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sleeby deeby

@lookforanewangle / lookforanewangle.tumblr.com

lyss/wangle. 28. she/they. currently on my 9-1-1 bs ๐Ÿ”ฅ ao3: lookforanewangle

I know we're already seven days into the new year but new goal: I want to post at least one fic a month this year, or at least one chapter of a fic a month (doing my best to get these long fics done and desperately trying to get my motivation back)

  • jan: (missed; job promotion + general craziness that was january)
  • feb: left with all our embers (9-1-1 daemon au prequel)

@lgbtqcreators event 10 - characters of colour (hen&karenwilsonโ™ฅ)

@userphotoshopโ€‹ event 11 | comfort (a favorite comfort ship ย โ™ฅ)

@pscentralโ€‹ event 13 : tropes

๐ŸŒธ (wedding finale) ย for all the drama and mishaps associated with them in fiction, weddings are supposed to be a happy affair. so closing a story with a wedding is common โ€” itโ€™s a fun celebration for the characters who have suffered through the showโ€™s twists. and since they do, it ties up the romance arc for the official couple and promises a new life chapter for the newlyweds.

๐ŸŒธ ย (they do) the conclusion of a romance arc with a happy ending. the point where we are finally done with breakups, misunderstandings, and second thoughts. if the story is done with them, they live happily ever after. if it isnโ€™t, when the rest of it happens to them, theyโ€™ll have each other. ย 

It's so nice being on tumblr because you don't even have to make your own post but people would still follow you anyways if you're good at rebloging posts they like

Anonymous asked:

What are they saying in that video? Can't listen right now..

Hey Nonnie

Didnโ€™t catch all of it, but this is what I caught!

Chim: โ€˜youโ€™re a joke. The entiredepartment knows it and you continue toโ€ฆ and choke on that thing.โ€™

Then Gerrard says something ending with โ€˜โ€ฆ start overโ€™

Chim fires back: donโ€™t bother. I mean what are you even doing? What right do you have to be running the 118? Youโ€™re not half the man Bobby wasโ€™

Gerrard says something else and the footage ends!!

Hope that helps!!!

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the other thing about this scene is that, like, buck didn't actually say anything particularly egregious, and that's what's SO JUICY to me about eddie's reaction. buck's not saying 'she knows me better than anyone else ever has or will'. he's not dismissing eddie's friendship at all. he's only talking about natalia as a potential romantic prospect who might really see him for who he is, and there's literally no reason for eddie to be SO STUNG by that that he holds onto it for months waiting for a chance to throw it back in his face.

unless. well.

actually as long as we're talking about realistic expectations of ageing, the nature of social media decontextualising people's personal posts has absolutely given some of you guys a false and potentially dangerous view of how your body is expected to change over time. I semi frequently see people sharing or repackaging commentary on experiences with disability as if it's an inevitable part of getting older. and like, yes, as you get older you are likely to develop new conditions, injuries or disabilities, but you need to understand your body's baseline well enough to identify those changes and interrogate them.

e.g. if you are seriously having such bad joint or back pain in your 30s that it hampers your day to day activities, you need to take that seriously. that is not 'just ageing', that's potentially an indicator of an underlying condition, unaddressed injury (which is quite common but will get worse if you don't notice and take care of it) or daily habits (poor posture, poor diet, sedentary lifestyle) causing cumulative damage to your body.

I know plenty of 30+ and 40+ year olds who are not especially athletic but who can still climb up and down stairs with ease, sit on the floor and get up again without discomfort, have floor or shower sex, ride a bike, wrestle a dog or a kid, climb a tree, maybe even do a handstand. there is no shame at all in developing pain or mobility issues which limit the kinds of things you can do comfortably, but it doesn't serve anyone to pretend that those changes are bound up with reaching a certain age. even in your 60s and 70s and beyond you should notice if you start feeling a new kind of pain or physical limitation. don't dismiss this shit just because someone told you "yeah that happens when you pass 30"

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