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not my usual kind of post but i just felt like sharing..

so i feel like WITHIN the lesbian community... there's kinda this expectation for all of us to be... idk how to word it but like if you're femme, apparently that means you're secretly this dominant, top, lead-taking, etc. person, just because our community wants us to go against any kind of heteronormativity?? if that makes sense?? ofc i am so against that first of all, yes we are all gay and obviously not heteronormative. but what i have a problem with is that when some lesbians get so into this, like in extreme cases even saying that if you still want to take the "feminine" role in your relationship then you're conforming to straight society and suddenly aren't a lesbian?? like are we fr?

earlier today i saw so many lesbians commenting under a post, saying that we shouldn't have tops/bottoms, that it's straight behavior, and that you don’t like women if you like being a receiver... which i don't even have to explain why that's so wrong.

obviously it's not just about sex. i feel like within this community there's a lot of pressure to always be breaking these norms- even when we already are breaking norms by being LESBIANS. these people say that this behavior is heteronormative, but in my opinion, it's worse to think like that and project straight roles onto wlw relationships.. so what if i don't want to be a switch, so what if i want my gf to provide for me, so what if i like being taken care of? at the end of the day i'm still a lesbian, nothing about me or my relationship is heteronormative, and i wish some of y'all would stop thinking this way.

i hope this made sense lol, thoughts pls!!

how do i tell my girlfriend that i want her to pet me and call me her good puppy... help

imagining me and her getting ready to go out, i'm leaning against my desk focused on doing my makeup, she comes up behind me and grabs my hips... i feel that she's packing, she starts grinding it against me while i struggle to keep my hands steady. she's just shamelessly using me for her pleasure, her amusement, watching me fall apart :3

i love being overpowered, when my girlfriend uses her strength to pin me down and do whatever she wants to me 🥴

kneeling on the floor in front of her as she sits down, her hand in my hair, petting me and calling me her good girl would fix me

whenever my girlfriend calls me pet names it makes my brain stop working. she usually calls me baby or beloved and when i tell you my mind goes blank and she has complete power over me every time.. it's serious

thinking about my girlfriend coming home from a long day, finding me in the skimpiest little dress i wore for her.. i'll have her sit on the couch while i climb into her lap, letting her admire me and touch ne wherever she wants 💗 after all, i missed her and she deserves something nice

yes!! pls send them my way 💗💗

bffs i'm sick right now... not fun at all sorry if i'm ignoring you in dms 😭

i need a gf who will spoil me, baby me, just general princess treatment, but is also rough with me and manhandles me and disciplines me when i act like a brat you know??

if you were my girlfriend, your lap would never be empty and your fingers would never be dry