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Otherside Picnic and other stuff

@i-am-nemo

header by @mai-arts || Nemo || Adult || They/them || Otherside Picnic brainrot ||
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So due to the current situation

I had to start a new fund raiser

I made a good step so far thanks to your help everyone but I still need a little more support

I hope you can open the link and read

Don’t forget me guys ❤️

And please help me boost this post

This is your little artist Mai :’3 she needs your support more than ever

Please help me guys

I still have my brother and his family there and I’m so worried about them

I miss my little niece more than anything

I need the help so much

Lines of thought that seem Normal but are actually rooted in extreme puritanism:

-Seeing the nude human body is inherently traumatic -Sex scenes in art are pointless -Wearing kink-related clothing in public is the similar to performing a sex scene in front of unwilling participants -Depicting female characters expressing sexuality is always degrading -People's sexual fantasies are always an endorsement of the behavior they want to see in real life -Sex work is more traumatic and coercive than other types of work The goal is to treat sex as just another thing people do. That is a much healthier attitude than hiding it! It's not uniquely traumatic, it's not weird to talk about it or include it in society.

Since I'm therapist-posting recently:

Legitimately self-compassion is the biggest mental health life hack of all time. I'm NOT talking about self-esteem. You do NOT have to like yourself one bit. You don't have to believe that you're a good person who deserves good things. You just have to believe that you're a person who deserves the things all people deserve.

You can't get from "I'm the Worst" to "I'm a worthy and lovable person" without passing through "I'm just a regular fuckup like everybody else."

Try it on. If you're really addicted to being mean to yourself, you can start by framing it as I'm Not Special. Embrace being a regular fuckup like everybody else.

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I know how annoying I am

And I know that I always keep repeating the same things

But what’s happening is Syria these days is really scary

I really need you guys to help me, I need money and support so much

I am so worried about my family there

Please keep on supporting me, I need your help

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