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y'all watch out for that flying bank it's got dogs

@obstinaterixatrix / obstinaterixatrix.tumblr.com

Hi I'm Stella and I'm still very tired of people thinking I'm straight.

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howdy everyone I'm stella. if you're here specifically for my writing or art, go follow my artblog instead because this is my public diary where I talk to myself 99% of the time and post fic/art 1% of the time.

original projects:

if you're wondering about the tag system, 'orlbs' is shorthand for 'obstinaterixatrix liveblog' and is the general tag I use for all my liveblogs. '___lbs' is whatever abbreviation for whatever series I'm specifically talking about (so the posts don't show up in search).

if you're looking for recs, I have a general rec tag for all the recs I post, a tag for f/f recs, a tag for m/m recs, a tag for m/f recs, and a tag for gen recs.

I’m open to asks but I can come across as blunt. it’s generally not intended as a negative response unless I’m responding to an outright insult.

shoe/clothing size you check in the store, but it's evidence that they haven't taken their child shoe/clothing shopping recently if they aren't in the right ballpark.

how are you going to 'love and provide' for your child if you don't know their likes/dislikes and basic safety information? You don't love your child if you don't know anything about them. Providing for them doesn't just mean money it means making sure they are safe, healthy, and secure.

And going to add that with all of these, it's not that you necessarily have to have a specific, one-word answer, but that you should have *some* thought process behind it indicating on-going attention to your child. Maybe you don't know your child's shoe size because they're growing so much, or because shoe brands all have different sizing systems, but you know how to check what your child's current shoe-size is. Maybe you're not sure who their pediatrician is because health insurance is a nightmare, but you know the doctors who've treated them before and have an idea of who you would go to if they needed treatment now. You might not know who is your child's best friend, but you should know about at least some of their friends. (Willingness to cooperate in areas you are less familiar with can also be a major contributing factor in how custody agreements shake out. My parents' divorce was messy af, but my mom's willingness to defer to my dad on my education and my dad's willingness to defer to my mom on my health played a huge role in making sure they both remained a major part of my life. They didn't have to know everything, but they did have to know who they would go to for those specific things -- even if that meant the person they hated most at the time. Putting their love for their child over their hate for the ex-partner was a statement, in and of itself, to the custody court.)

A federal judge on Monday paused plans by the Trump administration to end temporary legal protections for hundreds of thousands of Venezuelans, a week before they were scheduled to expire. The order by U.S. District Judge Edward Chen in San Francisco is a relief for 350,000 Venezuelans whose Temporary Protected Status was set to expire April 7 after Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem reversed protections granted by the Biden administration. Chen said in his ruling that the action by Noem “threatens to: inflict irreparable harm on hundreds of thousands of persons whose lives, families, and livelihoods will be severely disrupted, cost the United States billions in economic activity, and injure public health and safety in communities throughout the United States.” He said the government had failed to identify any “real countervailing harm in continuing TPS for Venezuelan beneficiaries” and said plaintiffs will likely succeed in showing that Noem’s actions “are unauthorized by law, arbitrary and capricious, and motivated by unconstitutional animus.”

哦,学了一个语法,I didn’t know ‘了’ could be about a change in conditions and is only allowed to be consecutive if it’s ‘change in condition’ and ‘past’. 可以说,“我没有钱了,所以不买了”因为有的时候我有了钱。可是,如果我总是没有钱,就只可以说“我没有钱,所以不买了” there is so much that can be conveyed by grammar…

there has been another homophobic mod incident in the balatro subreddit i repeat there has been another homophobic mod incident in the balatro subreddit

  1. a cool blueprint x brainstorm cosplay is posted

3.5 all this takes place in the subreddit where people find increasingly more creative/weirder/hornier way to ask for seed on posts about good runs

4. mods give a here's nothing explanation

update: the subreddit is getting a new mod team

I'm sorry PLEASE elaborate or cap/link the story about you wearing the nightmare perfume to..... work? as a lawyer? Court work? Bad smell court work??? Rook,

