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✨🤎~ 𝓜𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓻𝓵𝓲𝓼𝓽 ~🤎✨

𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐁𝐨𝐱: Open || Masterlist 2 || My Blog's Chart || Status: Writing posts. Schedule

Type of asks that I could answer: How to deal with tense aspects in natal, synastry or composite [one per ask]. My opinion about something. "Placements that indicate". How to spot certain things through the chart. "What aspects in synastry could indicate..."

Asks I won't answer: What do you think of my chart? Anything related to persona charts. Anything related to asteroids or Midpoints. Interpreting more than one aspect or placement by ask.

I will always be open to suggestions and opinions, so don't hesitate!

──── Aspects in the chart ────

Aspects to Chiron || Aspects to Juno || Aspects to the Ascendant || Aspects to the MC || Conjunctions || Oppositions || Sextiles || Squares || Trines and talents

── What placements indicate... ──

Attracting jealousy || Being adorable || Being intimidating || Being memorable || Difficulty with friendships || Good intuition || Having secret admirers || Healing vibes || Influencers || Melancholical-tragical vibes || Not connecting with others easily

─── Other posts ───

Beauty and attractiveness || Ceres in the chart || Chiron in the chart || Detailed post about Juno || Love languages & Astrology || Part of Fortune in astrology || Tense aspects in synastry || Underrated beauty indicators || Vesta in the chart

𝐀𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: I | II | III | IV | V | VI | VII | VIII | IX | X | XI | XII

𝐃𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: I | II | III | IV | V | VI | VII | VIII | IX

𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬: Sun || Moon || Mercury || Venus || Mars || Jupiter || Saturn

𝐑𝐮𝐥𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬 -> 1st house | 7th house | 10th house

── 𝐀𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐲𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐬 ──

🤎 I had been working on the composite charts masterlist for a while, so I thought it was time to compile the posts I have made about synastry and organize them in another masterlist, as well as write more about it. I hope this masterlist can be helpful to you in analyzing your relationships. Remember that it also applies to friendships or platonic relationships!

── 🤎 What is a synastry chart? 🤎 ──

It's the comparison or interposition of your chart with the chart of another person with the motive of wanting to understand and analyze your compatibility. This can be done between lovers, friends or family, since its main purpose is to see compatibility and possible issues between two people regardless of their relationship.

🤎What’s the difference between a Synastry Chart and a Composite chart?🤎

The clearest difference is that in the synastry chart we use two charts, yours and the other person's, while the Composite chart is a single chart.

In the synastry chart we compare your natal planets with the planets of the other person to find out how you get along as individuals, on your own without needing to be in a relationship. While in the Composite Chart we study the dynamics of you as a couple/relationship of any kind. It tells us about the way the relationship works and possible problems that may arise.

♀ 𝐒𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐎𝐛𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬: I | II | III | IV | V | VI | VII | VIII

♀ 𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲 -> In this post!

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Aspects of Sun in synastry || Your Sun falling in their houses

How to deal with Sun square -> Sun || Moon || Mercury || Venus || Mars || Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

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Aspects of Moon in Synastry || Your Moon falling in their houses

How to deal with Moon square -> Moon || Mercury || Venus || Mars || Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

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Aspects of Mercury in Synastry || Your Mercury falling in their houses

How to deal with Mercury square -> Mercury || Venus || Mars || Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

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Aspects of Venus in synastry || Your Venus falling in their houses

How to deal with Venus square -> Venus || Mars || Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

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Aspects of Mars in synastry || Your Mars falling in their houses

How to deal with Mars square -> Mars || Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

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Aspects of Jupiter in synastry || Your Jupiter falling in their houses

How to deal with Jupiter square -> Jupiter || Saturn || Uranus || Neptune || Pluto ||

Hello love, this is such an interesting question to answer. 

In general, people who hide their hatred or resentment through 'observations' bother me. Although we are not capable of always being objective nor is it our duty as we are not professional astrologers, I consider it unnecessary to go around throwing hate to others with astrology. Not only because it is negative but because it is insulting to astrology and common sense itself. Everything in astrology is options and many people can manifest a placement differently. 

The ones I've seen bother me the most are the Geminis. I find it surprising that people have this hatred towards them. Or as you mentioned, people who classify Libra as superficial. I've seen it too much.

The second, condemn any relationship to failure due to the aspects in synastry. This just leads me to think that either people are afraid of squares or they are actually in the process of figuring out how a relationship works. They always require effort. Squares and oppositions are not direct passes to failure, rather points to focus on or work on with our partner.

Hello my loves! I have been somewhat absent lately. Between uni, work and my creative projects, my schedule has been kind of a mess. I hope you all have been doing well lately! 💕

This square can show us a difference in personal and relationship values, as well as different ways of expressing ourselves. They may value different things or have preferences that the other doesn't share.

As for practical approaches, I can mention the following:

🤍Learn each other's language: With Venus involved, it can show us a difference in love languages. We often think our way of loving is enough to make the other feel loved, when the reality is that they may prefer other actions and/or their needs are often met in other ways. Pay attention to the details; don't be afraid to ask the other what you can do to make them feel appreciated and loved. Have fun in the process of discovering the other person and the different ways to put a smile on their face.

🤍Respect each other's styles of love and expression: Going hand in hand with the previous point, don't force each other to "change," but rather find a middle ground. Show each other that you are the space where you can be yourselves, be adaptable with each other, and try to accept and understand before judging. Perhaps one partner needs more gentle words, while the other needs more space to think before speaking. Negotiating these rhythms avoids a lot of friction.

