*Scrolls past*

*reluctant sigh*

*scrolls back up*

*rebogs*

Parents always say this:

but never this:

Like any abusive authority figure, they want you to be smart enough to uphold their authority but not smart enough to challenge their authority.

Autistic people sometimes struggle with apologizing, because they're never taught how to do it the right way.

When autistic people are taught how to apologize, they're often taught that the sincerity of the apology is determined by how well they can hide their disability.

Not enough eye contact = insincere apology

Struggling to phrase it = insincere apology

Wrong tone = insincere apology

Asking questions to figure out how to prevent doing it again = insincere apology (and "arguing" or "making excuses")

Meanwhile, neurotypical people can continue their patterns while still being considered sincere by these standards.

see the THING IS I don't feel like I ever worked hard enough to have "earned" the burnout, which is. probably how we got here.

Hm

@ faradaycockcage

Further evidence

In the second Sonic movie, he refers to him self as ‘hedgehog of the house’ in Tom’s absence instead of ‘man of the house’ further implying his gender is hedgehog

not "he" as in "he/him" but "he" as in "hedgehog"

@blue-worm-from-space

People I'd Like to Get to Know Better

Thanks for the tag @depressedandoverdressed

no pressure tags: @mostclevermiss @keitrinkomfloukru

Thanks for tagging me @amnesiathefirstcatlady

no pressure tags: @sanemeks @gardenvarietywizard

Thanks for tagging me @keitrinkomfloukru

no pressure tags: @beckyninja @yanagikou @samaelzdraws @74rn

Oh boy, here we go... I don't know if this list will tell you anything of substance about me, but fudge it, we ball.

Thanks for tagging me @sanemeks XD

I don't really like tagging people, but if someone (@tagedeszorns) feels like doing this, they are welcome to do so :) No pressure whatsoever though.

Tagging @legiopraesagio, @leaofthewolves and @ladymirdan - because I want to be annoying!

Aw, thanks for tagging me!

• Last song: Poets Of The Fall "Passion Colors Everything"

• Favorite color: green

• Last book: "Firedrake" by Nick Kyme (currently)

• Last movie: Dungeons& Dragons, 2000

• Last TV show: Severance

• Last thing I googled: she took a midnight train going anywhere

• Relationship status: married

• Looking forward to: Paris :)

• Current obsession: Warhammer 40000

Tagging @lokebrenna, @cav-core, @cheapsweets, @iscriptikus, because there are beloved mutuals I want to learn more about :)

Thanks for tagging me! :DDDD

• Last song: Razormind from the Payday 2 Official Soundtrack

• Favorite color: olive green

• Last book: Pharos by Guy Haley (current)

• Last movie: The Animated Hobbit film from the seventies

• Last TV show: Avataro Sentai Donbrothers

• Last thing I googled: the vanishing 1988

• Relationship status: In a relationship!!!!

• Looking forward to: SEEING GREY NEXT WEEK AND GOING TO WARHAMMER WORLD!!! BUT MOSTLY SEEING GREY!!!!

• Current obsession: Warhammer 40k as well. And my ocs. But that's a fulltime obsession

tagging: @general-grey @peacockfeatherbookmarks @fauxginger @crowgoblin @soosmain

no pressure to reply!

Thank you for the tag!!! Last Song: Monstarr - Ennaria Favourite Colour: Dark Green Last Book: Uncomfortable Labels - Laura Dale Last Film: Deadpool & Wolverine back in 2024 I think?? I don't do movies. Last TV Show: I think WWE Raw? Last thing I googled: Jordan Normal Form (don't ask) Relationship Status: *Heart Emoji* *Heart Emoji* *Heart Emoji* Looking FWD to: House party in April!! Also going back to MMA soon I hope! Also also hopefully HRT soon!!! Current obsession: I'm between hyperfixations rn. I guess YGO is the constant one, I'm also working really hard on my two TTRPGs and poetry. tagging (With no expectation of reply ever at all!): @blackwinghecate @lollycakesx @robynredbreast @cerberling and @corrach