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i did post the story here at some point but sure i'll retell it with more context. anyone who doesn't know, im a lawyer and my favourite character is goro akechi from persona 5 whose face i have been wearing since 2017. ok we proceed

the perfume is followed by kerosene, which is slightly infamous. i encountered it when i was first trying to find a decent gourmand fragrance which actually smells like coffee. (i still haven't found a good one so if anyone has any recs...) that tumblr post about its fragrantica reviews shows off some of the funnier ones, but the actual fragrantica page shows the response is a bit more complicated. followed is a very divisive fragrance. those who love it absolutely adore it. everyone else thinks it's a curse on all of humanity forever. i read those reviews and instantly decided i had to try it so i bought a sample.

the thing that makes followed by kerosene most controversial is that it has really unreasonably strong staying power. the other notable thing about followed is that despite being advertised as a coffee and vanilla forward fragrance, it actually has an INCREDIBLY strong smell of maple syrup. perfume depends really heavily on the individual, since the same perfume will act differently on different people's skin, which is why some people insist this smells of a lovely pleasant coffee and, while lasting, generally fades okay, and other people insist the maple syrup demons live in their vents to this day. i actually adore followed. i'm pretty sensitive to strong fragrances and i don't love sweet things, so i was really apprehensive, but i ended up really liking it? it IS strong, but i use a very tiny little amount and to me it smells of a pleasantly burnt caramelised maple followed (hehe) by a nice jaunty undertone of espresso. everyone i've asked irl also thought it was very pleasant.

i was wearing followed to work and needed to run to court for boring BAU reasons. i was NOT there for a hearing. this did not happen while phoenix wrighting my way through actual fucking advocacy. just making this extremely clear for my own mental health. anyway i was in court wearing my little perfume having a normal day talking to a court officer about documents or whatever and they stopped dead mid-conversation and went, "do you smell pancakes?"

anyway that's why i don't wear the fragrance anymore. not because it's a nightmare perfume from hell. just because i absolutely cannot repeat the experience of standing inside a fucking courthouse having to politely giggle and fib my way through an interaction with a completely innocent court officer who had no idea the amount of psychic damage they'd just dealt me by asking me so politely with their real human voice if i smelled sweet pancakes while i stood there knowing and dreading the true reality, which was that the pancakes, after all this time, was me

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我也教朋友很重要的字,比如“可怜”(她最近叫我可怜)(😔)和“同志”(特别重要)。 她(白人)说她不能在她的中文课用这种字。对👍🏼

那今天我不好意思因为我忘了好多字😔还有,会听懂可是看不懂。有时候我随便说… 很容易的字搞错了 - 哦等等等快看这边翻译

把某事搞砸… 暗中搞… 很有用的字

ethics of making AI images aside, I do find a bit amusing the kinds of sob stories and mental gymnastics people make up to pretend like drawing is this super technical skill with an impossibly high barrier of entry when its like one of the first hobbies toddlers pick up

suddenly a lot of people think they got the next Lord of the Rings in their head but they were never able to turn their stories into anything tangible because the evil elitist artists are hogging all the talent and skill and they need a bajilion years of training or something as if one of the most popular manga and anime of the past decade wasn't made by a guy that draws like this

I feel as if studio ghibli films being reduced to their 'cozyness' would be tragic if not for the fact that it is a deliberate branding thing for them. from the ghibli museum to the revolving door of hot topic collabs, miyazaki and/or the people he puts in charge of these things are aware of how desirable the worlds within ghibli films are. even at that, how meaningful is the politics of howl's moving castle being motivated by miyazaki's outrage at the 2003 iraq invasion when you examine it alongside the actual text of the wind rises? what does the environmentalism of ponyo mean when faced with the massive amounts of waste generated by ghibli merch you can get at wal mart? i'm straying from the point here but

this was an officially licensed product that was released to promote grave of fireflies

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