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@deepinthegroves / deepinthegroves.tumblr.com

...love spills through every crack,

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step into the groves...

.enjoying the shade?

if this is your first time stumbling upon me, hi, welcome and make yourself at home <3

this blog has been due for a reconstruction for a while, and i figured, why not now? hence the revamping of my introduction, masterlists, etc. and changing of usernames. (used to be @/mylifeisinanotherreality, if anyone's curious)

when it comes to shifting and loa, here is my disclaimer: all of my 'advice' posts are made off of my own experience, and are posted in hopes of helping people. please contact me if you don't understand anything i said, or correct me (kindly please) if i'm wrong!! i'm still figuring out shifting for myself, and i hope i'm not putting muddied advice out and confusing people with (though well-intended!) misinformation or guidance with missing puzzle pieces. asks about shifting or loa are welcome though.

.an array of trees in front of you

.come take a seat with me

feel free to reach out and dm me! i'd love to get to know everyone and make more shifter friends. also 16 and a minor btw!!

credit for dividers: @issysh3ll

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tell my mom we're in love | h. sero

fake dating wasn't on your holiday to-do list—until sero invited you home for tamales and chaos (3525 words)

you regretted this the moment you stepped out of the dormitory and into the sharp chill of mid-december air, a duffel bag hanging off one shoulder and your dignity already teetering on the edge. trailing beside you was hanta sero, practically vibrating with the smug energy of a man who had just talked his best friend into making the worst decision of her academic career.

and technically, he had.

When I was 15, I spent a month working on an archeological dig. I was talking to one of the archeologists one day during our lunch break and he asked those kinds of “getting to know you” questions you ask young people: Do you play sports? What’s your favorite subject? And I told him, no I don’t play any sports. I do theater, I’m in choir, I play the violin and piano, I used to take art classes.

And he went WOW. That’s amazing! And I said, “Oh no, but I’m not any good at ANY of them.”

And he said something then that I will never forget and which absolutely blew my mind because no one had ever said anything like it to me before: “I don’t think being good at things is the point of doing them. I think you’ve got all these wonderful experiences with different skills, and that all teaches you things and makes you an interesting person, no matter how well you do them.”

And that honestly changed my life. Because I went from a failure, someone who hadn’t been talented enough at anything to excel, to someone who did things because I enjoyed them. I had been raised in such an achievement-oriented environment, so inundated with the myth of Talent, that I thought it was only worth doing things if you could “Win” at them.

for lunch, (which was practically 12 hours ago for me ignore that fact), i was just briefly wondering and daydreaming about getting like a snack alongside the meal and was just planning in my head absentmindedly how it was going to go and boom. my mother suggests getting snacks alongside our meal. i was thinking about it as i got ready to go and buy lunch and the moment the front door closed, my mother was suggesting it and i got my snack! you seriously don't have to do much to get what you want with shifting and manifestation.

hi uh this is just a psa

IM ANTI-PEDOPHILE IM ANTI-MAP IM ANTI-KINDERGENDER OR WHATEVER THE FUCK IT IS

PUT ME ON THE ANTI MASTERLISTS!!!!

IF YOURE A PEDOPHILE BLOCK ME!!!! IF YOU’RE A PEDOPHILE APOLOGIST BLOCK ME!!! IF YOU BELIEVE PEDOPHILES BELONG ANYWHERE NEAR THE LBGT+ COMMUNITY BLOCK ME!!!!! IF YOU’RE A MINOR ATTRACTED PERSON OR WHATEVER BLOCK ME!!!!

BASICALLY IF YOU’RE AN ADULT WHO IS ATTRACTED TO MINORS AND/OR BELIEVE YOU BELONG ANYWHERE NEAR THE LBGT+ COMMUNITY SMACK THAT BLOCK BUTTON!!!! I DONT WANT YOU INTERACTING WITH ME OR MY POSTS!!!!!! BYE!!!!

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virgilanxiety

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Bitch y’all better reblog or imma be blocking a fuckload of people as well.

Hello if you think pedophiles belong anywhere but prison or the ground I need you to leave.

