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the mean lesbian tumblr warned you about

@gnometa233

Nomi/Nometa. 24. She/Her. I am not interested in discourse, I am right

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Every single anti- bi/pan-lesbian post i make goes the same way.

I go "hey lesbians dont experience attraction to men actually."

And some fucknut goes "thats exclusionary!! Lesbians can fuck men!!"

And i go "so thats rape culture. Youre advocating for lesbian corrective rape"

And they go "you dont respect diverse genders/sexualities!!"

And i go "i dont care what people call themselves, feel free to make up new labels, but lesbianism does not include attraction to men"

And the circle back around to "youre being exclusionary!! And a terf!!"

And i go "excluding is not inherently morally bad. Including is not inherently morally good. Also, im only talking about not being attracted to men, why do you think i mean "trans women" when i say men"

Then they go "well theres a long history of lesbians fucking men! Dont deny history!"

And i go "those lesbians were bisexual women who fought hard to have their own label and identity. You are being biphobic by erasing their struggles. Additionally, something having history doesnt absolve it of any crime"

And sometimes theyll go "but men fucking lesbians is a kink! You cant kinkshame!"

And ill go "something being a kink does not automatically mean it can't be criticized. Are pedophilia and beastiality a kink? Are they something that should be allowed? Kinks are not some magical, untouchable item that can do no harm in any situation."

And they'll go back to "some people just have open or fluid genders/sexualities! You cant box us in!"

And i go "sure. And you cant tell me how open or closed my sexuality is. You cant redefine a sexuality for all lesbians just because you want to. A sexuality is not more morally correct when open, and not more morally condemnable when closed. Aren't you against political lesbianism? How is political fluidity any better? (fluidity just for the sake of being more Politically Correct)"

And they go "but youre being mean!! Youre being loud and mean and your tone is bad"

And i go "well im a sexual assault survivor advocating against sexual assault of lesbians. My tone is probably indicative of how strongly i feel about this issue. Plus, its fucked up to ask an oppressed class to try and get the boot off their neck as prettily and quietly as possible."

And then they devolve into calling me a transphobe-terf mean scary fat lesbian who doesn't care about other people. All over me saying "lesbians do not fuck men".

okay it’s come to my attention that absolutely NONE OF YOU know ANYTHING about how cutie marks work. let me say this simply. a cutie mark isn’t a job being assigned, it’s a special TALENT OR SKILL that the pony enjoys. Most of the time it has a directly transferable job for that skill, like if you enjoy baking and are super good at it WOW! baker. If you are really good at writing and telling stories, author. However, there are some cutie marks that could go multiple ways.

twilight sparkle has exceptional magic ability, so she became a scholar, but she could really do anything that required a good magic skill. same with rainbow dash, her weather controlling job isn’t directly linked to her cutie mark, but it does fit the bill for the job.

i was posed the question of what would a murderer pony’s cutie mark be and wouldn’t everyone know. NO. if somehow murder were to be a special skill, the cutie mark might be something like a knife or a shovel. other ponies might just assume you’re good a cooking or gardening. now with cutie marks like apple jacks, their family has a ‘green thumb’ kind of deal so obviously the cutie mark would be hereditary.

so, the reason i made this post. walter white pony’s cutie mark would NOT be blue crystals. it would be a CHEMISTRY FLASK.

I love all books but sometimes you read a book and you’re like so were all 21 thousand of you blindfolded and at gun point when you rated it 5 stars

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“They want to play high morality” as a response to a group of people not being comfortable with certain things in a show that scarily shows similar horrors people go through in our own world will always be weird to me, Like yes why would I a black woman ass lick a cop who committed police brutality and declared martial law? Why do you feel the need to make me like them? Why do you feel the need to harass people of color for rightfully feeling uncomfortable?

Because it’s not real life? Caitlyn has motivations and goals that are understandable and empathetic, which is not the case for real oppression in real life. Being able to separate reality from fantasy and understand the message of the story being told with the characters is an important aspect of being a functional human being. You don’t have to like them, but being able to understand them is kinda crucial to enjoying media. Your skin color isn’t the problem.

I’m a Jewish American lesbian. Do you have any idea how angry the criticism that Caitlyn “gassed all of Zaun” makes me feel when so much of Zaun and Silco in particular are Jewish coded? Not only is it a direct LIE about what happened but it preys on my family trauma to gain faux moral high ground points rather than actually engaging with the characters and story to understand the message of the ways violence corrupts people.

All fiction relies on the real world in some way. I would recommend that you read a textbook. Media literacy is truly dead.

"Jewish coded" I'm Jewish and what the hell are they on about lmaoooo

A problem I have when reading romance novels is I cannot empathize with disliking someone but finding them attractive regardless. If I dislike someone I'm like "You are like a wadded up ball of sweaty socks and I want you to burn in a pyre, undying and screaming for days"

"He infuriated her, though she was willing to admit he was a handsome man" I couldn't begin to tell you what the people I dislike look like because I see red instantly. If you were like "Is he the blond one" I'd be like "idk he's the one who most looks like he should die"

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Butchfemme tumblr getting more and more insane by the day. “Questionable age gaps!!! 🥰” “butches gotta message me first, I’m too shy/submissive/cutesy, b-b-but I posted to the butch bait tag!!!!” “Predatory butch x naive femme!!!! 🥰”

You are not protecting butches if you’re asking them to act against their morals. You can’t even message first to make friends with them? Are you looking at butches as people or as romantic, sexual accessories?

Stop expecting/trying to put a butch into the labels society already tries to assign to them just for how they present.

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