I know what I stand for.

I stand for protecting the vulnerable, not glorifying the things that hurt them. I stand for boundaries, accountability, and healing—not harassment, manipulation, or performative outrage. I do not tolerate abuse, whether it comes masked in righteousness or in fiction.

Your message is not activism. It is weaponized pain, used as a shield to justify harming others.

You speak of survivors, yet you turn their suffering into a tool for intimidation. You accuse me of moral superiority while attempting to dominate the conversation with shame and fear. You say you want freedom, but you demand silence from those who draw hard lines against abuse—even in fictional depictions.

I will not apologize for drawing those lines. I will not apologize for protecting survivors, including those who were groomed into dangerous communities and left traumatized by what others call "coping." I will not apologize for believing that glorifying abuse in fiction can and does have real-world consequences.

You can disagree with me. You can set your own boundaries. But what you don’t get to do is step into my space, attack my character, and expect silence in return.

You accuse, you twist, you threaten. But I see it for what it is: a tactic to shut down dialogue, to derail accountability, and to paint harm as healing.

Let me be clear:

Boundaries are not oppression.

Criticism is not harassment.

Fiction is not free from impact.

Survivorhood is not a shield for abuse.

I know who I am. I know what I fight for.

And I will not be silenced by those who mistake chaos for freedom and cruelty for truth.

You don’t get to define who is or isn’t a "real" survivor.

You don’t get to control the narrative.

And you will not control me.

If you truly want healing—for yourself or others—you are welcome to it. But if you bring threats and abuse to my door, you will be met not with rage, but with unwavering resolve.

I lead with truth.

I protect with purpose.

And I will not back down

This anon is in for a rude awakening when they realize like half if not more of the anti communtiy is filled with ex-proshippers/darkshippers and victims... wooooo...

I don't know how old this anon is, if their like a minor I hope they get genuine help, if not just.. idk man go away, leave Rainbow alone.

Like bro you don't speak for all victims while calling someone a "christofacist DARVO enacting creepers." like fucker... DO YOU NOT KNOW WHAT CHRISTFACIST MEANS??? IT JUST MEANTS SOMEONE WHO IS HEAVILY ALT-RIGHT thats like the christianity mixed in with facism-

and with the DARVO part... IT MEANS DENY ATTACK REVERSE VICTIM OFFENDER. Thats literally what the proshipping communtiy does... ahem..

Deny = "Our community is for victims." "Fiction doesn't affect reality/fiction isn't reality" "It's jsut fiction its okay to find it hot"

Attack = Them attacking people(usually victims who call them out) for being against them, disagreeing with them, or victims of their community calling out specific people who were their abusers. Reverse victim and offender = The proshippering community claiming that antis and such attack their community and harass them, and that antis want censorship. Thus reversing the roles in their narrative.

That's what DARVO is, its a manipulation tactic that turns people against the victim and is something abusers use to avoid accountability.

A Calm and Firm Call-Out to Froggo and Their Followers:

I feel it's necessary to address the recent behavior displayed by Froggo and their followers in a calm and collected manner, especially concerning the ongoing issues with my friends Caleb, Sho-Can-G, and myself. It's frustrating to witness this continued harassment and the manipulative tactics that have been used.

1. Tactics of Misrepresentation and Bullying:

It's clear that there's been an attempt to manipulate situations and twist facts. Froggo has been screenshotting private interactions, mocking people in their DMs, and encouraging a toxic environment where false accusations are thrown with little regard for the harm it causes. Specifically, Caleb has been dragged into these accusations, including completely baseless claims about hypersexuality and inappropriate behavior. This is damaging, not only emotionally but mentally, especially when Caleb has made it clear how hard this situation has become.

2. Doubling Down on Harmful Behavior:

What’s even more concerning is Froggo's refusal to stop this cycle despite requests to block and avoid. When approached, they refuse to engage in a mature manner, continuing to encourage harassment through passive-aggressive commentary. Their tactics consist of ignoring the boundaries set by others and instead continuing to spread misinformation, engage in mockery, and weaponize their followers for malicious purposes.

