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g1nger-bread๐ŸŒธ

@g1nger-bread / g1nger-bread.tumblr.com

What do I put here uuuuh I'm transfem I guess? 18+ content ahead | 24
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darecrow

Imagine going to a party and the white suburban stay at home mom with two overachiever kids and white dad who barbeques but doesnโ€™t know how to barbeque and yet is always surrounded by other white Dads who compliment his barbqeuing even though theyโ€™re just store bought preshaped frozen patties from Ralphโ€™s or Food 4 Less and while heโ€™s cooking those the white mom comes out and says โ€œokay kids, hereโ€™s some pizza!โ€ And she pulls this out and starts telling the kids why its a โ€œfun pizzaโ€ and then cries in her master bedroom when no one likes it or finishes it and the white dad is then consoling her why she sobs that sheโ€™s a terrible mother and ruined her fourth grade straight B+ sons birthday and thinks her kids hate her but they donโ€™t care but she continues crying softly into her pillow while the children eat poorly cooked burgers with unmelted kraft singles and too much mayonnaise and the only other condiments are two pickles and pepper because the dad calls it his special burger with a secret spice but the spice was just pepper and the kids just keep playing E rated games on their Nintendo Wii while the 17 year old older sister starts cleaning the tragedy up and throwing away uneaten โ€œfun pizzaโ€ and whole burgers dejected from the start while she dials Pizza Hut to get these kids an actual birthday lunch and the mother then throws a fit because the daughter did something the kids liked and she didnโ€™t and was the only one making a huge deal out of it and the daughter was then grounded from her TV in her room for only two days and the son went to blow out the candles in his standard birthday cake from food 4 less the mom added strawberries to so she could feel she did something but was still slightly teary and sad because her day was ruined by no one wanting to eat her โ€œfun pizzaโ€

what the fuck is going on with Americans?

Fandom spaces hate transfem people.

Literally the moment we start to see ourselves in s character, regardless of if it was canon or intended or not, people immediately start the vitriol. They'll deny the character's transfemininity, harass us, they'll forcefully insist the character is actually cis and if you disagree you are An Innately Unreasonable Degenerate who is just forcing our opinions on the poor innocent TMEs who love to see this character as cis. But they aren't transphobic or transmisogynist! And you better not label them as such, honest! They just conveniently want to stomp out every bit of transfeminine representation they can find.

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Reblogged

heyyy, so, the job i was supposed to start ended up fully ghosting me. Now I'm deeper in debt and have no clue what I'm gonna do about that or rent or food or meds or bills

if you want to tangibly help out a trans woman in need please share or donate to my ko-fi goal or share <3

Update! I have some potentially steady contract work! Yay!

HOWEVER. Since feb there's been an accumulation of debt that I had to dig deeper into to afford necessities. I am half way to being able to stabilise, and it truly would mean the world to me to get there <333

OH! And happy TDOV <3

trans women really get axed over the most spurious of allegations. like it doesn't even have to be remotely true. people just hate trans women.

if you're transfem and there's so much as a rumor you might be a bad person you suddenly become fucking radioactive to everyone, it's so wildly unfair.

some of you are fucking spineless. i think it's fucking spineless to immediately drop support of transfems in your community knowing the marginal space they have in society at the moment, knowing there's fascist fearmongering against them coming from everywhere, knowing almost every transfem faces some amount of harassment either online or on the streets.

president xi please liberate ontario with your dongfeng 41 intercontinental ballistic missiles and your chengdu j20 stealth air superiority fighters

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therivenlady

In all honesty, it's amazing that me, as a lesbian and a [gestures vaguely] woman am somehow expected to give a shit about men, a class (as in the political sense of the word) of people that hold extreme political power over me, and whose importance to my life basically boils down to "I hope one of them doesn't decide to fuck my life over forever". My entire life is focused and centered around girls, I don't care about men. I don't give a shit, loser's gender, pick a better one.

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dopamine-direwolf

"Making a better burger is literally so simple, I don't know why McDonald's doesn't do it this way. First we're going to begin by craft dry-aging this A5 wagyu beef with the sho-shu-ryuba technique that I learned at a restaurant you're only allowed to work at if your parents are bluelinked on wikipedia..."

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dopamine-direwolf

This post continues to occasionally strike a nerve in the trust fund baby influencer fandom.

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