HE'S REAL

Switching between these every day

tumblr users when tumblr offers premium and little badges and thingies to purchase: ew no gross sellout, bad tumblr!

tumblr users when tumblr has to put shitty ads everywhere to keep it running otherwise: ew gross no bad why is this happening??? stop

tumblr users when tumblr is laying off staff: omfg boycott bad naughty why would you do this?!

tumblr users when tumblr is shutting down or being sold because its current owners can no longer afford to be run it: omg no, there’s nowhere else like tumblr online; it’s so special and beautiful and unique and unlike other shitty apps; how could this happen??? what can we do to stop this???

If you like tumblr and want it to continue existing, you might try throwing them a couple bucks now and again to keep the lights on

I heart prey animal rage I love when characters are fucking insane with terror

When they're not dangerous like a hunter but dangerous like a spooked horse kicking your skull in

Let's hear it for prey animal rage let's hear it for killing everyone else in the world before you'll let them catch you

so glad to see them embrace therapy. Tom needs an exorsicm, but baby steps 💗

btw there was a dream cosplayer at the tommy show. in the front row no less. The Boy Was Flabberghasted™️ upon noticing him. he was genuinely like "um. Are You Aware" it was so funny i wish i recorded it

guys if anyone was there and recorded it PLEASE post it here i saw so many people with phones out im begging you

I saw some snippet of a callout post for an autistic trans woman where they list social faux pas she committed, and I think we allistic people should all feel 100x more ashamed of not telling people in the moment how we feel about what they're doing. I think its extremely evil and cruel to not only lie to an autistic person and blame them for it but also to feel justified shaming them for your behavior. And it's currently the social norm to do that

Everytime we as allistic people sit and force a smile or sigh and act subtly grumpy or otherwise lie to an autistic person's face about how we feel about what they did it is in fact Our Fault that we are enduring whatever the autistic person is daring to try and share with us. You can literally say something out loud directly. The literal structure of our social existence will always traumatize autistic people unless you can give a fuck enough to consider it isn't their fault that you didn't communicate with them

Even I couldn't understand this until my wife was in tears because I had internalized the idea that it was her fault that people were uncomfortable in a conversation where no one told her they were uncomfortable and blamed her for it. Allistic people punish autistic people for so many Percieved slights, or even decide together afterward what exactly the slight was and then make their collective judgment behind the autistic persons back. Not only do we get the benefit of communicating nonverbally through obtuse social cues the autistic person can't parce, we then get to say that we weren't going behind their back because we all did those social cues they are too disabled to understand Right in front of them. No, what you did was choose to suppress your feelings and then reap the social benefits of being in on the discomfort.

this is literally why many autistic people genuinely worry that their friends secretly hate them, by the way. because many people in the past did.