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my fic! a link to my AO3 works page, and below the jump you can find descriptions of each story with links :)
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my fic! a link to my AO3 works page, and below the jump you can find descriptions of each story with links :)
okay like. normally i don't wade into arguing with terfs. but i was tempted when i saw one say today that of course there are so many autistic women among them because you can't make being transgender understandable to an autistic person and girl WHAT kind of nonsense are you on. just stop. people are really just inserting their heads straight up each other's butts and not trying to hear anything to the contrary of fart noises now huh
@minors on this website:
Your blog is public, your posts are public. There is actually a setting to change this if you want to; otherwise literally anyone can and will interact. Stop advertising your age (and mental illnesses, etc) and block adults yourself if you want to.
If you wouldn't walk through a crowd of strangers wearing your personal info on a billboard or expecting nobody over 18 to so much as glance at you, don't do it online.
#it drives me absolutely crazy how the zeitgeist changed from#'your personal info should NOT be public; be VERY careful who has your real info online if ANYONE'#to 'if you're not showing your real face and voice on tiktok with an itemised list of all your triggers and identities#and as much identifying location information as we can get then clearly you're hiding something you predator'#as soon as it became profitable for companies to discourage safe internet practices#god forbid people keep their anonymity we need to SELL THEM PRODUCT
(via neraiutsuze)
Ricochet (1991) dir. Russell Mulcahy
Extremely dangerous how "grooming" in the context of child sexual abuse went from being a very specific pattern of isolation and trust-building with the aim of abusing someone to "telling children anything that contradicts their parents' ultra-conservative worldview is grooming" to "selling rainbow flags in a store is grooming" to "literally anyone I don't like is a groomer".
These days the word seems to most often be used by people who don't care about what it actually means and just want an easy "this person is irredeemably evil, kill them now" button.
some graphic designer was on her good good shit that day