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that-one-garbage-nerd

^^^^^^

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loganquotesthings

:) if you’re a fucking pedophile unfollow me, trash

Please do this

pedo trash

if i catch you delaying shifting again tonight while trying to find an excuse like "my script isnt finished yet!" well to bad hoe the night has arrived and u said u were gonna shift so hurry

sex is not supposed to be about what you can tolerate!!!!! sex is supposed to be about what you genuinely want and enjoy!!!!! and if you’re traumatized and/or not straight, believe me, I know it’s not that simple to figure out what it is that you actually want and enjoy.

you’re not a bad person if you do something that you don’t particularly enjoy because, for example, it makes your partner happy, but always remember: you have no obligation to engage in sexual activities that you don’t fully like and enjoy

and you don’t ever, ever need to justify that - if your partner has an issue with “It makes me kind of uncomfortable” or “I don’t really like it”, then that person does not deserve a moment of your time, in or outside of the bedroom. you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone; you don’t have to meet anyone’s standards of acceptable vs. unacceptable activity (or lack thereof); you don’t have to force yourself to be comfortable with something because of any perceived political connotations of performing or refusing that act.

saying yes because you feel guilty about saying no is not consent. saying yes because you’re scared of what will happen if you say no is not consent. saying yes because you figure you might as well just endure it is not consent. sex ed on here and elsewhere doesn’t give a single shit about traumatized people and I wish someone had told me all of this a lot sooner. 

Certified Sex Ed Post!

Very important for ace people as well in a world where everyone will tell you that You Can (And Should) Have Sex but no one is willing to be patient with you having your own complex relationship to it.

You’re never obligated to have sex you don’t want. Not “to please your partner”. Not as a “compromise”. Not for any reason.

the law of assumption is instant, just because you don’t magically see it right here in front of you, doesn’t mean it isn’t true. i can’t see my dog rn, does that mean i don’t have a dog? no.

this is why instant manifestation works, cause it’s always instant, it doesn’t always show up in front of you in seconds, but it doesn’t mean that your boss hasn’t decided to give you a raise in that moment or the sp decided to ask you out next time they see you etc. you need to let the 3d show it to you, because once you change the story, that’s the only relevant story.

Ghada's campaign on GoFundMe has had it's transfers paused without cause. She relies greatly on donations to survive and now she is in desperate need of support. These are her words. Please donate and share.

Hello, I'm Ghada Mhasen, 20 years old, mother of a child born in war. She married shortly before the war and became pregnant a month before the war. The war came and killed my joy with my pregnancy and marriage, as we were forced to leave our house and flee. I left my belongings and things behind. I couldn't take anything. It was a difficult period with great difficulty. We found a tent to shelter my husband and me, because we had nothing. No one helped us. We tried to manage our affairs with the simplest and least things, but we also had to flee again, as we fled to Rafah. I heard the news of my house bombing and it was shocking news for me because it was all we had. My condition deteriorated and I was afraid for my unborn baby. Time passed and we tried to manage our affairs, but we almost died of hunger and almost lost my child, but thank God he remained fine. We continued to be displaced and our condition worsened. My husband and I were very tired until we visited Khan Yunis for the last time. It's time for me to have children and be born in a tent, a contaminated tent. There was no medical supplies. My condition was critical, but thanks to God, my child and I survived. Now I can't provide for his basic needs. We put below zero. I have now resorted to creating a Chuffed account to ask for help from you. Please help me, please. We need a tent to accommodate us from the winter and the needs of my child. We need food and drink. We need medicine. My husband worked hard to provide the simplest things for us, but while he was working, a wall fell on him and broke his foot. Now there's no way to help us live except for this donation link. Please save us. Please, every donation is important. It would have saved us from war, hunger and cold. We are not in one war. We are in three wars: the war of Zionism, the war of hunger and the war of cold. I ask you to save us. Every donation, up to $20, will save us from these wars. I am now living in a cloth that covers four sides without a roof. If winter really comes, we will die. Save us. Thank God, now after the end of the war, we are still living a very difficult life. I still can't provide for my child's needs or provide any of our needs from eating and drinking, even water with difficulty, we bring it. We always wait for any help to come to us, but unfortunately, my child does not come, he is exposed to a lot of infections because of the bad Pampers that we use for. I just want to provide what is necessary. I want to ensure a good life for him most of the time. It's rainy, uninhabitable tent. We always sink. I hope you to help us if in $50, please sympathize with us and my child. I trust you and thank you.
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