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Chel/Lucas | 30 | they/he/it/ey/general pronoun soup | bi | author/actor aspirant | welcome to A3! hell! | Ask me about my stuff: fanfic, OCs, whatever!
Current Muses: see "a3! hell”, plus the occasional original content

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Chel/Lucas (either is fine!) | 30 | they/he/it/ey or anything listed here (largely for funsies) | EST

Ao3 (romijuli) | Twitter (dqChellion) | discord (bokuranokizuna) | rentry here (for more detailed shit) | ship related boundaries/guidelines tumblr edition (primarily a3)

Ko-fi | comm sheet no longer actively advertising these, but (almost) always up for a fanwork trade!

Other things of note

  • Fandoms usually tagged in reblogs; often untagged in original posts (unless it’s a fanwork or some shitpost/ramble i WANT a given fandom to see)
  • Ask meme answers tagged #asky meme, weird anons/asks tagged #chel’s weird anon hours, sweet anons/asks tagged #chel loving hours
  • Discussion of longer fics/series I’m working on USUALLY tagged #fic: [name of fic/series], unless a wip was untitled when i started tagging it. (or if it’s tkana. i’m not sure why that one’s special)
  • transphobes/nbphobes/exclusionists not welcome, thanks
  • Recommended tags in blog search are as follows: former hyperfixation tag, current hyperfixation tag, Tsuzuru tag, These Three Won’t Leave Me Alone And I’m Making That Your Problem tag, dqxi OCs tag, a3! OCs tag. May update these later.
  • If for some ungodly reason you wanna see me yell about professional wrestling that’s what @theater-for-jocks is for. It’s largely incoherent for several reasons but it’s there I guess

i mean this in the gentlest possible way but if 75% of what you're posting for a given fandom is fuming rage spirals then maybe just maybe it's time to take a step back and consider whether or not you're actually having any fun with this optional thing you do for fun

For Riley Hopkins' Interstitial 2e Jam, you too can now play as a Character, but Transgender...

Cool moves about being a cooler transgender person, channeled through Interstitial 2e. Follow along with yours truly (having played Trans Woman Vash the Stampede in a home game) and play a character from your media of choice But Transgender.

if you have OCD that moralistic post it not about you. keep scrolling. i love you

yeah even the one that gave you that sinking terror and has you planning your penance behavior and going through your whole life trying to identify when you did whatever it said about prejudice or abuse or whatever. it's not about you they don't know you and they certainly don't care about you

What the ever loving hell is this new dashboard ui

I think one of the greatest joys of fandom is being able to look back on a certain media or a ship or a trope or event or something of that nature, and being able to remember like "oh yeah! that was how I became friends with [x]!" "that was when that friend and I watched that show and stayed up until 2 am to do it!" and when those friendships bleed back over to real life too, like "oh I tried that food bc x says they like it!" and "that's x's favorite animal!" and all these sorts of things that happened because we happened to meet just like, in the great vastness of 1) human existence and 2) the ephemerality of fandom existence.

The way that certain things become suffused with that friendship and the like joy that really is. What an uncommon occurrence. What a lovely thing it is. What an honor. What a privilege.

Hey if you own a business I need you to repeat after me:

  • I will not let my web developer manage my domain registration.
  • My domains are my responsibility and they cannot be handed to a contractor.
  • If I do not control my domains, I do not control my website.
  • If my domain is paid for on somebody else's credit card, it isn't really mine.
  • I will read every contract carefully and abide by its terms.
  • If the terms of a contract are not agreeable to me, I will amend them until the contractor and I both agree to and are aware of the terms.
  • I will pay my contractors in a timely fashion.
  • I will not burn bridges with my contractors.
  • I will pay for domain registration myself, and will never grant anyone else complete control over my domain.
  • I will not let my web developer manage my domain registration.

webdev account perfec t size to put domain in to store! inside very ssafe and secure domain be safe put domain in webdev account. put domain in webdev account. no problems ever in webdev account because no mfa for quick access make domain changes fast with no review. awebdev godaddy yes a place for domain put domain in webdev account can trust webdev for giveing good love to domain. friend webdev

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Mankai March 2025 Question 30!