3. The Silent Treatment is the Answer:

To anyone reading this, I strongly encourage you to block and avoid Froggo. We don't have time for people who willfully ignore boundaries and refuse to engage in productive, respectful conversations. The silent treatment is powerful in this case: when someone continuously seeks to escalate things, remaining silent and blocking them shows who is truly at fault. Let’s not give them the attention they seek.

4. Respect Each Other’s Spaces:

Everyone in this community deserves respect and space to be heard. Instead of projecting harmful rhetoric or accusations, it’s crucial to listen, engage in meaningful dialogue, and give each other the space to process and heal from trauma in our own ways. Instead of participating in toxic patterns of behavior, we should be encouraging each other toward healthier, more supportive spaces. Froggo and their followers have demonstrated the opposite—actively hurting others for sport and promoting division.

A Call to Action: block and avoid

If you are a part of this community and you have witnessed this behavior firsthand or been personally affected, I ask that you block and avoid Froggo. Their behavior doesn't deserve to be rewarded with attention. Let’s stop tolerating this manipulation, mockery, and harm.

And another thing

If they have more anons/moots talking about us more and their answering, it just shows they're enabling and continuing to do it while we're just gonna block and avoid

And no I doubt any staff would listen about mass report

Just let them post a lot and lot, so they better watch their own words when posting things now

Hey guys! So I wanna kinda send some awareness to this person please block them.

Some of y'all may ask, "but teamug what did they do wrong??? They are just a proshipper." Well what comes w a proshipper comes some bad stuff w em'. This person right here stalks anti accounts belonging to minors, and openly harasses them. They stalked some ppl for example. @that-one-friend-caleb, who is an anti, who's mental health is declining bc proship froggo who keeps cherry picking the posts that offend them. They say "antis DNI" yet openly harass antis. Block and report them please!

I am going to say this once and once only...

- I have not once send anybody to harass you

- I have never once insulted you whilst you call me every name known under the sun

- Congratulations, you have fucked around and found out. If you can't deal with the consequences of your own actions, then congratulations again, you have won a mighty steep leaning curve just now.

- You are currently running rampage on my block. Multiple asks in not even half an hour and a multitude of comments that come in every other minute. Be careful with who you call obsessed.

- Just because you are 14, you are not exempt from criticism and reaction to the things you choose to post. Happy revelation!

@that-one-friend-caleb

you took the words OF AN ANON WHO SAID I SENT CHILD PORN AND DOXXED PEOPLE AND SAID "yup that's Caleb!!"

YOU'RE LETTING PEOPLE BULLY AND HARASS ME AND YOU DON'T GIVE A SHIT

YOU ARE NOT AND WILL NEVER BE ANTI HARASSMENT

IF YOU TRULY WERE YOU'D TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY AND STOP ACTING LIKE A TODDLER WHO BELIEVES THE WORDS OF ANONYMOUS USERS,

SAY IT WAS WRONG TO LET PEOPLE BASH AND HARASS ME BECAUSE I'M AN ANTI AND THAT APPARENTLY MAKES IT FINE

letting people know what proship frog has done

A Calm and Firm Call-Out to Froggo and Their Followers:

I feel it's necessary to address the recent behavior displayed by Froggo and their followers in a calm and collected manner, especially concerning the ongoing issues with my friends Caleb, Sho-Can-G, and myself. It's frustrating to witness this continued harassment and the manipulative tactics that have been used.

1. Tactics of Misrepresentation and Bullying:

It's clear that there's been an attempt to manipulate situations and twist facts. Froggo has been screenshotting private interactions, mocking people in their DMs, and encouraging a toxic environment where false accusations are thrown with little regard for the harm it causes. Specifically, Caleb has been dragged into these accusations, including completely baseless claims about hypersexuality and inappropriate behavior. This is damaging, not only emotionally but mentally, especially when Caleb has made it clear how hard this situation has become.

