Nobamaki will defeat sukuna with the power of yuri !!

type of photos their grandchildren found hehe

Just saw someone call people w NPD dangerous & a threat to society because of impulsivity. I dont see them calling people with, let's say ADHD dangerous because one of their core symptoms is lit impulsivity. Ts pmo.

media: narcissists only get their supply from directly abusing everyone around them until everyone is manipulated and forced to see them as god.

my friend: i appreciate that you did this task for me. you are a good friend

me, grinning, blushing, twirling my hair, getting the supply: haha no problem man

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other LESS stigmatized mental illness, you can be patient with us.

Infantilising victims, basically. It's "if you aren't a good victim, then you're not a victim at all."

btw guys managing your symptoms also means apologizing for things you didn't mean to do. sometimes you do things because of your disorders that you genuinely didn't mean to do, but if it hurt someone you still have to take accountability and make up for the hurt you caused

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

People who think any criticism whatsoever is an attack are unprepared for any serious discussions about bigotry

My personality disorder spinning the emotional wheel and landing on 'fury' every time someone says anything that implies my work could be inadequate (they're telling me I'm a worthless piece of shit)

being an "is often envious of others" narcissist instead of a "believes that others are envious of them" narc SUCKS. WDYM seeing other people do something even slightly better or faster than I do makes Me feel physically ill?? this shit is so embarrassing.

drums of death - FKA twigs

pinterest / drums of death, FKA Twigs (cover art) / pinterest / The Matrix, The Wachowskis / ibid. / pinterest / The Secretary, Steven Shainberg / pinterest / American Psycho, Mary Harron / ibid.

The worst couple ever!!! (I love them deeply)

the toxic yaoification of ai no kusabi will forver haunt me.. it is not toxic yaoi... it is a social commentary on status, classism & dare i say imperialism.. iasan's relationship with Riki is almost like a twisted reliance on each other in that they both partake in, especially Rikki, despite knowing it's toxicity & consequences. it's made out to be more like a harmful symbiotic relationship where one needs the other , at both their expenses. it may seem like parasitism, however they both mutually benefit from the short lived burst of closeness they experience together, which is ultimately why they die together. it's not because they truly love each other, but because of their need to fulfill this desire of master & owner to establish one final sense of self.

Gotta be one of my favourite genders.

They all had a huge impact and influence on their respective media. + they're all dead.

megan thee stallion has the power of god and anime on her side

Internet vernacular has completely altered what some words and expressions mean to me. Forevermore, I will hear the words "hear me out" will only and exclusively as "before you cast your judgements prematurely, please pause and allow me to explain how and why I should be allowed to fuck this thing".