🤍Avoid assumptions and encourage clear and respectful communication: You may often fall into the tendency to assume the true meaning behind each other's words. Agree on communication rules, such as "if something bothers me, I will tell you directly but respectfully" (tactful honesty is crucial).

Some aspects in astrology that can help with this are the following:

🩶Mercury sextile or trine to the Moon: This aspect facilitates an emotional and empathic connection in communication. The person with the Moon feels that the other person understands how they feel, and the Mercury person can express their ideas without hurting the other. This greatly softens the friction between reason and emotion typical of Mercury-Venus tension.

🩶Harmonious aspects between the Sun and the Moon: They provide a fundamental understanding of identity (Sun) and emotions (Moon). Even if Mercury and Venus cross, if this connection exists, there is a solid emotional foundation that can withstand minor disagreements. There is strong appreciation, mutual understanding, and great compatibility in terms of coexistence.

🩶4th house ruler-Mercury trine, sextile, or conjunction: Any of these aspects are pure gold for any couple with this square, as it allows emotions to communicate fluidly. There's an ability to explain what you feel without drama or judgment, a stable and solid foundation built with patience and listening to others.

🩶Venus or Mercury making positive aspects with Chiron can bring emotional and communicative healing, especially if there are previous wounds from not feeling heard or valued. They are capable of accepting their mistakes and working together to ensure they don't happen again; understanding, appreciation, and both place great importance on the other's emotional well-being.

🩶Jupiter-Venus aspects help romance flow naturally; you love to make the other feel happy, supported, and pampered by the other. These fluid aspects help create a positive, lasting relationship filled with many meaningful and beautiful experiences for both parties; furthermore, the attraction and affection can be powerful from the beginning. You grow through love, patience, and joy.

🩶Neptune making harmonious aspects to the other's Mercury, Moon, or Ascendant can help as a kind of balm. There is empathy, warmth, and a facility for understanding each other's points of view. It provides a great intuition through which they can detect each other's emotions and what triggers them. There is a theme of strong and unconditional support in this relationship, which makes them more understanding of each other's needs.

🩶Planets in the other's 5th house (especially any of the Big 5): Romance is the order of the day. These overlays help the other person not only make you feel excited, but also make you feel filled with love. This person loves your being and also encourages you to be yourself; even if there are things you don't share or in which you are very different, reassure each other that this is precisely what makes you so unique and lovable.

🩶Planets in the other's 9th house: This not only gives you adaptability, but also creates a sense of joy and positivity between you. The lightness of this overlay can make it easier for you to put yourself in the other's shoes and have a more honest and mature approach to issues that may arise. You perceive yourself as mature and feel you can talk calmly and without drama about what you think can be improved in the relationship.

🩶Planets in the other's 11th house: There's a strong bond between you, and you find it easier to accept each other. Neither of you seek to mold the other into what you want; you adore each other's positive and negative sides. There's mutual understanding and a willingness for the relationship you build together to be a place where you can be yourselves.

Thank you love, you're very sweet 🥹💕

I really appreciate your kind words and hope to continue posting here from time to time. I wish you a wonderful day and send you a warm hug.

Hello love! Thanks for loving my blog! 💕

Trines and sextiles are positive aspects regardless of the planets involved. More specifically, trines show fluidity. Energy is transmitted freely and naturally to the native, similar to things that come naturally to you.

If we focus on the Moon-Pluto trine, we can highlight the emotional depth you acquire after daring to delve into your own emotions. You introvert without difficulty; you can go to the root of your emotions and understand not only the emotion itself, but also what provoked it. You are someone who truly sees people, not their masks or appearances, but them; their core and what truly lies within them. Reading people and their emotions can be easy for you.

I wouldn't call it a tense or negative aspect, although it clearly influences if you have tense aspects of Pluto with other planets (such as the Sun, Mercury, Mars or Saturn).

An analysis of the 7th house → House of long-term relationships, marriages, and any type of union that involves more commitment.

🤎The sign this house is in can show us the traits of the people you might attract for formal relationships and aspects of their personality. It can also show us their focuses and priorities. For example:

🤎The ruler of the 7th house can also help us understand personality traits, even more than the planets in that house (though, I recommend also checking for planets there; the more information, the better). The ruler alone can give us very significant insights; take into account the planet, the sign, and the aspects it makes.

🤎The house in which the ruler is located not only tells us about this person's personality, but can also give us insights into where we can meet this person or under what circumstances.

Thanks, love! It's been very creative (finally), so I've been busy in the best way possible. I hope you're feeling great. May you enjoy your weekend. 💕

⚳ Ceres [1] is a dwarf planet that in astrology has a strong relationship with health, nutrition and sustenance (both physical and emotional). It represents the way we give care and support as well as how we like to receive it. Although it also tells us about our relationship with food, motherhood and the perception we have of our mother, in this post I will focus on care.

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🩶Ceres in Aries: Like the first ray of light at dawn, a warm impulse that pushes you to get up, to face your fears with its borrowed strength. Here we find very protective people, who do not hesitate to jump to defend what they love most if they feel that they are in danger. These people do not seek to be suffocating towards others, so they will not fall into the group of overprotective, on the contrary, they prefer to encourage others to be self-sufficient. Their caring may include encouraging you to take risks, overcome challenges, or advocate for your interests. They will care for your individuality, admire your personality and encourage you to be yourself. They are not usually overly communicative when it comes to showing that they care, their style is more direct and action-oriented. When faced with the discomfort or stress of those they love, they can solve problems quickly and not let things stagnate, the classic person who does not complain and resolves, making them extremely comforting in times of crisis.