2. Doubling Down on Harmful Behavior:

What’s even more concerning is Froggo's refusal to stop this cycle despite requests to block and avoid. When approached, they refuse to engage in a mature manner, continuing to encourage harassment through passive-aggressive commentary. Their tactics consist of ignoring the boundaries set by others and instead continuing to spread misinformation, engage in mockery, and weaponize their followers for malicious purposes.

3. The Silent Treatment is the Answer:

To anyone reading this, I strongly encourage you to block and avoid Froggo. We don't have time for people who willfully ignore boundaries and refuse to engage in productive, respectful conversations. The silent treatment is powerful in this case: when someone continuously seeks to escalate things, remaining silent and blocking them shows who is truly at fault. Let’s not give them the attention they seek.

4. Respect Each Other’s Spaces:

Everyone in this community deserves respect and space to be heard. Instead of projecting harmful rhetoric or accusations, it’s crucial to listen, engage in meaningful dialogue, and give each other the space to process and heal from trauma in our own ways. Instead of participating in toxic patterns of behavior, we should be encouraging each other toward healthier, more supportive spaces. Froggo and their followers have demonstrated the opposite—actively hurting others for sport and promoting division.

A Call to Action: block and avoid

If you are a part of this community and you have witnessed this behavior firsthand or been personally affected, I ask that you block and avoid Froggo. Their behavior doesn't deserve to be rewarded with attention. Let’s stop tolerating this manipulation, mockery, and harm.

And another thing

If they have more anons/moots talking about us more and their answering, it just shows they're enabling and continuing to do it while we're just gonna block and avoid

And no I doubt any staff would listen about mass report

Just let them post a lot and lot, so they better watch their own words when posting things now

Some people need to learn the differences between harassment and commentary.

I know you where talking about me when I sent an ask on you

It won't erase about the fact that you've been screenshoting antis posts and breaking their dni

I understand what Caleb did in the past was crap when the 8iid situation was happening,but it doesn't give ya an excuse to downplay and have your anons and moots talk badly on them like their a stupid kid

Screen shotting something is not interacting 💚 I literally take screen shots and take them to my community and have a talk/commentary about the thing at hand.

This is also not about Caleb during the 8iid situation. This is about Caleb crosstaging multiple posts and getting ratio'd to oblivion by doing so, and y'all suddenly being like, "Erm...screen shotting is NAWT interaction! It's collecting and archiving truth and proof about that community!!"

Screenshotting something and having commentary about it is not harassment 🐸💚

Edit: Hey, so I noticed that you had to be on my blog to see that post because it wasn't tagged with any tags that could pop up under pro/anti ship tags. Why don't you heed your own DNI, Star?

You’re right, screenshotting isn’t a direct message, but it is an interaction when it’s used to mock, fuel commentary from moots, and paint others in a bad light under the guise of discussion. You’re not holding a TED Talk. You’re bringing someone’s content to your followers for ridicule. That’s not ‘education’, that’s shade.

You can’t claim the moral high ground of being ‘anti-harassment’ while letting your followers trash someone for clout. And Caleb’s past actions don’t erase the fact that you’re doing the very things you accuse others of, just with a filter and a frog emoji. Be real

And the fact that you also involved Sly into this as well

im sorry but i just saw this and im going to implode... why is this 27 year old posting more than about maybe 13+ times about a 14 year old... What the actual fuck is wrong with this person...?

I jsut fucking got up and yknow IM NOT HAPPY RN.

also thank yall for the reblogs telling abt who that person is because god... THEY ARE ANNOYING, they've reblogged my stuff like once beforehand and was like "blah blah blah this isnt what the definition of proship means" my god </3 it doesnt matter WHEN THERE ARE PROSHIPPERS WHO IDENTIFY WITH THE TERM AND SHIP GROSS THINGS LIKE PEDO SHIT AND RAPE. USE YOUR BRAIN YOU'RE AN ADULT AREN'T YOU???

anyways so I decided to momentarily unblock them to see if they even decided to be reasonable and say "okay i didnt see those im sorry" but no they had to double down.