Happy birthday, Masumi! Let's do something simple for him today! What were your first impressions on Masumi? What about now? Any ideas on his story? Headcanons maybe?

i have vague memories of being kind of offput by masumi. this seems to be a pretty common occurrence for pretty obvious reasons. but the more i saw of him and the more glimpses i got into his life, the more i just felt REALLY BAD FOR HIM. i'm pretty sure the first a3 rant i went on was about masumi and why he seems to be the way he is.

i've said this before like countless times but masumi is the way he is due to being a sixteen year old with a complicated relationship with his parents, with them often being busy with work and seeming to prioritize how he makes them look rather than his own happiness. on top of that, his "fan club" tends to view him as almost a trophy boyfriend, pursuing him because of his looks and perceived attitude rather than because of who he is as a person. his understanding of love - in whatever form that may take - is skewed, and when he meets izumi and she expresses interest in him as a potential actor, he kind of latches onto her as being his soulmate or whatever and draws from the experiences of his fan club to express it (which is to say, by being extremely jealous and overly demonstrative). i make a note of his age here because i think a lot of people kinda???? forget that????? when talking about him????? and as a result they tend to act like he's a malicious adult rather than a neglected teenager who doesn't really know how to deal with his own feelings. (hell, honestly, half the time him tying his actions to izumi comes across as a way of avoiding admitting that he cares about the other actors, especially spring troupe. see also: sakuya's mankai encore backstage and basically any time he keeps tsuzuru functional during script crunch time)

but honestly, he's been growing a lot, ever since we first met him. it's never explicitly stated that he started helping sakuya with the romijuli fight choreography because he saw elements of his own loneliness within sakuya's story, but that's always been how i interpreted it. magician's pure love entirely centers on masumi trying to figure out love and what it means to everyone else, and the whole play is conceived because he becomes scared of how he'd handle izumi falling for another person - most notably, he becomes scared that he'll quit acting over it, which i find really telling - and asks tsuzuru to write a play with unrequited romance so he can learn how to handle it. in the epilogue to last year's white day event he even works with the rest of mankai to make white day special for izumi because he knows she'd prefer that. he still has some form of affection for her, of course, but it's become healthier and more manageable.

he's grown on me so much, dude. he very well may be third in my rankings at this point. i think he's really underappreciated.

(as far as headcanons go, i think any interpretation of his feelings regarding izumi - whether it is a legitimate crush or just him misinterpreting other kinds of love for romantic - is valid. will admit to being fond of him being some flavor of arospec though.)

I’m gonna go ahead and rant real quick. I’m a fanfiction author, and I’m constantly looking for ideas I like. A lot of those ideas come from prompts, or tumblr posts, or other fandoms, or existing tropes.

Sometimes, fics already exist in those tropes.

So here’s my apparently “unpopular” opinion: I like reading fics of the same trope. If there’s a fic where they’re famous actors and they fall in love that I enjoy, I want four more slightly different ones. If I’m writing a fic where one is catfishing, I want to read the trope in at least four other fics like???

I like to see other authors’ take and style on common tropes. Just because one fic in a trope exists doesn’t mean the trope is off limits for the fandom. Far from it - take a chance with that trope. If you’re worried you’re too similar, mark it inspired by. You’re not going to copy someone exactly, and you could have an interesting spin on it. I want that spin to exist.

If two fics of the same trope can’t exist, I might as well delete over half my fics, including some of my most popular. It’s discouraging to hear people drop ideas because something like it exists - or even maybe exists.

tldr; more than one fic can exist within a trope or prompt in a fandom and be good fics. Please write whatever you want, even if something similar exists. Someone (like me) will read them all and enjoy them all.

“Rayban charity glasses event” is a scam don’t click any link in a post that says that.

Old tumblr users remember this scam back when it first went out.

Also no, this isn’t a joke. This phishing scam is 100% running its course again so watch out for your mutuals long abandoned accounts suddenly posting it. Please make everyone aware of it since most users here are newbies who have not seen it before!

One weird experience of transitioning is failing at ur assigned gender role the whole time and everyone constantly deriding you for it but then u come out and it's like we lost a beautiful gender conforming warrior today. Must grieve for my wonderful child who pissed me off by being ugly and weird since day 1

what they don't tell you about making friends is you gotta be a lil annoying. you gotta push past the fear of "what if they don't want to talk to me" and simply ask someone how their day is going, send a meme. you cannot connect to people if you're both just awkwardly waiting for the other to start.

comics your civilian casts…don’t forget about your civilian casts 💔

I get you’ve made all the heroes best friends and shoved them all on the same teams and/or families but you gotta let them hang out with regular people once in a while so they remember the avenge civilian can’t lift a bus

you can tell me they care about their cities all you want but unless you show them being a part of said city I’m just going to assume you mean the buildings because the people in that city are slowly just looking like statistics on a screen, get down from your tower

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