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hi! i'm sarah, i'm 29, and this is my multifandom/personal blog. i love many things, including but not limited to the color pink. my pronouns are she/her. :)
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this point has been made before but santos and langdon are 100% written as mirrors to each other and if santos had been a man there would have been 15000000 meta posts about his snark and impulsivity being a cover for deep-seated emotional issues and his childhood but since santos is a woman she's a huge bitch who needs to get humbled. which by the way has already happened multiple times over the course of the past 10 episodes but i guess to appease the masses foaming at the mouth to see a woman crucified we need a full scene of idk robby yelling at her that shes a fuckup in front of the entire ER

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award shows during red era were fun bc I knew no matter what happened swifties would get into some big fight with directioners ... like I'm not even exaggerating, there were discourse after every single one. I don't really remember most of them besides the iconic british accent during WANGBT grammy performance and this one time (I think at the american music awards???) where taylor wore a dress that looked like a dress a model had worn with one direction on a magazine cover. I miss 2013 <3

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please think about male pregnancy outside of a meme context at least sometimes. idc if you say "I'm gonna get him pregnant" or things like that but male pregnancy is going to become an increasingly serious issue for us trans men/mascs

just. acknowledge that there are men irl who can get pregnant, not always by choice, and how that effects us. because we're going to need it. we already need it

Ok but if trans men are men like yall say then why do some still wanna get pregnant if you’ve transitioned to a man? Wouldn’t that stir up body dysmorphia or something?

everyone is different, for some they don't mind bc they don't see it as conflicting with their gender, other people think it's worth it. there are also going to be people who didn't make the choice and either can't or don't want to get an abortion. there are lots of different possibilities someone might experience and they all deserve to be respected as people just like anyone else, and part of respecting them as a person is respecting their gender and autonomy

But also like, maybe pregnancy isn’t something that is inherent or exclusive to womanhood. Maybe reproduction is not a subject that exclusively concern women. Maybe we have idealized maternal love to a point where we can’t imagine that men can actually love and care and nurture.

Being trans doesn’t stop you from wanting a family nor does it render your ability to create said family void. Which means that even if every trans man didn’t want to have kids, you would still have to normalize pregnant men because accidental pregnancy happens.

I don’t understand this need to enforce this idea where women are the sole authority on reproduction. It is based in patriarchal logic. Stop.

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How is calling someone “attention seeking” an insult quite literally the majority of social interactions are seeking attention. Gossiping about someone else by calling them “attention seeking” is attention seeking. Im seeking attention by even making this post

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i recently had the honour of introducing my friend to the “[blank]er? i hardly know ‘er!” joke by loudly exclaiming “liquor? i hardly know her!!” during a party, causing my friend (never heard the joke before) to laugh so hard she threw up

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