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Thank you for telling us about what’s going on, I can’t imagine what you or any other woman, teenage girl or young girl might be feeling right now after knowing what’s happened, and my heart goes out to those that have to live in fear and distressed even having to reevaluate the relationships with men they have. I’ll be reading up more about this.
It’s DISGUSTING how some people can still face this situation by either victim blaming, using the “boys will be boys” narrative, or even worse use another country for comparison to make theirs look better (@that anon that commented this, like please sexual misconduct and assault cases aren’t a good thing to compare numbers with, let’s not wish this upon ANYONE and work on being better in practice), and even if it was intended to be a harmless statement look at the social implications this perspective produces- it tells me you simply don’t see it as an issue or that it doesn’t matter to you because you think you’re not related to the problem, and this ambivalent-ish attitude of yours excuses shitty behaviour and might I even say enables sexist behaviour, shitty treatment towards women and I think you could do better.
I’ll end off light, what’s happened for you is a social reality and I can’t imagine how overwhelming it must be for you, but nonetheless I hope you’re safe and sound and that all young girls, teenagers, women would not have to fear, worry, for this to happen to them, once again no one deserves this behaviour.
From one woman to another, a student to another, please please take care, and know that there are still people on tumblr that are concerned with your well-being. Remember to stay hydrated and take breaks, it just be tiring having to be on high alert.
Hello! Thank you for this kind message and thank you for explaining my anger towards that reply so much more calmly haha
I hope you stay safe too, and again, thank you so much for this :)
i’m in such disbelief right now and beyond disgusted.
i really hope y’all are choosing your morals over kpop; because we do not know these men at all. i will never side with or defend a predator and a criminal, even with little to no proof. even if there is the smallest chance he may be innocent, i will always believe the victim first.
some of you, as fans of the boys for years and him in general, i know you must be feeling disappointed and betrayed. you’re not dumb for previously supporting him, as we couldn’t have possibly known. but now is the time for a reality check and it’s time to wake up and take a step back. this just goes to show that we know absolutely nothing about them.
for sm to just outright put out a statement on their own before any rumors even surfaced and immediately kick him out? this has to be insanely serious and i’m terrified of what he could’ve done. the crazy thing is with everything currently happening in korea with the telegram situation, and korean women constantly being in danger in general because of the men there, i’m not at all surprised that celebrities are being exposed. sm has protected criminals before, and held onto lucas when his scandal came out as well as other artists who have been exposed for similar crimes. i can’t even imagine the severity of the current situation. we’ve seen what happened with the burning sun, and these men are not immune to being misogynistic, vile human beings.
members have already unfollowed him and deleted posts with him in them; his best friend of 17yrs has unfollowed him. the company taking the initiative and him getting kicked out of the group in less than a second before anything even came out, no denying the claims or even trying to defend him. that should be enough to tell you and understand how serious this actually is. i am beyond disgusted with him and this whole situation.
i sincerely hope the victim is doing okay and praying for them to heal and get the justice they deserve. and remember that your love for these celebrities should always be conditional, because we do not know them. it’s their job to put on a show and show you their public persona, but behind closed doors? we don’t know what they’re actually like. we put them on a pedestal and yet we don’t know what they’re really capable of. they are still men after all. i hope the police are taking this seriously. there needs to be consequences and these women need to be protected.
let this be a lesson to all of us. they don’t know us, and we don’t know them, not really.
ALWAYS choose morals over kpop. and as women, we should be standing with the victims.
maybe not all men, but enough of them. and maybe not all men, but somehow always a man. and going forward, i will of course still be supporting nct as a whole. however, keeping the situation in mind, i will be supporting from afar for a little bit. i hope the rest of the members are doing okay, and hopefully no other members were involved, but this today, just shows that they can always surprise us. you never think it’ll be your fave, until it is.
let’s hope this causes a domino effect and more of these people are exposed and charged for what they’re doing.
sending love to anyone who has ever experienced sexual violence or has been targeted and been in a similar situation. it is not your fault and it never was!
love you all and my dms are always open if you need to vent. <3
This comment irked me in the worst way possible. I was already having a bad morning and saw this so I’m going to be an ass today.
I live in the country. Go to school in the country. I’ve lived here for 10 years straight. Do you think I don’t know that not all of Korea is like this? What do you gain from comparing the atrocities happening here to America? If you want to compare the two then compare the size of the country itself, the amount of people there, and everything else, too. Surprise, with the amount of offenders coming out of this deepfake case alone, it’s not a reach to suspect men that you pass on the street in Korea.
Do you realize how disgusting you sound by making this comment? “Oh, I’m sorry this happened at all, but America is worse.” - does that mean this shouldn’t be taken serious then? Fuck every other country compared to the great fucking US?
Not attack your country? I’m not attacking my country for fucks sake - I want to love it here, but it’s fucking impossible with the news that comes out everyday - I’m stating a fact, A FACT THAT 220,000 KOREAN MEN WERE IN A TELEGRAM CHAT THAT MADE DEEPFAKE PORNOGRAPHY OF PEOPLE CLOSE TO THEM.
