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Sam

@sambitez

17 , she/her

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Here is the post that everyone is waiting for regarding Killerbait/kat/kit. 

I just want to preface by saying, if this blog gets confusing at any point, I am willing to answer questions that anyone has. I will NOT be exposing her real name or identity to the public. As there are pedophiles that interacted with her and could potentially cause harm if they became obsessive enough. I am all too familiar with the way that the online-world works and I do not wish any form of physical harm on her. After all, I knew Kat & loved her for nearly four years. 

I’m going to try to keep this as simple as I can so everyone can understand. But breaking down almost four years of details will get complicated. 

So let’s start from the beginning:

I met Kat during my sophomore year of high school. I was 15 at the time and she was 15 as well. We are the same age, I am just a few months older than her. Which makes us BOTH currently the age of 17. We are both still minors. We became friends very quickly and connected over TLOU because we both made edits of the game and met through TikTok which is how we even became associated with each other. I had a girlfriend at the time, but we both had (unstated) feelings for each other than didn’t get acted on until late into my junior year. In the mean time, she had a different girlfriend after realizing that I wasn’t “available.” We remained friends throughout this entire period of time, there were instances where we didn’t speak as much just because I have a very busy life and so did she. Towards the end of her and her ex girlfriend’s relationship, we got close again, and I even got close with her ex girlfriend. We had a group chat together and we all spoke everyday for a couple of weeks until eventually, her and her girlfriend’s relationship came to an end. Which brings me into the next chapter of Kat and I’s life “together.” 

Me and Kat started dating in December of 2023. And we broke up as of this Tuesday. We were together for a year and three months. Our relationship was completely okay up until around August/September. We started fighting over things but they always got resolved and things would be fine, until inevitably they weren’t. And I have just found out yesterday, that she had actually reached out to her ex girlfriend- claiming I was “aggressive” and that there were “other girls.” Both of which are false allegations against me and the person that I am. I would never have considered cheating on Kat, even when she started treating me like I was less than a person to her. 

Here is the proof of her and her ex girlfriends conversation about me with time stamps: 

This all happened in August, as you can see. We later broke up once in December almost directly after we had hit our one year. I broke up with her because of the mistreatment and then a small miscommunication that was genuinely just the last straw for me. I wish I would’ve kept things that way. But she insisted that we stayed friends and still spoke afterwards, we kept each other on social media, and we both made the mistakes of staying in contact after the break up- which inevitably led to us getting back together after three days.  

After that it just never got better. It was another draining 3-4 months of begging to be treated like a person. I begged her to love me, I begged her to care about my successes, I begged her to care about my problems when I had them, I just begged. I did a LOT of begging. And she could typically only give me the words “I’ll try to do better” or “I’m sorry.” Occasionally though, she would give a genuine apology. Occasionally. 

On Monday, March 10th of 2025, I asked her if we could call once or twice a month. As we barely ever called. I never even FaceTimed this girl. She never wanted to and would refuse. Calling is very important to me because quality time is one of my verrryyy big love languages. So It really meant something when I got to call her, I truly cherished every moment with her. But she would deny my request almost every time. Which is why I proposed  the idea of calling 1-2 times a month. To which she said “I can try” and when I was upset and started texting dryly, she did not respond. She just asked if she could go to sleep. To which I said yes, and then later that evening before I went to bed- I sent her a text telling her “if you don’t love me anymore, it’s okay. You can leave and I won’t stop you.” That morning when I woke up, I saw her response and she told me that she “no longer saw me as a girlfriend, and loved me more as a friend.” And when I asked her if we could fix it, she told me “I hope so.” Which is when I knew it was over. And I told her we should probably break up. 

Here is the proof of that conversation as well: 

The SS below is the second convo we had that day. Where I asked her if she had me blocked on tumblr. Because last time we broke up she posted about me, but nothing to this extent. I admit I was gonna look if she did, as any ex normally would lol… but I never expected to see the things she posted this time around.

After all of this. Things only got worse, as all of you guys know. Whether you are fans, haters, or neutral on her as a person. We all saw her account go “downhill” as most sane people would say. She started posting her nudes on the Internet and publicly sexting potential adults and minors, as well as saying that they could rape her. 

This is all while she is also a minor. She is 17 years old. Seven. teen. 

Here is the proof I can provide of that:

Killerbait enabling rape:

And her admitting to it, knowing that it is wrong, since some of you guys are saying that she “might not know better.”:

Proof that Killerbait is a minor:

This is a conversation between me and her mother. I’m keeping it cropped because I want NO part in any form of doxxing or harm towards her family. Or her, for that matter. Which is a big reason why I’m even doing this in the first place. I am SPREADING AWARENESS….:

This is a birthday post I made for her, the date is at the top of the post: 

And to provide more proof that she is a habitual liar, here is her lying about texting her ex-girlfriend about me “cheating.” Saying that she “never did that.”: 

This is proven to be a lie, as in the screenshots I uploaded above in this blog, show that she OBVIOUSLY messaged her ex girlfriend- claiming I cheated on her, as well as saying I was “aggressive.”  

I think that is all. This is all the proof that I have. If there are any questions please feel free to ask. I know I said this was solely about revenge, as I am very angry and hurt. I was molested from ages 6-11 by my own family member. The fact that she is capitalizing off of this kind of topic is sickening. And the fact that she is exposing herself online to potential predators, is sickening as well. I am with everyone when they say that they hope she gets the help that she needs. I genuinely hope that she stays safe and she recovers from everything that she has gone through/is going through. But she needs to stay off of the internet. There will always be creeps lurking, preying on girls just like her. I want to put an end to this.

