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“weird and unhealthy relationship that cant be categorized neatly as sexual or romantic or platonic but has a defining air of devotion and obsession to it” wins sound of the summer for the 13th year in a row

In the song of achilles when he’s chasing Hector to kill him and the River god stops him and he says “you will not stop me from getting to him.” Sure maybe he means hector in the moment but what if he ACTUALLY means he will not stop him from getting to Patroclus. Because he knows killing hector secures his own death and it’s the only way to see Patroclus again.

tbh the real advice I’d give to anyone is, do shit alone. go to a museum & go at your own pace & leave the instant you’re done. go somewhere you’ve never been and just wander around, duck into & out of places as it pleases you. linger as long as you’d like.

generally speaking when it comes to mental and physical health, if you're asked "do you struggle with this" and your answer is "no, Because I Have A System," then your answer is actually yes

Also, for ADHD symptoms specifically, if they ask something like, "Do you have trouble waiting your turn in conversations?" and your answer is, "No I'm a grown up I don't interrupt people," but you are constantly finishing sentences for people in your head and have formulated three replies before they finish talking.... the answer is yes, yes you do.

And if you can stay in your seat but are constantly bouncing a leg, clicking a pen, tapping out a rhythm on your thigh, or otherwise fidgeting, the answer is, yes, you do have trouble staying in your seat.

Neurotypicals do not require iron clad self control and three coping techniques to sit still during a meeting.

What if your answer is "No, I don't have trouble waiting my turn because I can't tell when it's my turn so I never take my turn."?

*taps sign*

The Poppy War Litjoy Covers (art by carissa_s_art)

lying in bed for an hour and a half after waking up should not pass time in my opinion

My Roman Empire is that despite representing the epitome of wealth, power, and influence to Rin, Nezha is ultimately powerless his entire life.

the older i get, the more i need time & personal space to be as boring as possible

I say shit like "If my memory serves me" knowing damn well it serves the dark lord

nausea is an inhumane experience and i’m tired of pretending it isn’t

don’t understand where people get the energy to be an active participant in their own lives. the days just happen to me for real

kell maresh fanart sucks bc he always looks so fierce as if the man isnt described w a permanent crease in his brow for 4 books. he is the most concerned, bothered, worried man to walk four londons, he has never known a moment of peace, stop making him look too-cool-for-school when he is always on the verge of martyrdom or a panic attack or both!

by shapelessflame

no more brooding, stoic assholes as love interests. from now on i will only accept pathetic, fussy, pretty boys who genuinely collapse if they are not surrounded by enough soft blankets and sweets and are completely smitten with their wife