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Queen Bee

@sapphiconherknees / sapphiconherknees.tumblr.com

30, Femme lesbian & Sub dms & inbox are open | Men & Minors DNI

Hi there, I’m Bee

A good girl sub, with a very dirty mind

Age: 30

AuDHD - Have fun with that other wild ride part of me

Lesbian (She/her) I am plus size (trying to loose weight so I can be self concious of this). Every single person in the LGBTQIA+ community is welcome here. You are safe with me. I promise.

Side blog—Fanfic account: @parrillamyswanqueen

Top favourite songs:

1. Sapphic cover of Guilty as sin by Kat Victoria

2. On my way there by Lydia Von Hof

3. Casual by Chappell Roan

4. The Giver by Chappell Roan

5. I like you best by Ella Red

I only have a handful of domme accounts on here that I fully trust right now - so just bear with me if I don't open up to you right away. I had a bad experience a few years ago, which leads me onto my next thing...aftercare! This is where I had someone neglect me completley and I have been helped to understand that aftercare is what I have been craving and so this is of the upmost immortance when it comes to this space-just as important as the sexual acts in the bedroom itself, if not more important.

The type of domme like: soft Mommy/Mistress Domme

MY KINKS: Mommy, Denial, edging, soft choking, nipple play, bondage, sensation play, praise, overstimulation, soft corruptions, spanking (hand or paddle only), somno, pet play (I'd like to explore), faux sympathy, older women make me vunerable, soft degredation, soft corruption and soft dumification, there is more but my Mommy's/Misses you'll have to earn those! <3

Pet names I like/I like being told: Darling, Good girl, Sweetheart, pet

HARD NO'S: anything that is forceful (especially any kind of r!pe kink if I see this I will block you due to my own trauma), CNC, slaps, scat, incest, needle play, fire play, gore, heavy strong degredation (soft degredation is fine), anal, body fluids (other than cum), feeder/gainer

PLEASE DO NOT SEND EXPLICIT PHOTOS OR START SEXTING WIHTOUT ASKING ME FIRST.

Ask box & DMs are always open: Just remember to add in your age , an emoji and your pronouns when you message 21+ in my dms only, ask box 18+

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DO NOT INTERACT OR FOLLOW MY ACCOUNT

Cis hetro men, minors (I don't care if you turn 18 tomorrow. It's a no), homophobe, transphobe, racist, blank accounts will be blocked if you follow or interact with my account

Pease do not share my content if you have cis hets following you, and on another note I don't want anything relating to daddy, or in the tags saying 'this but with him' or anything similar. You will be blocked if you do such a thing. respect my boundries please.

Being disrespectful to me or my mutals, or any one of my lovely followers will result in an instant block.

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i dont think anything compares to the joy of getting asks on tumblr or getting comments on ao3

its like, wow. human communication thru the internet. except it feels personal. but yknow, in a nice way, not in an invasive way

its like, you CLICKED on MY account and read thru MY posts and cared enough to leave me a personal message. smth so cute abt that

Anonymous asked:

I’m glad that you’re still okay sweetheart, even if you’re day wasn’t as good as it could’ve been <3

It also makes me very happy that you enjoy my asks🤭 also thank you for saying that you’re proud of me :’) <33 that meant a lot

I’m glad my last ask wasn’t too much <3

And good that my little ”eat and drink” reminders are (hopefully) helping <3

-✨

Yeah, you know when some days are just a bit blugh, that's how I'm feeling. And I think burn out is creeping back to me so fun timessss, and I am not great and letting myself rest even with burn out. I think because my whole life I have never been allowed to actually rest when I'm struggling, so I just push through until I'm in shut down. Not purposley, just something I'm used to (sorry for the truam dump there...hope it wasn't too much.)

And of course, always happy to tell you that <3

Your reminders definitely help, especially with my hyperfocussing on my writing all day, I always forget to eat and drink, and then I wonder why I feel so sick at the end of the day!

I hope you're having a good evening lovely!

-Bee👑

Anonymous asked:

hi darling <3 thank you for being so sweet <3 I hope your day has been treating you well🫶🏻

I survived the exam but I’m so sure I’m not passing it or the course… :’) but well there isn’t really much I can do about it (tho I am anxious as shit)

And I totally understand! As someone who’s always been the ”mom” friend (and also been parenting my own parents), I always get so emotional when people say reassuring and nice things??

sorry idk if that’s too much of a trauma dump or not but yeah, point is, I totally understand and relate to you!!

Remember to eat and drink today sweet girl, okay? <3

-✨

Hi,

I love seeing you come into my ask, always makes me happy! My day could have been better honestly, but I'm okay<3

So proud of you for doing your exam, hey we can fail together, but I have every faith in you that you'll pass! I truly feel that anxiety, but I'm trying not to think about it(except it's all I can think about, which sucks!)

Yes, also the same with me parents my friends and my own parents, so I always gets super emotional, and comforted and just happy when others check in on me, reassure me and just say nice things, you know?

I promise this is not too much of a trauma dump, not even close <3

and thank you, I haven't eaten much or even drunk anything today. So I need to do that <3

Make sure you do the same!

-Bee👑

Anonymous asked:

Your a BDSM blog, I don't get why we don't just get to dm you?

Hi.

I never said you can't dm me, I'm saying you can't dm me and sext me right away, or expect my submission.

Just because I am a BD/SM blog that does not give you an automatic right to my submission or body. You don't get to just fucking have it.

I am happy for anyone to DM me, just maybe get to know me and build something with me before sexting me. I am not here to be claimed or owned okay?

Just be a decent human and respect my boundries.

Also I will be turning my DM's off for everyone who I don’t follow.

-Bee👑

My submission is earned. You don't just get to have it. You earn it. Don't come into my dm's expecting me to sext, and submit to you just because you want me to. You don't get to have me. You don't own me and honey you don't get to control me.

Just because I am relatively new to the BDSM community, does not mean you can manipulate me into thinking what your doing is okay. It's not. If anyone else tries anything like this I will block you.

My submission isn't just a given, as I said you have to earn it.

I should not have to explain this to anyone. Do not cross my boundries.

🩷 There are no such things as "default kinks" 🩷

  • Spanking should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay to not like any sort of impact play whatsoever.
  • Choking should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay to not want somebody to squeeze your neck or have their hand anywhere near your neck.
  • "Liking it rough" should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay if you prefer to always keep it soft and sweet.
  • Biting should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay if you're anxious about getting any infections or simply don't like the idea of somebody sinking their teeth into your skin.
  • Having bruises on your body from hickeys should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay if you don't want to see those sorts of markings on your skin.
  • Degradation should not be treated as a default kink. It's okay to have certain words and phrases be triggering for you and to prefer sweet praises instead.

Trauma exists, and this is why you should always have a discussion before a scene. No kinks exist in everybody by default. And please know that if you're part of this list, you're valid and seen 🩷

Do not feel pressured into partaking in certain kinks just because "everybody else does" or because your partner has assumed that you'd want to. Stay safe my sweethearts, protect your body and mind, and have open and honest communication <33

Anonymous asked:

Bet I could fuck you into next week better than any woman could 😂😂

Creep.

Just going to leave this here: https://www.tumblr.com/sapphiconherknees/779221171147292672/why-do-men-always-think-that-they-can-turn-us?source=share

Read, and don't send me anymore asks, I have deleted your other asks, your other VERY HOMOPHOBIC asks, and this is the only ask of yours I will be answering.

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