my earnest hope for 2025 is that everyone embraces being a little weirder and freakier and less judgmental bc we will all be better off for it like to charge reblog to cast
You have to learn how to say no without you feeling like you’re being mean. Setting boundaries is how you see who does and doesn’t respect you, your time, or your emotional well-being. Anyone who sees your boundaries and thinks your being mean or tries to push that boundaries is not a person you owe your time or attention.
I think the best thing I’ve ever done for my mind is literally just be like “idk man they’re just weird people” and move on w my life without psychoanalyzing…….. like I literally think I just rewired my brain w a single sentence
Not even in a dismissive way like I truly think I just used to hyper analyze people and try to figure out why they do what they do and the one way that has managed to reel me back truly is just me being like Oh that’s weird…….. but I will not attempt to figure it out at all. Not my responsibility . And then I just move on. Do people know about this
current goal: make it through the week
long term goal: make it through all the weeks
I sit and think about how we’re all just walking our individual paths but sometimes our paths align perfectly with someone else’s and you either walk the rest of your lives together or it’s just for a brief moment in time and you carry on. We’re really all just walking each other home. Life is so magical.
I like tumblr because it’s the only social media platform that isn’t like “look how great my life is going right now!” it’s literally just shitposting. it’s the one website that doesn’t destroy your self esteem. no one has ever read a text post that just said “bungus” and been like “wow they have their whole life together and I wish that could be me” and I’m here for it
Lord may the people I attract into my life be consistent and clear with their affections and intentions. May they know me see me and appreciate me always. May they be receptive to my affections and intentions. May they be true, steady givers of grace. May they be curious and non-deceptive. Should they make error against me, may they take responsibility to humbly inspire my forgiveness. Should I cross them ever by mistake, may they be knowing of my heart. May we never be confused. May clarity grow bigger forever in the space between us. May my life be a meadow for the sweetest flowers. Amen!
one day you'll wake up and think, "life is okay". it'll happen gradually. you'll start to notice flowers blooming in a new light. your evening shower will be a sweet refuge. your morning coffee will warm your soul. things will seem bright and beautiful, and you'll wonder how you ever wanted to leave such lovely things behind