AHEM.

"i should not have to read your your bio you posted with tags" AND THE FUCKING TAGS SAID PROSHIP DNI? Dude... It's not that hard to follow a DNI, if you ask someone not to interact with you BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND IN GENERAL YOU DONT FUCKING LIKE THEM, then by that logic they have all the right to harass you until you file a restraining order.

"You have the block button you have the power to disable reblogs" and you also have the power to control your actions and not break someone's boundaries by reblogging when you have multiple warning signs like the tags saying multiple times DNI(including me PREVIOUSLY NOT REBLOGGING/replying to THE OTHER POST THEY MADE)

You had all the warning signs out there, saying DO NOT PROCEED, dont do the dumb action of interacting with someone who clearly doesn't want you in their space, that's your fault, not mine. I'd rather be able to inform someone not to interact with me and have a simple conversation(ill admit tho I was hostile when I replied to them, it was very late at night and I was pretty angry in the moment and yeah I'm sorry for that, honestly mb) about it, rather than block because it might be an honest mistake.

I've done it before someone I had blocked on discord replied to me before I reiterated I had them blocked and I didn't want them to interact with me, to which they respected that boundary and said they honestly forgot what happened- like bro... THATS HOW YOU RESPECT BOUNDARIES. If you don't want to respect others boundaries then mf... don't expect yours to be followed either if thats your honest believe.

i see her everywhere always arguing with an anti. bitch you’re pushing 42. go do something with your life besides trying to argue with people who made it clear they don’t want you to interact. 😭😭

Fr.. like have some self control..

I just saw a post of that one person I was talking about the other day(i still think they are creepy) and might I say, the person they were reblogging to fucking cooked them.

Absolutely fried them.

Like god yes THANK YOU i wanna start tapdancing over it- like HAH BITCH YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD INTIMIDATE ANOTHER YOUNGER PERSON INTO DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU COULD'VE BEEN DOING YOURSELF THIS WHOLE TIME.

my GENUINE REACTION

Who exactly?

The person who I'm ranting about or the person im saying cooked them? the former is jsut

this mf

the other is just you-

Wait what you actually saw the whole argument

Im just telling them about the facts and the hypocrisy they have with a huge ass ego, but now they blocked me

Lol yeah- It was crazy to read 😭

I just saw a post of that one person I was talking about the other day(i still think they are creepy) and might I say, the person they were reblogging to fucking cooked them.

Absolutely fried them.

Like god yes THANK YOU i wanna start tapdancing over it- like HAH BITCH YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD INTIMIDATE ANOTHER YOUNGER PERSON INTO DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU COULD'VE BEEN DOING YOURSELF THIS WHOLE TIME.

my GENUINE REACTION

Who exactly?

The person who I'm ranting about or the person im saying cooked them? the former is jsut

this mf

the other is just you-

Reblogging this for the info and also:

I will not longer be engaging with rainbow-starheart  unless they initiate/mention me.

It's telling when someone needs to frame basic criticism and ethical concerns as ‘cult tactics’ rather than addressing the actual points made. Being against the normalization of harmful content in fiction isn't some brainwashing scheme—it’s a stance based on media literacy, psychology, and ethical responsibility.

If your best argument is ‘antis are a cult,’ then you’re not actually engaging in discussion, just trying to manipulate perception. If you're confident in your beliefs, why resort to these kinds of distractions?

This is you choosing to engage with me, by reblogging me. JSYK. I specifically made clear "I will not longer be engaging with rainbow-starheart  unless they initiate/mention me." because that series of images was sent to your askbox.

This isn't about you.

