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his name is Astraeus, and he is a very good boy.
Bella | 30 | bisexual | writer | she/her
I write under the same name on ff.net/AO3 when the stars align.

it disturbs me that a significant number of people think that the issue with sexual violence, gendered violence, and misogyny is sexual desire rather than dehumanization, so they are relentlessly suspicious of others' (and their own) desires while simultaneously never at all interrogating others' (and their own) dehumanizing beliefs about other people, both within and outside of sexual contexts

Recently discovered, fully by accident, that the trick to feeling like you have more time in the day is to actually do shit with the time that's there, which seems fake and wrong and it's frankly infuriating that it works >:|

This is picking up a bit so I thought I'd mention that, while this trick does work, it is regrettably the hardest fucking thing in the world to do :T

I genuinely hate those "I pay the bill and she cooks in a thong videos" and it's even more embarassing when women are like "aww, green flag 🥹" "I love it, this is what you call a provider" and.... I think that people very easily forget that the hand that feeds you can also starve you. Also, what about when he no longer finds the sight of her in a thong attractive? Oh, yes, he cheats on her and then the woman has to stay in an unhappy marriage because she is financially dependent on him....sucks. We live in a capitalist society, meaning that EVERYTHING is dependent on how much money you have, you give the responsibility of that to someone else, you're fucked for life and I really want all the girls to understand this. It's okay if he wants to pay for everything, you should still be working and have an account just in case. Your husband can be the best person ever and the point stills stands.

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