in this moment, you are loved

“Hozier is a lesbian” “Hozier is a man written by a woman” “Hozier is like if a man was raised by lesbian mothers” “Hozier is like if a man was a woman” quick give me one reason why a man can’t be soft and gentle and poetic and in love without sounding like a terf or a misogynist

in regards to disability (and tbh most other things in life) we cannot use the language of the oppressor to escape dehumanisation. there are lots of ableist narratives that are used to demean disabled people, deny them help, and blame them for their disabilities and difficult situations. phrases like: "they don't want to get better." "have you tried everything?" and such are abundant. implying that mobility aids is giving up, that refusing treatment is a moral sin, that some people "brought it upon themselves". all this is used to justify ableism, but ableism is never justified. so this means our hardline shouldn't be "hey I tried everything and I'm still disabled," even if the false accusation can sting. this still, inadvertently, legitimises the notion that to be worth basic dignity as a disabled person you must have jumped through all the hoops that ableds set before you. actually nobody should have to try everything, or even anything, to get basic respect and treatment. nobody has to justify why their disabilities are not their fault or outside of their control because these things shouldn't matter and should have absolutely no impact on how well a disabled person is treated. all disabled people, no matter what they do or why they're disabled, deserve accommodation and basic human respect on the same level as their abled peers. it's non negotiable, so stop negotiating with ableists.

truly nothing funnier than having an archive of when you first started getting into a media that has since consumed your entire life

you see an old post of yours thats dated like a month after you got introduced to Media and it says like “huh im kinda liking Blorbo Bingus? but he’s not really my favorite. he seems sillyyy though he’s neat i’m sure he’s nice :)” and you just

reblog with the last song you listened to in the tags

REMINDER: luigi mangione has been accused of killing the CEO, not convicted, and the evidence presented is extremely questionable. luigi mangione is NOT the claims adjuster until proven guilty beyond reasonable doubt in a court of law, and the widespread presumption of his guilt makes it much more likely he will be falsely convicted.

ive turned my mom into a fob fan over the past week and she said 'i like the music but does he ever have like a good day'

guys what hPpened i thought we all hated the minecraft movie.. i thought we all agreed it was a cash grab.. i thiught we all understood that by going to watch it in theatre would give it profit and encourage more cash grab movies likw it..

and i’m seeinf a lot of people talking about the “old man yaoi”. you’re all being queerbaited, you know that, rifht? right???? havent we all decudef longggg ago that queerbaiting isn’t cool??

i think it’s really funny when fandom people make fun of nonfandom people for not recognizing a fandom url. shit like “jackstanifold” or “strifesuccubus” or “hobocop” are not immediately recognizable as fandom references dude

“how did you not immediately recognize tumblr user ‘bigbluesoup’ as a fandom reference 😂” girl how was i expected to.

anyways put in the tags if you have a fandom url and how recognizable you think it is

I LOVE MY FRIENDS SO MUCH I'M JUST STUPID AND FORGET THAT FEELINGS NEED TO BE EXPRESSED IN ORDER FOR THEM TO BE FELT

Cyclists please ring your bell before passing pedestrians on shared footpaths I beg of you. If you don’t have a bell you really need to get one. This is goes for any pedestrian but especially if you’re passing someone who is disabled.

I use a wheelchair and so many cyclists either pass me silently or try to announce their presence by yelling at the last minute and it’s not just impolite, it’s potentially dangerous.

Without a bike bell I do not know you are coming. I cannot hear you coming over the noise of my wheelchair (which is almost identical to a bike noise. I don’t know you’re there at all until you’re already passing me. Even if I’m at the side of the path already, I need to know you are there so I don’t move into your path last minute (for example to avoid a tree root or dog poo).

Just yelling isn’t enough for me to know you’re a cyclist and act accordingly, even if you yell “cyclist” or something similar. For me, my headrest muffles sounds coming from behind me or to the side so I will not be able to figure out if you’re even talking to me let alone what you’ve said in time to move out the way safely. If I hear a bike bell I know immediately to move to one side of the path to let you past.

Best practice as far as I am concerned is to sound your bell with plenty of warning allowing me to move to the side of the path if I can. And, if you are able to, as you’re getting up to overtaking state loudly and clearly which side you’re passing on.

you, yes You dear reader, should be wearing a mask in public in general, and especially if you are showing symptoms of any transmissible illness

"can we normalize-" NO!!!!!! we do not need to expand whats considered normal!!! we need to teach people to stop reacting judgmentally when encountering something new and weird!!!! things dont need to be normal to be respected!!!!!!!!!!

look, if i catch sight of a mutual's unfortunately popular post in the wild dragging their flailing body behind it, i am obligated to smack that pony's ass and send them for another round of the pasture. i'm sorry, it's nothing personal, but it's in my contract