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sing sorrow, sorrow, but let the good prevail

@dapper-nahrwhale / dapper-nahrwhale.tumblr.com

Bugs or Luckie or TV, zhey/zhem/zhirs/it/any neopronouns (No he/she/they), aro genderqueer, art tag is b.text or my drawlings, I like ttrpgs, theme parks, x men, muppets, my dumb cat and drawling sometimes. 💗DapperNahrwhale on ao3💗 [icon is of fantasy high riz and header is a comic panel of pyro biting batroc]

fantasy high future bad kids!

Designs of the bad kids from fantasy high future! Set in their mid 20's, 8 years after the bad kids graduate Augefort, their journeys have scattered them throughout Spyre.

Anyways, the start of bad kids future is here yippie!!!!! a full year after the dream i had that inspired it, Im finally getting it going! wahoo!

if you saw me forget fabians eyepatch no you didnt

My dad was raised buddhist and when I watched bill and Ted with him he was like “these guys are unironically the most enlightened people on the planet. They are leaving Samsara for sure” and that man has never been more right about anything ever

having fun isn't hard...all you need to do is support your local library! don't be intimidated -- here are some simple steps that you can take!

To put it into perspective this level of censorship hasn't been seen since the 1950s Red Scare. Updating the numbers on the graph the number of books banned from public schools from 2021 to today is close to 16,000 and that number will only rise with the current push to shutter libraries.

“i’d do it all over again” charm

[ Image One: A photo of a metal charm shaped like a heart. One side has a circle carved out and a red gem hanging in it. Along the rest is carved text "I'd do it all over again" in all capital letters.

Image Two: A photo of the charm threaded onto a chain. / End ID ]

"Every day I get emails" but not in the funny ha ha work sucks I know way more in the ADHD horror story this is legitimately causing problems for me at work way.

I have pretty bad issues with demand avoidance and a major, catastrophic mental thing that happened when my company was acquired is that my email - one of the actually super important things that I have to pay attention to - started triggering demand avoidance in a very major way.

I've been trying to limp along with filtering rules and have added "email mortification ritual" to my personal calendar but it's not helping and I'm having trouble sussing out WHY email has become so impossible to look at.

(which is why you're reading this, I don't have a therapist at the moment so I'm rubber ducking with tumblr)

Part of the reason that I will liveblog things like this is because genuinely just talking about stuff does help me see what I can do to fix it but part of it is that there are tons of people out there who haven't ever verbalized or formalized this kind of troubleshooting process and it's something that, yes, I do use for computers and car repair and such but genuinely sitting down and going

  • what are my goals?
  • what does approaching my goal look like in an ideal world?
  • what does approaching my goal look like in the real world?
  • what are the things that make my approach non-ideal?
  • can I fix any of those things with simple changes?
  • can I fix any of those things with complex changes?
  • can I ask for help with any of those things?
  • are some of those things actually totally unnecessary and can they be dropped?
  • can I make a coherent plan to improve my approach?
  • what steps do i need to take to make this plan part of my day?

is a model for interrupting doom spirals and improving everything from your relationships to your sleep schedule to your guitar playing.

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all of the mash 4077th: committing adultery, gambling, having pre-marital sex, breaking so many commandments

father francis mulcahy:

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