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@smashingorpassing

18+ only please. i'm running this blog for anthropological reasons and also because i'm bisexual. and my friends are here too!

this blog is not posting polls anymore. we have left the description and pinned post up for posterity. feel free to poke around here.

rules for voting:

  • this is all based on vibes. it doesn't have to be literal.
  • assume that all parties are willing and that all potential smashing is consensual.
  • if the character is in a relationship in canon, assume their partner is okay with it too.
  • either you or the character could be the one to do the "smashing." it's up to you!

rules for character requests:

  • requests are closed.
  • please limit yourself to one character request per ask sent.
  • please include the character's full name and title of the media they're from.
  • feel free to include a favourite photo and a short testimony!
  • characters must be 18 or older in canon.
  • please don't request real people.
  • characters should not be from media aimed at children. (we will use our discretion.)
  • characters must have a canon physical appearance. (we need to include images with each poll.)

mods:

  • mod mustard (any pronouns)
  • mod scarlett (she/her)
  • mod green (he/him)
  • mod boddy (they/them)

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I genuinely feel ashamed that all I can do is write words while more and more Arab people die - but momentum for fundraisers is one of very few things any of us can do at the moment

Please donate to the Sameer Project. They are doing amazing work on the ground. Try to do what you can. Sharing and donating as little as 5 dollars can culminate into a big difference. I have enough of a following to know that we can make a truly big difference if this didn’t simply go ignored bc people decided they’re bored now

i'd like to share another fundraiser i trust.

27 year old Abdullah and his family are raising money to escape the terrible conditions they find themselves living under. the constant bombings have left most of them with various injuries. all they want is to get to Egypt where they can receive proper medical care and find a safe place to live.

as the oldest of his family of 5, Abdullah is the main breadwinner. although he has no way of earning a living for them right now. of his family, he says, "They have decided to leave the war-torn lands of Gaza in search of a better life, free from the spectre of conflict and displacement."

Abdullah is also Afnan's cousin.

both fundraisers are being organized by my close friend, Julius. if you have any questions about the fundraisers, he will try to answer them.

thank you for your time and your generosity.

a whole bunch of gazan mutual aid projects and nonprofits. if the decision of which individual fundraiser to give to feels too daunting, or if you just want to help as many people as possible in one go, these are great initiatives to support.

  • care for gaza - focuses on providing food and essential supplies. donate here or here.
  • connecting humanity - securing internet access via donations of virtual sim cards (esims). if you can't afford a whole plan yourself, crips for esims is a communal pool that will use your donation to purchase and maintain esims
  • gaza soup kitchen - provides food, medical care, and classes for children. also has a gofundme
  • glia gaza medical support initiative - provides medical care through field clinics and tents at hospitals. donations can also be sent through their website.
  • ele elna elak - provides clean water, food, clothing, and shelter. they also have a gofundme
  • life for gaza - raising money for the gaza municipality to repair water and waste management infrastructure
  • taawon - partners with local civil organizations to provide food, water, medical care, shelter, and basic supplies
  • the sameer project - running various initiatives providing tents, medical care, and necessities. they have their own encampment project focused on sheltering families with children, sick and disabled members, or members in need of perinatal care
  • islamic relief worldwide's gaza emergency appeal - provides food, water, hygiene kits, medical supplies, and psychological support
  • baitulmaal - provides a variety of necessities, including food, water, shelter, and medical supplies
  • gaza mutual aid fund - distributes food, hygiene products, water, and other essential supplies, including financial support. run by @/el-shab-hussein's amazing friend Mona. updates can be found on her instagram.
  • hygiene kits for gaza - provides hygiene supplies including menstrual products, wipes, and toothbrushes/toothpaste
  • anera - provides a variety of necessities, including food, water, hygiene supplies, medicine, blankets and mattresses, and psychological care
  • palestine children's relief fund - provides supplies and support with a focus on children. also has an initiative for lebanon
  • dahnoun mutual aid - provides water, food, tents, baby supplies, financial support, and other necessities. updates can be found through their instagram

certainly this is not an exhaustive list, so please feel free to add on other projects or organizations that i didn't include. and as always, please take the time to donate if you can and share. it truly makes all the difference.

