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This is a blog where i post/repost stuff related to selfshipping. I will (sometimes!!!) post on saturdays and wednesdays (12 PM and 2 PM East UTC-3)
Sometimes i will go inactive, but don't worry! That is just me taking a break and kissing my F/Os <3
You can always send me an ask (Put in the post if you want me to answer or not) featuring a scenario that you just need to get out of your head (being nsft or not!)
Blog belongs 2 @shotatsuki... Hey that's me!-
for any selfshippers who struggle with mental health, your f/o would absolutely help you with any struggles you may have, they'd never make fun of you for whatever triggers you have, whether you need to vent to them or just need them beside you, they'll always be more than happy to be there alongside you.
Reminder that there’s no such thing as loving your f/o(s) less just because you don’t publish content of them or gush about them as frequently; or at all.
You don’t have to post content of your f/o(s) if you’re not in the mood to, if you don’t have the energy to or if you simply don’t want to. You don’t have to gush about them if you’re not in the mood to, if you don’t have the energy to or if you simply don’t want to.
Thinking long and hard of how others can post a thousand and one times a day isn’t the right way to go about it. They’re a completely different being from you and that’s okay.
Your self ships are just important as the next and the one after that, no matter what you do so, take your time. Take a deep breath and try not to be so hard on yourself. Work as much as you can at whatever pace you can. it’s okay.
your f/o loves doing silly/stupid things with you-
trying on butt ugly clothing just for the hell of it, going on late night drives to a convenience store for slushies and pizza that tastes like cardboard, going to an arcade and trying to win you a stuffed animal in the claw machines (and failing miserably), playing board games with you and absolutely destroying you (or maybe the other way around), trying to be cool and show off to you but somehow the situation turns and suddenly you’re the cool one, sharing shitty headphones with you and showing you their terrible playlist, sitting on the swings in a playground and begging for them to push you (and them playfully rolling their eyes and doing it)…
sighsigh… silly f/o things >m<
Imagine your f/o comforting you after a bad argument with your parents. They'll ask if you want to talk if you say yes they'll let you vent to them and they'll do their best to comfort you. If not they'll go get your favorite food & drink to cheer you up, they'd ask what you'd like to do like watching your favorite show, going for a drive, playing a game, chatting about something that makes you happy. It might not fix whatever’s happened, but they always know how to cheer you up.
💞Take care your f/o loves you! <3💞
Imagine your romantic f/o tearing up a bit or full on sobbing as they cuddle you into their arms, thinking how lucky and grateful to have you. They haven't felt this kind of simple love in so long or ever, and they're experiencing this with the person they love so much. Warm tears stain the pillow as they look at you, the person that they'll be with for what seems like forever.
Lemme just say that I absolutely adore self shippers with f/o's who are really obscure characters.
YOUR F/O'S LOVE YOU!!
depressed selfshippers please know that your f/o would be kind to you. in no world would your f/o shame you for struggling with self-care. in no world would they ever see you as a burden. infrequent showers, struggling with brushing teeth, poor appetite, little activity, anything you can think of. it's okay to struggle. they love you; they would never judge you for this. they'd never judge you at all. they are so, so happy that they can be your safe space. one step at a time.