Was it the part I said the country is too lenient on men? Is that the problem? Want me to bring up examples? Seungri, famous kpop idol. He got a year and a half after mediating prostitution, sharing nude photos of girls (without their permission) with other men, and gambling. Oh, he’s famous? Fine, wanna hear about the Cho Doo-Soon case? A 56 year old man raped an 8 year old girl to the point of her having a disability for the rest of her life and he got 12 years in prison because he claimed he was drunk. You want to know where he was set free to? His old home, 800m away from his victim’s house. That’s a 10 minute walk away.
Would statistics help you understand the gender inequality better? The Global Gender Gap Index, Korea ranked 94th out of 146 countries. That’s 51 ranks below America, for your information.
For a final kick, want to know what happened in Korea this week alone? Or is this nothing compared to America, too?
Also what are you mentioning prostitues for? What does that have to do with this situation?
Hi, I’m making a post because something very serious happened in Korea and I’m hoping as many people are alarmed at this.
Deepfake photos have been made and sold on telegram (an anonymous chatting app), and almost 220,000 users were identified for being in Korea. About 70% of those were teenagers, and a list of schools (including colleges) that had victims within the chatrooms in the past couple of years was posted.
My school was on the list and it has been identified that two of my close friends were direct victims.
So that’s why I’m making this post. It’s a little bit of a rant and it’s mostly my anger getting the best of me.
Waking up, finding girls BEGGING their friends to take down photos from their instagram profile, the terror we felt when we found out men were hacking into privated accounts to take revenge, watching my friend breakdown as she tells me that she’s being investigated because her face was deepfaked into pornographic content - can you imagine that? Because that was me two days ago.
Korea, as a whole, is extremely lenient on their criminals - especially sexual offenders and minors - and it’s TOO LENIENT on men.
This situation is not being reported as much as it needs to be, and I’m trying to grasp onto straws by alerting people that know my stupid account on how fucked up this country is.
Men are making friends-only stories saying shit like ‘Why are y’all concerned? Y’all are ugly af’ (this is a real post i had the pleasure of seeing), and people in general have this fucked up view on AI generated content saying shit like “Isn’t this better than actually getting assaulted?”, and it makes me sick to my stomach.
I have to go to school. I have to walk around campus with the fear that maybe, just maybe, the man I walked past just now has seen a deepfaked photo of my friends. The perpetrator’s aren’t limited to simply the number of accounts within the group chat - what if they passed their phones? What if they texted the photos to each other after making them on the telegram? Our school has a big dormitory - what happens within those walls FILLED with men?? The more I have to think about it, the more sick it makes me.
I am not being the most informative and rambling more than anything. But my excuse is that there aren’t many reports and credible sources talking about this. So I’m going off on my personal experience as much as possible.
Please, people - especially women - be fucking warned about this situation. My country is one of the biggest perpetrators, but that doesn’t mean this deepfake issue isn’t (already) worldwide. It’s gonna get bigger, it’s gonna get more dangerous, and it should be making you sick to your stomach.
I hope all victims, including including my friends, get the justice they deserve.
Please, stay safe.
Hey y’all. I won’t be posting fics anymore.
I’m currently at a very important stage of my life in studying, life, and so much more. Additionally, too much drama is going on in the Kpop industry, and I know I shouldn’t be surprised but people on the internet being idiotic has made me so so tired. So yeah, I finally decided I had enough.
Plus, I need a mental health break and my interests are changing as of recent.
I won’t be taking the blog down, don’t worry. But I won’t be posting anymore. (I actually haven’t posted much recently sorry I didn’t write this sooner)
Thank you all for the love. I enjoyed my time and I hope you enjoyed this all, too.
Thanks again.
girl!reader (or any kinda reader) is Kazuha's secret normie gf and amidst all the stresses in their life, they find solace and comfort in one another. Kazuha arrives home, tired and stress and a bit insecure from a concert and secret normie gf reader is there to comfort and pamper and take care of her hope you like the ask!
lmao hi i love you
zuha definitely is the type to have the healthiest relationship with her gf tbh. she just has a bad day or maybe has a fight with one of the members? it’s nothing serious, but after she blows up on her manager over something unimportant, she probably RUNS to your apartment. just cuddling her, not asking any questions. your baby needs you and you can definitely give that to her.
the two of you probably have a long therapy session after the cuddlign. saying shit from ‘it’s okay to be angry sometimes’ to ‘fuck that bitch why did she say that to you’ and zuha being the puppy she is nodding along to you ranting about her manager.
akfjgkflls just imagined it and zuha’s face is probably adorable, just looking at y/n with puppy eyes.
Summary: Silly little fics of you and the gorls. You’re basically the tired father figure in their lives.
Warning(s): Cursing, car accident?, bribing a worker?,!crack humor, Hanni has a stalker, you get violent, etc.
A/N: This is like really unserious lmao. I wrote it really lighthearted. Also, this was written over the course of the whole Ador vs Hybe situation. So please understand I’m slowly becoming more unhinged as the story goes.
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oh my god im so sorry im posting so much statement posts but I just cam across a video mocking Min Heejin for contacting a shaman and joking about how they cursed BTS.
Criticize Min Heejin as much as you can, but mocking shamanism is not it. It’s a traditional religion in Korea that alot of people believe in, and it’s not about ‘oooh voodoo~ dark magic~’
I know it’s so demonized in our pop culture but it really is just another religion. It’s a tradition.
Focus on the problematic person. Please.
