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@sapphosdancer

My lesbian blog. 25, Asks welcomed, I dont tag anything so if you want something tagged please ask.

i hate it when bitches see a fat chick and go "omg you look like you give great huggggs~ you look like suuuuuch a good listener~ i wanna be your friend so bad your smile is so pretty~"

💥WRONG💥

you look FUCKABLE. i want to grab into your hips and stomach and dig my nails into your flesh. i want to sink my teeth into your thighs. you look fucking IRRESISTABLE. i need fat chicks in my life and in my bed. PLEASE.

Posting this because I was reminded of it recently but if you're the type of person who is physically affectionate with everyone in your friend group except the transfem I wish harm upon you

Go sit next to your transfem friend on the couch and lean against her. Go hold her hand when you go out together. Give her a kiss on the cheek when you say goodbye. Give her a hug when she's sad. Do anything to show her that she's loved the same as everyone else. Please

one of the most infuriating things about the perennial "um but maybe your abusive boyfriend is neurodivergent and that's why he never helps you with anything" shit is that as a disabled trans woman i am NEVER given anywhere near the same benefit of the doubt that abusive men are given.

me needing my partner's help with things is automatically seen as abusive and lazy by others to the point they need to defend me over it.

it's a twin tailed thing of misogyny here because women and especially trans women needing help is seen as demanding and bad and men actively being abusive are coddled and eternally excused. it's fucking vile.

hashtag leftists on their way to excuse your abuser and call a trans woman abusive in the same breath.

Disabled trans woman?

"wow she's really lazy and kind of a bitch, she's so helpless can't she even do anything?"

her boyfriend (cis or trans) who is actively abusive towards her and treats her like a house servant?

"well yknow he's had a hard life and he's neurodivergent and traumatised so you can't really blame him for taking your stuff and never cleaning anything ever and yelling and getting violent when you ask him to or say you're scared of him."

trans women: ugh i'm so tired of being seen as a disgusting worthless sex object

50% of people: aww don't worry i see you as a desireable sex object <3

other 50% of people: i just combed through your social media account and found out you have expressed sexuality several times before, even as recently as just last week. if you're not gonna be perfectly chaste and completely repress this emotion that most people have then you can't expect people not to see you as a sex object. you basically are one anyways

Reminder to all stone tops and touch-me-nots: You are not broken, and you do not need to be fixed. You will find someone who loves, cherishes, and respects you and your boundaries. No matter if your boundaries are shaped by trauma, personal preference, or both, know that you do not need to be 'fixed' to find love or be loved.

the legendary lady in waiting x princess x knight yuri triad, yet the complex yuri dynamics of the lady in waiting and knight are often underutilized

Hey tgirls if that partner makes you feel bad for sexual requests or refuses to touch you intimately in places other than your genitals or doesn't initial intimate contact or gets upset at you for trying to provide feedback on how your changing body has changing sexual needs you should leave/cheat on them/kill them with a large stone

This post has the implicit 'tme' before the partner part but tbh if you're a butch tgirl and you have a tma partner that treats you like this, try and have a serious conversation with them about how the interplay of your sexual identity and gender identity affect the degree to which your masculinity imposes both additional internal & external pressure to both give in to comptop/compdom AND how butches have historically been denied the nonsexual physical intimacy that seems to be the assumed paradigm for other women.

And then if that doesn't work and they still treat you like free lesbian dick or man-lite you should leave/cheat on them/kill them with a large stone

> sees complaints that a female character looks "too masculine" or "like an ugly lesbian"

> ask if we got an actual butch character or if shes just a normal looking woman that isnt wearing make up and a dress

> person is visibly confused, i start explaining the difference between actual butch presentation and dress and a woman simply dressing comfortably to avoid indecent exposure

> person laughs and says "she straight up looks like a guy, i can barely tell her apart from the actual men"

> google the character

> shes just a normal looking woman that isnt wearing make up and a dress

> sees complaints that a female character looks "too masculine" or "like an ugly lesbian"

> ask if we got an actual butch character or if shes just a black woman

> person is visibly confused, i start explaining the difference between actual butch presentation and dress and how black women are held to white standards of femininity and are often accused of looking like/being men because of white people applying these standards to them

> person laughs and says "she straight up looks like a guy, i can barely tell her apart from the actual men. why are you bringing race into this?"

> google the character

> shes just a black woman

Being an evil doppelganger has to be so fucked up like imagine meeting a better version of yourself. Some chain of events going differently that led to "you" being a better person in a way you can never achieve. Personally I'd have no other option but to try and kill them

It's always "oh no my evil clone or twin or whatever is trying to kill me" and never How is my evil clone? Says a lot about society

transfem butches 🥰🩷💋 butches who tuck🥰🩷💋butches on E 🥰🩷💋 butches with estrogenized clits 🥰🩷💋 butches with budding tits 🥰🩷💋 butches who have/want huge tits 🥰🩷💋 butches with facial hair 🥰🩷💋nonbinary butches 🥰🩷💋 pre-HRT & no-HRT butches 🥰🩷💋 butch neopussy 🥰🩷💋butch cock 🥰🩷💋 butch strap 🥰🩷💋 butches who wear makeup 🥰🩷💋 butches who only use she/her pronouns 🥰🩷💋 butches who use any pronouns 🥰🩷💋 gnc butches 🥰🩷💋 fat butches who cant lift 🥰🩷💋 butches with double chins 🥰🩷💋 butches whos womanhood is integral to their butchness 🥰🩷💋 butches 🥰🩷💞❣️💗💝❤️‍🔥😘💋

YES! WONDERFUL ADDITION FROM THE TAGS!!

baby butch asking another butch for ''''''advice'''''' so he can ''''''make it good for his future girl''''' so you take out yr strap and you can see his eyes going wide, coaxing him to feel the shape of it, the weight, telling him to imagine it inside him until 10mins later it is and hes got his fist in his mouth trying so hard to look tough and not beg you for more even tho hes whining for it anyway . whatever you do DO NOT think abt this

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