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Elspethdixon

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Nepotism hire at the war crimes factory.
Name: Elspethdixon (she/her) Age: old enough to remember the break up of the Soviet Union, but not old enough to remember the Vietnam war Likes: Juggernaut slash pairings, hurt/comfort, woobie villains, old 616 canon, and the het ships only bad fangirls like. Dislikes: MCU characterization in 616 comics. Mindwipes. Sauron/Galadriel. My fic: http://archiveofourown.org/users/Elspethdixon/
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Just got an ad that was like “Have you ever noticed how people from the 1800s have such clear skin?” GIRL YOU MEAN THE PALLOR FROM TUBERCULOSIS???

They have clear skin because the people painting the portraits deliberately left the acne and smallpox scars and wrinkles out.

If it’s a photograph then consider how well hyperpigmentation and acne scars would really show up in blurry black-and-white film. You can’t see her pores because 1870s camera technology didn’t have high enough resolution to show them.

otherwise interesting post ruined by the bold insistence that you can never accidentally abuse someone & that all abusive people are self-aware evil masterminds

I don't think my parents are aware that what they did was abuse. in fact I think one of the reasons they abused me was because they lacked the self-awareness, introspection, and education needed to realize what they were doing counted as abuse. if they did have more self awareness &etc, they would have likely stopped. it is not productive to insist they woke up in the mornings with the intent to psychologically torture a kid for no reason, when that is self-evidently not the case or within their motivations.

I'm speaking annecdotally here but I think many cases of abuse are like this. I think when reckoning with the reality of how abuse functions in our society, you must come to terms with the mundanity of it including the fact that abusive people are primed to overlook the harm of their own actions through the shield of mundanity and (lack of) intent.

"But abusers actions are often very good at isolating the victim, making sure the abuse is not observed by outsiders, etc." Yes. And that's compatible with not knowing that it's abuse.

"This got me looked at weird in the store so I'm only gonna do it to my kid in private from now on." is a thought people can have without the penny dropping, because most people really don't want to think of themselves as abusers. So abusers can have tons of moments like this without the realization that they are abusers.

In this way people who act abusive can, over a long period, develop habits that help them be abusive without realizing that they're doing it.

A huge amount of the psychological damage and trauma some children undergo is inflicted by well-meaning parents who think they’re doing what’s best. Especially for autistic or adhd children, or lgbt children.

Do you guys have like. AMVs of the mind. Like fanvideos that you have edited in your head for specific media to certain songs and every time you hear the song (or at least sometimes) you think about this nonexistent fanvideo. Used to happen to me a lot in high school and now I still do it sometimes just for fun

Even worse: I have elaborate frame-by-frame animatics for text-only fandoms. I will never ever be able to create them, but I know what every pixel of the animated music video I can never make ought to look like.

You write thorough analyses of concepts and events, so I thought I would ask for your take on Senator Booker's speech today. Some people say it was disrespectful. What do you think? Thank you in advance for your opinion.

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I think what Booker did was extraordinary on several levels. First, the sheer physical endurance it takes to speak for that long, almost uninterrupted, while remaining cogent, is absolutely incredible. Second, the actual content of what he said, based on what I've seen, was fantastic; he was impassioned, engaging and incisive, and the extent to which he kept on topic over that many hours is staggering. Third, the fact that he broke the record for the longest speech on the Senate floor, which is not only an achievement in its own right, but doubly meaningful given his status as a Black man when the previous record was set by a segregationist, Strom Thurmond, protesting the Civil Rights Act in 1957. And last but not least, the moral clarity inherent in rebuking, loudly and at length, the myriad abuses of a historically corrupt, fascist government while working to delay their business.

All that being so, I think there are only three plausible reasons for someone finding Booker's speech disrespectful. The first is predicated on agreeing so completely with the Trump administration's policies that disrupting their operation via a lawful, established form of political protest is cast as inherently bad - which would be very much in keeping with the logic of those who, to take just one example, see nothing illegal or indeed remarkable about Trump's insistence that the executive branch should be able to unilaterally overrule both the Senate and the judiciary. The second is predicated on being such a spineless appeasenik milquetoast that some nebulous concept of "civility" is considered more important, and thus more urgent, than doing literally anything to protest an administration so nakedly corrupt that the president is publicly shilling for crypto and Tesla in order to line his own pockets. And the third is, simply, racism, whether subconscious or overt, which here translates to the reflexive assumption that a Black man being loud and disruptive must of course be inherently bad, and certainly a worse offense than whatever he might be protesting.

So, in conclusion, no, I do not think Booker's speech was disrespectful - but even if it could be fairly labelled as such, as I don't believe this current administration is remotely deserving of anyone's respect, I'd still be cheering him on.

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Do goyim not know that when someone converts, their biological family is no longer considered their family??? They become ben/bat Avraham v'Sarah, they no longer "have a connection" to their family who raised them, they are so wholly adopted into Judaism.

Like.

When you explain Jewish ethnicity and how converts become ethnically Jewish to a goy and they literally argue race science... Because Jews can't define what a Jew is, but 20th century white supremacists can.