Last Song: Viking Death March by Billy Talent

Favourite Colour: Red

Last Book: Going Postal by Terry Pratchett

Last Film: The last one I remember watching was the Barbie Movie (and Oppenheimer, my friends and I made a day of it when they came out), I don't watch films that often

Last TV Show: Again I don't watch TV much, I think the last one I saw was JoJo's Bizarre Adventure: Stardust Crusaders

Last thing I googled: End of the last ice age

Relationship Status: Long distance girlfriend ❤️ Open to being poly but happy for now

Looking FWD to: My girlfriend coming to visit for the first time over the Easter weekend ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Current obsessions: I'm a compulsive mtg deck brewer! I've got loads of half-baked or theorycrafted decks, but I only own 2!

Tagging @tgirlkisser @mostlyacrow @salmaciansalix @little-computer, no pressure ofc!

Last song: ummmm idk I don’t really listen to much music

Favourite colour: blue :3

Last book: ork king by ra Salvatore

Last film: dead pool and wolverine I think

Last show: if we count anime then madoka magica

Last thing I google searched: homura autistic lesbian (I was looking for a specific YouTube video (no I didn’t find it))

Relationship status: single, hit me up girls and nb pals

Looking fwd too: idk? I don’t think about the future much

Current obsession: no obsessions atm I don’t think

Tagging @certifiedpurpleharlot @girlcockincorporated @eightglass @gaymerlily @clarisse-owo @politicalbunnybun @sapphicideas @nekomrade @emyemerald @xcosmicravenx @yurifreak15

last song : punk tactics

favorite color : pink

last book : i was trying to read the name of the wind but i got bored XP

last film : morbius... I WAS BORED

last show : the office

last thing i googled : homestuck² don't judge me, i was just checking if it still existed

relationship status : people too far away

looking forward to : doom the dark ages (won't have enough money to buy it)

current obsession : as always, bjds. i REALLY wanna do one for myself but modeling is too scaring

@chexotica @backalleycatgirl @mynaemsophie @spaghettihell

Las song: I fall in love too easily by Chet baker

Favorite color: 🏳️‍⚧️ these colors

Last book: d&d players handbook

Last film: groundhogs day

Last show: not sure but I’m about to watch Zach stones going to be famous

Last thing I googled: moltres 

Relationship status: @toppettehat

Looking towards to; I don’t even know anymore

Current obsession: comedy and music. Comedy music

@toppettehat @afriendofblahaj @lostshulkerbox @rose-the-spider-queen @eightglass @the-silly-creature @unstark

Last Song: Enemy Retreating With Lyrics by Man in The Internet

Fav. Color: Sky blue/cyan

Last Book: The Catcher in the Rye

Last Film: National Treasure

Last Show: Lone Star Law

Last Thing I Googled: Sea Hare

Relationship Status: @spaghettihell

Looking Forward Too: Pokemon Legends Z-A

Current Obsession: Making Fakemon

@ciel-of-vault-111 @cholerascum @andreachaosblog @trans-fem-menace @theasexualagent @tgirl-bagel @frankiefridayyy @chaos-triangle

🎵 last song: yummy by ayesha erotica

🩷 fav color: pastel pink!!!

📚 last book: crooked kingdom

🍿 last film: the barbie movie

📺 last show: mha

💻 last thing i googled: is makoto naegi transphobic (answer is yes btw but maybe hes changed)

💌 relationship status: single :(

🔮 looking forward to: drawing later today

😍 current obsession: y2k gyaru fashion

@child-of-the-super-nova @ilovewomen--8 @zithergilt @wlovelee @sharkiiv @robinbriar @itsapollothething @g0od-luck-macabr3-sh0ck-to0 @twisterino10 @justa-opossum @justa-gremlin-cat @etherealjellyfishenby @lordofthechicken @venus-salam-the-puppet @sillyguyz4ever @groggle + anyone else i forgot sorry my memory is bad!!!

@zanelover @the-person-that-did-that @mydysfunctionallife @blue-worm-from-space + anybody I forgor