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asterisk / he / 22

what's the craziest item from an ex-roommate that you could find in the center console of your car a year after moving out? i guarantee you will never guess what my boss' wife found from their ex roommate in her car. but go ahead and try.

HIS FATHERS ASHES

thinking about the time i saw some cool butch4femme art and was about to reblog it when i checked op's tags and they read #genderbend #wincest

tumblr users would never survive in the real world

sam and dean are doing lesbian incest in the real world?

my boss facetimed me while i was doing mine and my wife's hrt injections today and i wasnt wearing a shirt or pants and he starts laughing about how im "buck fucking naked" like he hasn;'t shown me his nudes WHO CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!

also i was wearing underwear -_-

"you probably know a lot of people who use criminalized/stigmatized substances without you realizing" is true and important for people to understand

but I just want to make sure we're all on the same page that people who aren't able to hide their substance use (even from random strangers!) still deserve the same solidarity as any other community member

Like people who yell, are disoriented in public, have obvious hygiene issues, or are like visibly actively using drugs in public deserve protection and care and autonomy just like anyone else. Are you really being harmed by any of those things?

And not to be too anticarceral on main but even people who harm others shouldn't be unpersoned for it, like obviously there are conversations to be had about how we can protect each other from further harm but that's still a human being in your community who deserves to have basic safety, food, shelter, autonomy, and all the other protections human beings should have a right to expect.

You shouldn't have to earn those things by never doing anything harmful in your life. They should not be revocable.

It's notable that those with the least power to do harm are the most harshly violated themselves in response to accusations of harm, regardless of the truth of the situation.

Is harm actually worse if the person who harmed you is a drug user? Or have you just bought the propaganda that there's an underclass of disposable deviants* who deserve as much brutality as we care to offer?

*I wanna bring up homelessness here, because the violence we do to people who do not have a safe & consistent home to stay in is most often justified with massive ableism and the assumption that these human beings use illegal substances or use legal ones to a stigmatized degree or with stigmatized results.

Like yes, Miss Maude the secretary at your church might have an illicit opioid habit, and you should be aware that substance use happens even among the nice normal people in your community. It's not rare, and it doesn't mean anything bad about the person who uses those substances.

But I don't want you to only be okay with substance users existing because some people who use illegal or stigmatized substances (or licit ones with stigmatized outcomes) can be indistinguishable from people who don't.

The guy on the corner begging for food money who's visibly intoxicated and sitting near his shopping cart of possessions and swearing and ranting is also part of your community, and he deserves protection and care and autonomy just as much as Miss Maude.

If you believe in solidarity with the oppressed, that man starving or having all his possessions thrown away or being trapped in a cell to be abused should be just as horrifying as it would be if someone did that to your friendly neighbor Tom whose high-volume daily alcohol use no one in the world but him is aware of.

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