email: dapolyshipping@gmail.com

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

🚨ONE WEEK WARNING🚨

Your assignments for the DA Poly Exchange are due in one week! Assignments are due Sunday, November 17th at 12pm ET.

Visit our website to see the schedule in your local timezone and a countdown of the time remaining. If you need an extension or will not be able to finish, please complete the extension form or email the moderators ASAP.

The Treatless List is live!

If you'd like to create a treat for someone who has not yet received one, you can view the list here. To learn more about how treats work, read through our Treats & Treatless FAQ!

Contact the Mods: ask | discord | email: dapolyshipping@gmail.com

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

‼️Pinch Hit Needed‼️

We are looking for someone to fill a pinch hit! You do not have to be signed up for the exchange currently to claim this pinch hit.

Type of Gift: Fanfic or Fanart Ships: Female Lavellan/Dorian Pavus/Solas, Isabela/Female Lavellan/Solas, Zevran Arainai/Rinna/Taliesen, Zevran Arainai/Rinna/Taliesen/Female Tabris Full Requests: AutoAO3App | AO3

Please email the mods at dapolyshipping@gmail.com if you would like to claim this pinch hit! We will post again when it has been claimed.

PINCH HIT CLAIMED!

‼️Pinch Hit Needed‼️

We are looking for someone to fill a pinch hit! You do not have to be signed up for the exchange currently to claim this pinch hit.

Type of Gift: Fanfic or Fanart Ships: Female Lavellan/Dorian Pavus/Solas, Isabela/Female Lavellan/Solas, Zevran Arainai/Rinna/Taliesen, Zevran Arainai/Rinna/Taliesen/Female Tabris Full Requests: AutoAO3App | AO3

Please email the mods at dapolyshipping@gmail.com if you would like to claim this pinch hit! We will post again when it has been claimed.

Anonymous asked:

Does/can the exchange have a standard tag convention for queerplatonic ships? I know there's no official standard yet, but I thought an exchange-standard might help us not de-annon ourselves. Here is a link to one tumblr poll with examples of some of the popular tag convention options. https://www.tumblr.com/faemytho/667551455853576192?source=share

Hello!

For our event, we require the conventional tagging of '/' or '&' in order to meet AO3’s basic relationship guidelines. This is to ensure that the works created for our exchange are able to be filtered and found by all AO3 users, since non-traditional tags are not wrangled.

  • '/' is to be used for romantic or sexual relationships. (Please use this for queer platonic relationships as well.)
  • '&' is to be used for friendships.

You are welcome to use QPR tags in addition to the required tags.

- Mod Sterling

Assignments Are Out!

Matches have been made and you should have received an email detailing your assigned recipient's wishes. Please check the email associated with your AO3 account ASAP - if there are any issues, reach out to a moderator.

Works are due to the AO3 collection by Sunday, November 17, 2024 at 12pm ET

Visit our website to see the schedule in your local time. We also have a countdown of time remaining!

Reminders

  • Check out our tutorials:
  • How to Fulfill Your Assignment - includes how to find & edit your assignment before works are revealed
  • Keeping it Anon
  • Giving Treats
  • Plot elements from the upcoming game are only allowed if your recipient asked for them. Otherwise, requested prompts are only suggestions! You are only required to stick to requested pairings and respect DNWs.
  • Artists be sure not to use an identifying watermark/signature on your initial post! You can swap the piece out once creators are revealed.
  • Do not share snippets, WIPs, or post about your work until after creator reveals! If you request/use a beta reader, be careful not to publicly share any details that could give you away (including the beta's name).
  • Do not add your work to any collections or series that might identify you! Likewise, do not link to your social media until after creator reveals.
  • If your recipient does not have anon asks on social media, you can contact a mod to get more info/clarification on a request.
  • Contact a mod immediately if you will not be able to complete your assignment for any reason. You can also request an extension here.

☆ CONTACT

ask | discord | email: dapolyshipping@gmail.com

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

Final Day For Sign Ups!

Dawn of the final day!! Sign ups will close in 24 hours - get those last minute pairings, prompts, and sign-ups in so you don't miss out on this year's exchange!

Visit our website to see the schedule in your local time.

Requests how to filter autoao3app ㅤㅤ ㅤ ㅤ Nominated Tags: gSheets | ao3 | autoao3app

☆ REMINDERS

  • Be careful when editing your sign up!! AO3 has been known to add "Additional Tags" to your selections. This means that if you go back in to edit, it may select "Fanart", "Fanfiction", or other tags that you did not want it to. If you edit your sign up, please double-check your requests very carefully to make sure they are accurate. If you discover an issue AFTER assignments go out, please let a mod know immediately.
  • If you signed up with any Treats related tag on your OFFERS, please do the mods a favor and remove those tags. We would really appreciate your help with that!
  • Creators are not required to follow provided prompts, so please do not expect prompts to keep you "safe" from your triggers, squicks, etc. Because of this, it is highly recommended that you include Do Not Wants or a letter listing them in each request. Please try to make DNWs as specific as possible.
  • If you are requesting a tag with an OC and are asking for a specific OC, please be sure to include a link to information and/or art references for that OC.
  • Don't forget you can tailor your offers to requests that have already been made. Choosing to offer ships that are already being requested will help to ensure that you'll receive a match!
  • If you would enjoy a gift that includes plot elements (and potential game spoilers) for the new game, please state it in your requests. If you do not state so in your requests, your gifter will not be allowed to create a gift that includes plot elements from the game, regardless of the ship requested.

☆ MORE INFORMATION

☆ CONTACT

ask | discord | email: dapolyshipping@gmail.com

Tumblr’s asks are famously unreliable. If you don’t see a response within 72 hours please feel free to resend the ask or send an email.

Update!

Due to the ongoing A03 cache issues, we’ve extended sign-ups until Wednesday, September 25 at 12pm ET

We highly recommend:

  • Starting your sign-up ASAP!
  • Drafting and saving your sign up elsewhere before inputting it into Ao3
  • Finishing your edits by Tuesday at the latest

Since you may lose progress multiple times during your sign-up, don’t want to wait until the last minute! For more information on the current issue, check out the AO3 news on tumblr.

Last Call For Sign-Up Edits!

Sign-ups will be closing in just under an hour, so get your last minute ships & edits added now!

‼️ PLEASE NOTE: If you requested a ship that is not in the tagset in the Additional Tags field, the mods will be deleting it or altering spelling/order to match a nominated tag. This includes ships that include an OC/PC but do not have gender/origin information, i.e. "Inquisitor" instead of "Nonbinary Lavellan".

‼️ If you added treats tags to your offers, please remove them! Anyone can write treats, they do not have to be formally offered, and adding that tag to your offers messes up the AO3 automated matching.

Please also be aware that the mods are all at work today, so matches may be sent out later than they have been in years past. We aim to have them sent no later than Friday, September 27th at 5p ET - barring any major issues, they will be out much sooner.

We're excited to see what you all create!

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