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Sir, you are employing a double negative.

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Julie, 38. Veteran of the 2012 fandom era.
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Genuinely the whole problem with doing most Tasks is the lack of external reward. Like, the “reward” is just “surviving for another day.”

Nobody is telling me ‘good job’ for sweeping the tree trash off my stupid patio until sweat is pouring into my eyes. I don’t get an A in Meal Planning for cooking all week and packing lunches. Not having gross dishes in the sink is “its own reward” I fucking guess but the constant endless labor just to not live in a pile of garbage surviving on Triscuits and string cheese is fucking bullshit and the worst part is I still can’t keep the floors or bathrooms clean!! I’m working constantly and my shower is still disgusting. Why is it NEVER OVER like how does anyone stay sane with the knowledge that you’ll just never be “done” and that’s just life??

friends, if I can give you one piece of advice for those of you who are new to work, or are about to enter the workforce, especially if you have any sort of office job:

Do not work on your days off.

"But--"

DO NOT WORK ON YOUR DAYS OFF.

Do not work on your breaks

Do not “answer a few emails” on your vacation

Do not work off the clock

Doing this doesn’t reward you with more money or whatever. It rewards you with more work.

i was so sad, i drew a little bat so i wouldn’t be sad. and now i am no longer sad.

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generalgrievousdatingsim

here is a little bat to banish your sadness

This nice little bat reminds me of this other nice little bat who was drawn in the 1200s:

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trekmemes

This is the only website where I routinely see people say things like “oh this reminds me of something I recently saw from the 1200s”

My 30-something wisdom is that your palette is constantly changing so don't assume because you hated a food 10 or 20 years ago you still will. Most radically, your taste as a little kid is not indicative of what it will be as an adult-- I've known too many adults who still refuse to eat anything but chicken strips and ketchup because they're still basing their taste on what they experienced at 8 years old and so have cut themselves off from the entire world of adult taste. In my case, my taste for savory foods, especially vegetable dishes, "bitter" foods, and more complex flavor combinations has really expanded. I didn't like mushrooms as a child or for most of my 20s, but around 28 suddenly they worked for me. I started enjoying dark chocolate around 25, especially paired with fruit flavors. I've never been hugely fond of eggplant but discovered that in a sauce or roasted in butter and oil its delicious. I've always enjoyed fish but in the last 15 years I've discovered a passion for it, salmon especially. I've learned to recognize the tastes of herbs and love putting them into everything I can (currently I'm most enthusiastic about dill.) I'm also suddenly crazy about all kinds of sandwiches. And I'm still trying olives every couple years in case suddenly they start working for me, though sadly no luck on that front yet. So basically, expect that your taste is going to change in adulthood and expect that it will keep changing. And you can also work to develop your palette by exposing yourself to new flavors and combinations and cuisines, opening you up to even more foods you might never have liked before. So keep trying new and old foods, because you never know when you might suddenly start liking something new or discover a new way it can be prepared or a new texture it can come in. Don't wind up imprisoned in a world of chicken strips just because you haven't tried anything else since 3rd grade, you deserve better.

For those of you who dont get to see fireflies. Yes they are real and yes they are gentle

absolutely fucking wild to me that there's a bug that glows. like it's a real thing that is just Outside.

if you live somewhere where they're a thing, maybe it's unremarkable, but the concept is mindblowing to me lol

The wonderful thing is that even if you live where they are a thing, they're still magical. They really are that wonderful. I promise we do appreciate them so so much!

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