I know that reading comprehension is not your strong suit, from previous interactions, but please note that I did not make any kind of argument above - I reblogged for the long series of images about how to recognize and avoid sexual grooming and added a bunch of resources about how to recognize and avoid cult grooming.

I'd highly recommend actually reading those articles. 'How not to be sucked into a cult' is important information for many different populations.

Let me know if there's tags you think I should add to that post/ other people who should see these resources about sexual grooming and culte grooming.

If you’re truly posting this ‘not about me,’ then why frame it in a way that still involves me? If you actually cared about raising awareness about grooming, you wouldn’t be using it as a gotcha in shipping discourse. Grooming is a serious issue, and conflating it with fictional discourse only trivializes real survivors’ experiences.

I don’t need to be talked down to or condescended to. If your intent was to genuinely spread resources, you wouldn’t be tagging it in discourse-heavy, proship/anti-ship debates. Your framing makes your intent clear.

The images were sent to your askbox. I wanted to share the images.

"If you really X you wouldn't Y!" is not a productive talking point.

I tagged this with #proship and #anti proship and #anti ship because they are communities full of vulnerable people who are very often subject to these tactics. Grooming and Cults are very much a concern to the shipping community.

I do not give even a single fuck if you think that's 'trivializing' - I want people who use the word 'Grooming' and 'Cult' to understand what 'Grooming' mean and what a 'Cult' is, and strategies for recognizing and avoiding these dangers.

If you didn't want this to be reblogged, why did you choose to answering it publicly on your page rather than privately in DM's?

Why are you so deeply, deeply adverse to the use of the block button?

You don’t actually care about educating people on grooming or cult tactics—you care about using those topics as a rhetorical weapon in shipping discourse. If you were truly spreading awareness, you’d do it without the need for snark, condescension, or inserting it into an argument. The way you frame this speaks for itself.

You act like you’re above discourse but keep re-engaging with me, contradicting yourself while pretending to take the high ground. If you’re so adamant about blocking, why haven’t you done it yourself? You demand that I block you, yet keep my name in your mouth. Seems like you don’t actually want this to end

you want an audience

things that are true:

2. I actually care about educating people on grooming or cult tactics

3. You are choosing, over and over, to engage with me instead of blocking and moving on.

I'm not blocking you because I am, in fact, available to talk to as a learning resource. You are free to engage with me on your own terms. I will continue to engage for as long as you choose to talk to me. I am the reference desk, and you are choosing to be a patron. I am the professor giving a lecture, and you keep raising your hand.

You are not an 'educator.' You are not a 'reference desk.' You are someone who deliberately inserts themselves into discourse, reblogs anti-proshipper posts while acting like you're neutral, and constantly talks down to people who disagree with you. That is not 'educating'; it’s performative superiority.

You act like you’re only here to spread awareness about grooming and cult tactics, yet the way you engage shows otherwise. You use these serious topics as rhetorical weapons, lumping in unrelated discourse about shipping to push a narrative.

If you actually cared about safety, you’d be spreading these resources without the need to constantly frame anti-proshippers as cult-like. But you do lump them together because your goal isn't education, it's discrediting people who disagree with you.

And let’s be real: this whole ‘I'm available as a learning resource’ act is just a way to avoid accountability for your own hypocrisy. You reblog anti-proshipper posts, you keep engaging after claiming you won’t, and you thrive on conflict while pretending you're above it.

If you were actually done, you’d leave my name out of your mouth. But we both know you won’t, because this is about control for you, not education.

And the fact that you use the "teacher-student" card to belittle the other side shows that your superiority and lack of treating others as being "students" rather than equal participants in the debates, using their words as a form of them being the stupid ones so you can have the power to belittle them with your "resources" to lower their defense so you can win your debate

So the more people engage with you, the more you gain of having that feeling of "higher ground" of superiority to act like what you say

but your actions say otherwise

COOKED THEM AND LEFT NO CRUMBS ✨