“Here is the world to which I am condemned, in which, despite myself, I must somehow live.”
— Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The House of the Dead
A Riverside Village before Rain, Wu Shixian, 1912
Mary Oliver, Long Life
Maja Krstic, Lovers
PHILOSOPHER: Oh, but being alone isn’t what makes you feel lonely. Loneliness is having other people and society and community around you, and having a deep sense of being excluded from them. To feel lonely, we need other people. That is to say, it is only in social contexts that a person becomes an “individual.”
YOUTH: If you were really alone, that is, if you existed completely alone in the universe, you wouldn’t be an individual and you wouldn’t feel lonely, either?
PHILOSOPHER: I suppose the very concept of loneliness wouldn’t even come up. You wouldn’t need language, and there’d be no use for logic or common sense, either. But such a thing is impossible. Even if you lived on an uninhabited island, you would think about someone far across the ocean. Even if you spend your nights alone, you strain your ears to hear the sound of someone’s breath. As long as there is someone out there somewhere, you will be haunted by loneliness.
- Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga, The Courage to be Disliked
Flora by Max Nonnenbruch, 1892 (detail)
“Memory takes a lot of poetic license. It omits some details; others are exaggerated, according to the emotional value of the articles it touches, for memory is seated predominantly in the heart. The interior is therefore rather dim and poetic”
— Tennessee Williams, The Glass Menagerie (via the-book-diaries)
Xochitl Gonzalez, Why Do Rich People Love Quiet?