hello, all! i want to draw attention to Afnan, Ibrahim, and their two children, Rahaf (8 months old) and Ahmed (2 years old). this beautiful family had their home destroyed and have been displaced to the South of Gaza.

a quote from Afnan: "As the violence escalates and the situation worsens, we face an urgent need to seek refuge and safety outside of Gaza. I have initiated this campaign to escape the horrors of war and find a haven where we can rebuild my life and the lives of my children."

you can help! it would mean the world to Afnan and her family if you could donate to their fundraiser and reblog this post to help get the word out. thank you!

my friend Julius has been speaking with Afnan and has organized this fundraiser for them. if you have any questions, you can ask Julius, @divorcedrytlock

we have some upsetting news: 2 year old Ahmed has recently become sick with a high fever.

due to the economic blockade on Gaza, the price of care necessities have gone up significantly. even a box of 30 diapers can cost about 48 US dollars.

please keep donating and keep sharing! don't look away from this family in their time of greatest need.

and sincerely, thank you to everyone who has donated so far.

£233 raised of £5,000 goal

£965 raised of £5,000 goal

£1,033 raised of £5,000 goal!

we're 21% of the way there! thank you everyone! don't stop now!

£1,073 raised

i'd like to share another fundraiser i trust.

27 year old Abdullah and his family are raising money to escape the terrible conditions they find themselves living under. the constant bombings have left most of them with various injuries. all they want is to get to Egypt where they can receive proper medical care and find a safe place to live.

as the oldest of his family of 5, Abdullah is the main breadwinner. although he has no way of earning a living for them right now. of his family, he says, "They have decided to leave the war-torn lands of Gaza in search of a better life, free from the spectre of conflict and displacement."

Abdullah is also Afnan's cousin.

both fundraisers are being organized by my close friend, Julius. if you have any questions about the fundraisers, he will try to answer them.

thank you for your time and your generosity.

£150 raised of £20,000

£185 raised of £20,000

£270 raised of £20,000

£503 raised of £20,000

amazing! don't stop sharing and donating

£513 raised so far

£531 raised!

i'd like to share another fundraiser i trust.

27 year old Abdullah and his family are raising money to escape the terrible conditions they find themselves living under. the constant bombings have left most of them with various injuries. all they want is to get to Egypt where they can receive proper medical care and find a safe place to live.

as the oldest of his family of 5, Abdullah is the main breadwinner. although he has no way of earning a living for them right now. of his family, he says, "They have decided to leave the war-torn lands of Gaza in search of a better life, free from the spectre of conflict and displacement."

Abdullah is also Afnan's cousin.

both fundraisers are being organized by my close friend, Julius. if you have any questions about the fundraisers, he will try to answer them.

thank you for your time and your generosity.

£150 raised of £20,000

£185 raised of £20,000

£270 raised of £20,000

£503 raised of £20,000

amazing! don't stop sharing and donating

£513 raised so far

hello, all! i want to draw attention to Afnan, Ibrahim, and their two children, Rahaf (8 months old) and Ahmed (2 years old). this beautiful family had their home destroyed and have been displaced to the South of Gaza.

a quote from Afnan: "As the violence escalates and the situation worsens, we face an urgent need to seek refuge and safety outside of Gaza. I have initiated this campaign to escape the horrors of war and find a haven where we can rebuild my life and the lives of my children."

you can help! it would mean the world to Afnan and her family if you could donate to their fundraiser and reblog this post to help get the word out. thank you!

my friend Julius has been speaking with Afnan and has organized this fundraiser for them. if you have any questions, you can ask Julius, @divorcedrytlock

we have some upsetting news: 2 year old Ahmed has recently become sick with a high fever.

due to the economic blockade on Gaza, the price of care necessities have gone up significantly. even a box of 30 diapers can cost about 48 US dollars.

please keep donating and keep sharing! don't look away from this family in their time of greatest need.

and sincerely, thank you to everyone who has donated so far.

