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friendly reminder that i dont use tumblr anymore. tbqh taking my hiatus has been an improvement of my mental health and im glad to no longer be using matt mullenweg's website.
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i also have a furaffinity
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wanted to share my favorite reddit post ever
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Reblogged werewolfbarista
Your dream girl exists and she has big grippy love handles
sorry i haven't been very active on here, tbqh having a larger following has been a bit exhausting for me during what's probably been one of the more stressful years of my life. im not dead and i'll probably come off hiatus eventually. in the meantime i'm taking a bit of a vacation on twitter, which i won't link here but if you find it (i'll give you 3 guesses as to what my @ is) i wont be mad, just be aware that im a little more "filter off" sometimes on there.
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my angel girlfriend keeps kicking me cus every time she talks about her halo i do the halo 2 theme at her and it makes her really mad.
"hey baby my halo has been feeling funny do you think i should......can you stop fucking doing that?"
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Yeah so anyways, contrary to popular misconceptions and fear mongering spread by bigots, post op trans women's vaginas are amazing actually. 💛
ID: A screenshot from the Reddit post linked, with text reading:
"So I'm going to refute some of the more popular myths about trans women's vaginas by directly describing my own fully healed experience. (I had surgery several years ago using a fairly standard penile inversion technique that used some spare internal mucosa to supplement the vaginal lining. Recovery sucked, but it wasn't that bad.)
- Yes, all the normal parts of vaginal anatomy are present. I have a vulva with clitoris and labia, a vagina, I can pee normally, etc etc etc.
- No, I don't have visible scars. Some of us do, but they're usually not prominent, especially after a few years. Internally, thing must look quite normal too, since I've passed as cis during a pelvic exam with a speculum.
- No, it's not an open wound and it won't heal shut if I don't dilate. It's not a piercing, it's a vagina. I don't dilate at all, and not only do I not lose depth, but I can take a fist if I want
- No, I don't have to wash my vagina out. It has its own flora, so douching would generally be a great way to get an infection; luckily, it cleans itself. Yes, it smells and tastes normal.
- Yes, I have totally normal sensation in my vagina, clitoris, g spot, etc. Yes, I can orgasm. Yes, I can self-lubricate. Yes, I have totally normal vaginal muscles (the vaginal canal transects the pelvic floor muscles, that's why you can grip and do kegels, though my pelvic floor is stronger than most through a lifetime of kegels).
- No, I'm neither immune nor unusually prone to STIs, BV, yeast infections, or UTIs.
- Yes, I can cis pass while having sex. No, I don't pre-disclose before casual sex, though I also tend to meet partners in trans-positive environments.
- Yes, everything feels like it "should"; nothing feels out of place or misaligned, unlike before surgery, and really the only surprise was how unsurprising everything feels.
- No, I don't miss my old equipment at all. I do enjoy wearing a strap on sometimes, but that's pretty common among wlw."
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