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TEMA RE-INTRODUCTION YAY
(as a celebration for getting over 200 followers)
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Looking for dead dove / "problematic" yuri visual novel recommendations? I got you!
(Slight spoilers ahead)
โข The Shadows of Pygmalion (personal fav): two canon necrophiles who label themselves as such, implied pseudo-incest, l0li x teen, dubcon somno, sexual assault, violence
โข Nurse Love Addiction: pseudo-incest, twincest, teacher x (adult) student, toxic yuri, cannibalism, implied necrophilia, forced amnesia, cheating, manipulation
โข Lilja and Natsuka Painting Lies: minor x adult
โข Malcatra's Maiden: pseudo-incest, manipulation, dubcon, violence, child abuse, toxic yuri (also check out other games by nadia nova!)
โข Girl's Monachopsis: pseudo-incest, dubcon
โข Without a Voice: toxic yuri, cannibalism
โข Kindred Spirits on the roof: teacher x student
โข Sistely Bliss: sister x sister
โข Oto-hime: toxic yuri, cannibalism
"but what if men start identifying as lesbians/women start identifying as gays?"
Whatever. Why should we care? It isn't doing harm. The lgbtq community has always meant to be ourselves without any want to fit in, because being a faggot has always meant being weird. If you say "it's making homophobes harder to accept us," please know that we aren't existing to appeal to others, especially ones that irrationally hated us from the start. Fuck off.
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Antis: ew cope differently!!! You're an awful person for being proship
Me: ok, I'll use age regression, cuz you guys are ok with that
Antis: HEY NO YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED TO BE AN INNOCENT BABY THAT'S MANIPULATING!!!
Me: Ok, I'll return to just shipping
Antis: *anger noises*
(Actually happened to me but condensed)
๐ก DNI: Radq/TransID + supporters ๐ People who's DNIs I'm in. ๐ก
or:
"youre just playing out your pedophilic fantasies and acting like it's not sexual!!"
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The argument that โfiction affects realityโ is inherently flawed, as even those who advocate for it often contradict themselves without realizing it. Allow me to illustrate this with an example. If you were to ask an โantiโ whether media depicting homosexuality makes someone gay, their answer would most likely be โnoโ (unless they hold conservative views). However, if you then asked whether media depicting age-gap relationships makes someone a pedophile, their answer would almost certainly be โyes.โ
This contradiction exposes a clear rhetorical fallacy and highlights the hypocrisy at play. Historically, people have frequently blamed fictional depictions of controversial actions as a means of justifying their own moral perspectives, rooted in a sense of inherent moral superiority.
Doesnโt it make more sense that reality influences fiction, rather than the other way around? After all, fiction is fundamentally rooted in real-world experiences and concepts.
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Friendly reminder that if you label yourself as proship but you harass others for having squicks/limits/triggers, pleaae stop calling yourself that :)
You're not proship, you're an asshole!
Similarly, if you're an anti but enjoy murder, gore and other things- call comes from inside the house
I am feeling a bit controversial rn up to you to feed my need for attention /j
aaaaa thank you!! There are people who call themselves proshipper that went "I'm a proshipper but (says something offensive to other shippers over ship)" or plays the role of a rage-baiter. Twitter is always guilty of this.
I don't think you're a proshipper anymore if you're rage baiting since that's a job of an anti. I've been using the internet for years, rage baiters are mostly known for harassing people.
And also, you're not a proshipper if you're putting the life of a minor in danger especially when you're roughly around the age of 20s-30s or higher. Stop and self reflect the moment this minor is showing signs of fear and paranoia over you.
Educate them, not threaten them!
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I've been disabled for almost 29 years. Here's what I've learned.
- Tablets sink and capsules float. Separate out your tablets and capsules when you go to take them. Tip your head down when taking capsules and up when taking tablets. Liquigels don't matter, they kinda stay in the middle of whatever liquid is in your mouth.
- If your pill tastes bad, coat it with a bit of butter or margarine. I learned this from my mom, who learned it from a pharmacist.
- Being in pain every day isn't normal. Average people experience pain during exceptional moments, like when they stub their toe or jam their finger in a door, not when they sit cross-legged.