£233 raised of £5,000 goal

£965 raised of £5,000 goal

£1,033 raised of £5,000 goal!

we're 21% of the way there! thank you everyone! don't stop now!

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HIGHLIGHTED FUNDRAISERS

I wanted to bring attention to a few of the fundraisers closest to my heart and families I have direct contact with 🤍 for now, these are the families I will be focusing my fundraising efforts on. They are all vetted and in need of immediate help.

  1. Dina and her family (@dina179)
  2. Ghazal/Fayez and their family (not on tumblr but my friend @japanmp3 posts for them)
  3. Ahmed and his family (@hamoodaltabaan)
  4. Marah and her family (@freepaleatine95)
  5. Alaa and her family (@alaa-992)

hello, all! i want to draw attention to Afnan, Ibrahim, and their two children, Rahaf (8 months old) and Ahmed (2 years old). this beautiful family had their home destroyed and have been displaced to the South of Gaza.

a quote from Afnan: "As the violence escalates and the situation worsens, we face an urgent need to seek refuge and safety outside of Gaza. I have initiated this campaign to escape the horrors of war and find a haven where we can rebuild my life and the lives of my children."

you can help! it would mean the world to Afnan and her family if you could donate to their fundraiser and reblog this post to help get the word out. thank you!

my friend Julius has been speaking with Afnan and has organized this fundraiser for them. if you have any questions, you can ask Julius, @divorcedrytlock

we have some upsetting news: 2 year old Ahmed has recently become sick with a high fever.

due to the economic blockade on Gaza, the price of care necessities have gone up significantly. even a box of 30 diapers can cost about 48 US dollars.

please keep donating and keep sharing! don't look away from this family in their time of greatest need.

and sincerely, thank you to everyone who has donated so far.

£233 raised of £5,000 goal

£965 raised of £5,000 goal

£1,033 raised of £5,000 goal!

we're 21% of the way there! thank you everyone! don't stop now!

i'd like to share another fundraiser i trust.

27 year old Abdullah and his family are raising money to escape the terrible conditions they find themselves living under. the constant bombings have left most of them with various injuries. all they want is to get to Egypt where they can receive proper medical care and find a safe place to live.

as the oldest of his family of 5, Abdullah is the main breadwinner. although he has no way of earning a living for them right now. of his family, he says, "They have decided to leave the war-torn lands of Gaza in search of a better life, free from the spectre of conflict and displacement."

Abdullah is also Afnan's cousin.

both fundraisers are being organized by my close friend, Julius. if you have any questions about the fundraisers, he will try to answer them.

thank you for your time and your generosity.

£150 raised of £20,000

£185 raised of £20,000

£270 raised of £20,000

£503 raised of £20,000

amazing! don't stop sharing and donating

Palestinians who have reached out to me this week

@monayazji / link / kr15,663 SEK raised of kr200,000 / vetted (#87)

@aylaomar20 / link / $25,397 raised of $40,000 / vetted (#231)

@ahmed-house-free-palestine / link / $174 raised of $35,000

@rabahmonis / link / $4,483 raised of $41,300

@khaledblogs / link / €212 raised of €57,300

@ahmadmoneer / link / €995 raised of €30,000

@noor509 / link / $31,688 raised of $45,000 / vetted

This is your reminder that without eSims, many people in Gaza cannot reach the rest of the world. To their loved ones overseas to the people who have donated to their fundraisers hoping to keep them alive. The Israeli government has issued repeated communications blackouts, trying to cut us off from Gaza. Even when there are not "official" blackouts, telecommunications are dangerous; Palestinians like Medo have died in makeshift tent cafes trying to access the internet and reach us. In Gaza, infrastructure has been severely damaged, despite the brave and hard work of people in Paltel on the ground. Do not think that because you read a headline about a communications blackout ending, eSims are not needed; Israel has already laid groundwork to cut Gazans off from the world - eSims work independent from the Israeli government and can provide data and phone service, an essential lifeline.

If the process of donating an eSim yourself seems daunting, you can contribute to the Crips for eSims fund directly here:

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