I had to break this down for a Xian friend and finally said, "So you can believe that bread and wine become the literal body and blood of some dude, but you can't conceive how dunking in the mikveh made every cell in my body and my soul not just Jewish but retroactively Jewish such that my soul was Jewish from the beginning of time, and thus my ethnicity is Jewish, and my family is other Jews?"

Seems fake but okay.

😭😭

What did she respond to that

Huffily at first, but they eventually understood the concept. They thought it was "weird" that I'm retroactively considered to always have had a Jewish soul and therefore to have always been Jewish, but I'm like, yeah, bud, we just dug it out, it was hiding.

I’m curious as to this friend’s take on trans people, because (admittedly as a christian cis person so I may be wrong here) to me “made my soul not just Jewish but retroactively Jewish such that my soul was Jewish from the beginning of time” sounds an awful lot like the same principle behind transitioning: you’ve transformed from A into B, and going through this process proves that your true self has actually been B all along, so people change their understanding of past-you from “was A”/“was not B” to “was actually B the whole time, we just hadn’t realized that yet.”

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NJ Democrat senator Cory Booker takes the floor in protest of Trump/Musk, "saying that he will keep going “'as long as I am physically able'.”

“I rise with the intention of disrupting the normal business of the United States Senate for as long as I am physically able,” Booker said at the outset of his remarks. “I rise tonight because I believe sincerely that our country is in crisis.”

“In just 71 days, the president of the United States has inflicted so much harm on Americans’ safety; financial stability; the core foundations of our democracy. “These are not normal times in America. And they should not be treated as such in the United States Senate.” -source

I am posting this at 2:30am EST. He has been speaking since 7PM EST. This link (at this moment) is to a live stream.

FUCK YEAH, JERSEY!

So very proud of my state at the moment.

Reblogging and adding the livestream link from Senator Booker's YouTube (the other one was glitching) . It is almost 4am. He is still going STRONG. If you are watching and plan to go to sleep, turn the volume down and leave it up so that the "watching" number reflects the involvement of people supporting him.

If he can LITERALLY stand and protest as a single voice, we can keep it playing and symbolically stand with him.

Senator Booker is on Hour 13 and going STRONG

Yeah! That’s what I’m talking about. No business as usual! Slow the Fascists down! He should get some Democrat colleagues to join him so they can periodically cede to each other and spell each other off to keep it up longer!

STILL GOING! If you can open up the livestream to show support. And call his office and ask him to give an encouraging shoutout to the upcoming April 5th peaceful protests!

So apparently the current record for longest solo filibuster was set on August 28, 1957 by the racist Senator Strom Thurmond from South Carolina who began a filibuster intended to prevent the passage of the Civil Rights Act of 1957. It lasted for a total of 24 hours and 18 minutes. (x) That record still stands now. If Booker keeps going just a little longer he will BREAK that record! How fitting would that be?

Also it is amazing. He's been going for like 17 hours now and he is still doing an incredible job of speaking about so many important issues and just taking the Trump regime to task for their failures and their crimes. Hats off to him. Every Democrat Senator should be doing this. We cannot have business as usual. Every minute spent bringing attention to what MAGA is doing to dismantle our democracy and delaying the confirmation of the Trump administration's nominees and political agenda is a minute well spent.

Watching the live feed is so inspiring.

He just said now it’s become ‘ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for Donald Trump.' SO TRUE! It's been 18 hours and he is ON FIRE!

Yes he's raising really good points and he's being so damn eloquent. It's nice to hear him just stand there and lay it all out - the myriad ways the GOP is waging war against the American people. I love what he's doing for several reasons.

First of all, it delays things. While he's talking the GOP can't advance more corrupt nominees for confirmation or push through more evil legislation. Second of all, it create a forum to raise awareness of what's going on, to articulate what is happening to us and what is at stake and why we must all stand against this and it sends a clear message that this is NOT a time for business as usual and we can't normalize what's going on.

But also, thirdly, it's nice to see a Senator willing to suffer in solidarity with us, even just a little. We the American people are being subjected to suffering by this evil administration. Going without food, water, sleep or breaks is a grueling ordeal. And seeing a Senator willing to put himself through even a little discomfort in order to raise awareness of what's going on and do his part, seeing him willing to suffer, even in a small way, in support of his constituents and his ideals feels nice. It feels so much more like the leadership we need to be seeing. Never underestimate the power of symbolism and gesture.

It's just a start. We need SO much more. There is a long and difficult path to walk before we win - and we WILL win. But this is good. And it lifts my spirits.

Also I love his sense of humor. It's nice to see a politician joking around a bit with colleagues or telling a funny story and just acting real and human in a way they don't get to in this world of carefully scripted soundbites optimized for a world that prefers short-form content instead of real feeling and substance. You don't get long-form stuff like this anymore. And it's refreshing and wonderful.

Also shoutout to him for critiquing his own party too in a constructive manner and calling out the fact that the stake are too high for more not to be done and then actually offering a path forward for how to do more and do better.

"The power of the people is greater than the people in power."

I LOVE that! What a speech!!!

THANK YOU CORY BOOKER! YOU ARE WHAT THIS COUNTRY NEEDS!

Cory Booker fasted and stood all day and all night and spoke till his voice nearly gave out for his constituents. And Republicans can't even show up to town halls. The contrast could not be starker. Let Senator Booker be an inspiration to us all. "The power of the people is greater than the people in power."

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