- Make a medical binder. Make multiple medical binders. I have a small one that comes with me to appointments and two big ones that stay at home, one with old stuff and one with more recent stuff.
- Find your icons. Some of mine include Daya Betty (drag queen with diabetes), Stef Sanjati (influencer with Waardenburg syndrome and ADHD), and Hank Green (guy with ulcerative colitis who... does a bunch of stuff). They don't have to be disabled in the same way as you. They don't even have to be real people. Put their pictures up somewhere if you want; I've been meaning to decorate my medical binders with pictures of my icons.
- Take a bin, box, bag, basket, whatever and fill it with items to cope with. This can be stuff for mentally coping like colouring books or play clay or stuff for physically coping like pain medicine or physio tape.
- Decorate your shit! My cane for at home has a plushie backpack clip hanging from the end of the handle and my cane for going places is covered in stickers. All of my medical binders have fun scrapbooking paper on the outside. Sometimes, I put stickers and washi tape on my inhalers and pill bottles. I used my Cricut to decorate my coping bin with quotes from my icons, like "I've seen enough of Ba Sing Se" and "I need you to be angrier with that bell".
- If a flare-up is making you unable to eat or keep food down, consider going to the ER. A pharmacist once told me that since my eye flares can make me so nauseous that I cannot eat, then I need to go to the hospital when that happens.
- Cola works wonders for nausea. I have mini cans of Diet Pepsi in my coping bin.
- Shortbread is one of the only things I can eat when nauseous. Giant Tiger sells individually-wrapped servings of shortbread around Christmas or the British import store sells them year-round. I also keep these in my coping bin.
- Unless it violates a pain contract or something, don't be afraid to go behind your doctor's back to get something they are refusing you. I got my cardiologist referral by getting in with a different NP at my primary care clinic than who I usually saw. I switched from Seroquel to Abilify by visiting a walk-in.
- If you have a condition affecting your abdomen in some way (GI issues, reproductive problems, y'know) then invest in track pants that are too big. I bought some for my laparoscopy over a year ago and they've been handy for pelvic pain days, too. I've also heard loose pants are good for after colonoscopies.
- Do whatever works, even if it's weird. I've sat on the floor of the Eaton Centre to take my pills. I've shoved heating pads down my front waistband to reach my uterus.
- High-top Converse are good for weak ankles. I almost exclusively wear them.
- You can reuse your pill bottles for stuff. I use my jumbo ones to store makeup sponges and my long skinny ones to hold a travel-size amount of Q-Tips.
- Just because your diagnostics come back with nothing, it doesn't mean nothing is wrong. Maybe you were checking the wrong thing, or the diagnostic tool wasn't sensitive enough. I have bradycardia episodes even though multiple cardiac tests caught nothing. I probably have endometriosis even though my gynecologist didn't see anything.
- You can bring your comfort item to appointments, and it's generally a green flag when someone talks to you about it. I brought a Squishmallow turkey (named Ulana) to my laparoscopy and they had her wearing my mask when I woke up. I brought a Build-A-Bear cat (named Blinx) to another procedure and a nurse told me that everyone in the hall on the way to the procedure room saw him and were talking about how cute he was. Both of those ended up being positive experiences and every person who talked to me about my plushies was nice to me. If you don't feel comfortable having it visible to your provider during the appointment, you can hide it in your bag and just know it's there, or if you're in a video appointment, you can hold it below frame in your lap.
- Get a small bucket, fill it with stuff, and stick it in your bed (if you have room for it). I filled a bucket with Ensure, juice boxes, oatmeal bars, lotion, my rescue inhaler, etc. in October 2023 in anticipation of my laparoscopy and I still have it in my bed as of January 2025.
- If your disability impacts your impulse control (e.g. ADHD, bipolar disorder), you should consider setting limits around your spending -- no more than X dollars at a time, nothing online unless it's absolutely necessary, and so on. Or, run these purchases by someone you trust before committing to them; I use my BFF groupchat to help talk sense into myself when I buy stuff.
Feel free to add on what you've learned about disability!
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runs for my life from them and you seeing this