Thank you to everyone who spent their time reading this and trying to understand the situation. I do not care about “sides” being taken. I just want her to be safe. 

(I also want to note that, after knowing her for four years. She never once mentioned having any trauma regarding rape. So throw that excuse for her behavior out the window.)

I lied I’m gonna keep this account up and just make a new one and abandon this one

Tmrw morning I’ll be clearing my account/posts out. I like tumblr & I can just post my thoughts here kinda like twitter and I rlly just don’t wanna talk about my ex anymore since it’s old news to me now

Anonymous asked:

hii, I was a bit of a "fan" of killerbait/kat, I loved seeing her writing and she was honestly very talented to me, I got off tumblr for a few months and just got back on this week, I was a bit confused when I didn't see any posts from her and assumed she left or went on a hiatus. after reading your posts and seeing what happened I am so disgusted to see and hear what a minor was doing on here, I was getting a bit icky the last time I saw her page before I left tumblr, her fics got suddenly dark and creeped me out, hope your doing alright and I'm so sorry this happened to you, much love. 💕

Thank you angel!!

And yes I know. I think she had some kind of mental break and I hadn’t noticed it until after we broke up… maybe our break up was the final straw that broke the camels back? I dunno. She wasn’t always like this or else I wouldn’t have dated her, period the end.

Debating on creating a new account or clearing all this stuff out now, because my life does not and will never revolve around my ex…

I’m seeing Ethel Cain in concert btw❤️ and Pierce the veil for the third time now. Life is peak I’m so happy

Anonymous asked:

Would you go back to her?

Absolutely not!! I am very happy & comfortable where I’m at right now

Anonymous asked:

I heard u were showing Kits blogs to ppl irl in order to embarrass her. Is this true?

What an odd accusation… no I wasn’t doing that

Anonymous asked:

Omg hi, I just wanted to say. I DO feel bad for you, you didn’t deserve what happened to you, this whole situation is so insane, (sorry it’s like 1 am)

I just hope you can recover from this and same with her, this is actually so disturbing because she posted cp and noncon fics+interacting with people who were probably 20+ or 18-

I’m actually so devastated to hear what happened because she’s ONLY 17, a kid but I also can’t be because she probably knew better, I just really hope for the best for you guys :c

Much love💗💗

Thank you sweetheart!!! ❤️❤️

I appreciate your words and support. I also agree with you, I hope Kat does well in her future. And I hope that she gets the help she needs, I feel bad because she was getting help at one point but her therapist had to leave so she stopped. Which may be an explanation as to why things got so bad with her mental health. I dunno, just a thought. I feel empathy for her even though it’s really hard to after everything that took place, and all the lies she fed me. But I do hope she gets better and lives a good, long, and healthy life.

i used to be mutals with kit and omg… i’m so sorry i always thought some of the stuff she posted was a little weird but i never would’ve thought she was lying and stuff i really hope u heal from everything and don’t listen to anyone trying to bring u down or anything u have people who will back u up so you can speak ur truth

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Thank you angel!!! Everything is okay over here. I’m deleting/ignoring any future “hate” related messages as they all hold the same theme 🤦🏻‍♀️. I’m getting exhausted in repeating myself and I don’t feel as if I owe people explanations when everyone personal to me, and myself— know the situation. I know my situation. It’s up to everyone else whether they want to believe me or not, I can’t force anyone to think like me or believe like me! And I don’t care to. Everyone is their own person with their own beliefs and opinions. We were all made differently and that is okay :).

Anonymous asked:

Adding onto that- she SHOWED Kit the thread and posted the screenshots. If she wasn’t 17 why wouldn’t she say something and be like “hey why are you saying that this isn’t true” Kit is 17 and we know because Kit didn’t say otherwise while reading the thread.

Thank you!! I was very communicative and yes I did in fact show her the thread before posting it. I understand the photo of me and her mom’s convo is heavily cropped. If it’s such a major issue I’ll redownload the app and show the full convo. I just felt everything else that was spoke abt in that section of messages was unimportant to the topic which is why I didn’t show the full thing…

Anonymous asked:

I’m so confused I thought you knew kit for four years and that you met at 15 but she’s a minor ?? Forgive me if you’ve already answered this already but if you two were 15 when you met 4 years ago should you guys be at least 18 ???? Also I read the comments on your pinned post and you said that you showed kit the thread you posted ?? You showed her that you were exposing her and she was okay with that ??

Ughhh yes I fear I may have gotten the timeline a bit mixed up. And I apologize for that. But we did infact know each other from my sophomore year to my senior year.

And yes she knew, I’ll show the SS :).

Anonymous asked:

You actually seem so sweet, i’m so sorry☹️☹️

Thank you sweetheart☹️ it’s okay! I am omw to healing lol

Anonymous asked:

but u didn’t see she was weird asf??? like u didn’t care what she was writing here?

I didn’t know at all😭. I avoided looking at her account because I thought all she talked abt mainly was sevika & it made me upset just bc me and sevika r SO physically different so I saved my own feelings by not looking. I didn’t know about all the nasty stuff she was doing on here. But I should’ve known. She actually requested to block me on here a few months back and when I asked her why she just told me it was bc she was embarrassed of the idea that I knew what she was posting.. I told her she couldn’t block me bc I was lit her gf at the time? But I still didn’t look into it much bc I didn’t wanna play the toxic or jealous gf role.

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