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Intro Post:

Name(s): We’re the Storybook System! Can just call us Storybook or Story for short.

Pronouns: Any work! But if it helps being told one to use, they/them is good!

We are POC, queer, and have chronic pain and fatigue.

We do not have a DNI, if you are being rude/mean on the blog, you will be blocked.

The conditions we have that are relevant to this blog include autism (Mid Support Needs) , autism catatonia, and ocd. We are nonverbal and full-time AAC users. Write many posts with AAC app! (If don’t know what AAC is, made short explanation here.)

We’re not doctor or any licensed professional, so please keep that in mind if ask for advice/thoughts. Venting in asks is okay.

All our posts that are able be reblogged are okay to reblog! We turn off reblogs for any posts that don’t want reblogged

If do something that makes you upset or you feel is unjust, you are free to let us know. Can’t guarantee anything, but will not mock you for having concern or problem.

Hope this blog can be a safe place.

30 Days of Autism Acceptance 2025

The autism month prompts are back this year! Rules: There are 30 questions corresponding to each day in April. Answer each question in your own separate post. You can answer all or just as many of them as you want. Make sure you tag your responses #30daysofautismacceptance and you can put them in the various autism tags too (#actually autistic, #autistic, etc). Please help spread this around before the start of April! And with that, I hope everyone enjoys the questions and has fun with this year's autism month prompts.

April 1st: Do you have trouble recognizing emotions in either yourself or other people? Do you ever find it hard to tell how you're feeling or even to describe how you're feeling to other people? Have you ever had trouble properly expressing your feelings? Do you have trouble recognizing what other people are feeling? How does this make life difficult for you, if it does?

April 2nd: Dependence. How independent are you? Are you able to live alone? Have a caretaker? Live with a relative? Is there anything you need help with in your daily life? If you live alone, does being autistic make anything about it more difficult? Do you wish you lived with someone?

April 3rd: Talk about family. How are your relationships with your family members? Are they generally supportive of you as an autistic person? Are they accommodating to your needs? Does being autistic affect your familial relationships in any meaningful way?

April 4th: What are your current special interests if you have any? What are some positive ways having special interests have affected your life? What are some negative ways that they have affected your life? How long do they tend to last for you? You could even talk about past special interests if you want.

April 5th: What are some ways that the neurotypical people in your life can help you specifically with the challenges you face as an autistic person? Ways they can accommodate you? How can neurotypical people help the autistic community as a whole?

April 6th: Talk about miscommunication. As autistic people communicating is something that is harder for us than neurotypical people, in what ways is communicating generally hard for you? Talk about how being autistic has led to an instance of miscommunication in the past. Talk about social blunders that you've made due to autism. Perhaps a situation where you misinterpreted something or where you said the wrong/insensitive thing.

April 7th: Have you had people treat you differently after you told them you were autistic? In what ways? How did you feel about it and what did you do?

April 8th: Are you a creative person? What are the types of things you create? Do you think being autistic has any influence over the types of things you create or your creativity in general?

April 9th: Do you struggle with mental health? Does being autistic affect your struggle with mental health? Do you have depression or anxiety and is it influenced by being autistic?

April 10th: Do you struggle with keeping up with physical health? Does being autistic affect it?

April 11th: What are some things that might come easy to neurotypical people, but which you either can't do or need help to do?

April 12th: What are some social rules that you don't understand? Talk about it.

April 13th: Are you able to pick up when someone is flirting with you or alternatively when someone is flirting with someone else? Do you know how to flirt?

April 14th: What are some of the most difficult aspects of being autistic to you? What makes it difficult? Talk about it.

April 15th: Is romance/romantic relationships harder for you as an autistic person? In what ways? If you've had romantic relationships, are your partners generally accepting of your autism? Do they do anything to help accommodate you? If you haven't had any romantic relationships, would you like one? Does being autistic make it harder for you to have one?

April 16th: Is loneliness or a sense of isolation something you either currently or in the past struggled with? Is it related to being autistic? What types of things helped you deal with it?

April 17th: Talk about stimming. In what ways do you stim? Are they vocal stims or physical stims? Do you have any stim toys? Do you tend to hand flap? Have people in the past been upset or annoyed with you for the ways in which you stim? And if so, how did it make you feel and how did you deal with it?

April 18th: Is lying something that's generally hard for you to do? Why? If so, do you tend to avoid lying? Can you usually tell when other people are lying?

April 19th: Do you ever feel infantalized by the people in your life? In what ways?

April 20th: Do people ever expect you to be capable of more things than you realistically are? In what ways?

April 21st: Do you feel like you are easier/more prone to being taken advantage of because of being autistic? Do you have trouble telling when people are being deceitful or have bad intentions towards you? Is there anything you do to combat this? Do you have people that help you with this?

April 22nd: Is there anything in life you want to do that you either can't or is very difficult for you to do because of being autistic?

April 23rd: Is there anything in life that you feel being autistic makes easier? Give some examples

April 24th: Have you experienced bullying? In a school or work environment for example. Talk about it if you are comfortable with it.

April 25th: If you could give advice to a child/newly diagnosed person on living life as an autistic person, what advice would you give?

April 26th: Do you find it easier to communicate online than in person? For what reasons?

April 27th: Is making friends something that you find hard to do? When you make new friends at what point do you usually tell them you're autistic? In what ways does being autistic affect your relationships, if at all?

April 28th: How difficult is it for you to read other people's tone of voice/facial expressions? Talk about situations where difficulty reading tone of voice/facial expressions made things harder for you

April 29th: How tactile of a person are you? Are you sensory seeking or sensory avoidant? Do you enjoy getting hugs and other types of expressive contact or do you avoid them? If the latter have you had issues ever with people not respecting that you don't like it?

April 30th: Autistic pride. How do you feel about being autistic? What does it mean to you? Is it something you take pride in? Have your feelings about being autistic changed since you first found out that you were autistic? And is there a final message you would like to share for the end of autism acceptance month? What would you like people to take away from this month?

Be able do hobbies often or even at all can be really hard or impossible with disability. Be good at hobbies can also be hard or impossible.

In world that push to be good at things you do, might make feel like hobbies or interests pointless.

But, they are not pointless.

They mean something to you.

They might make happy or less stressed. Might distract. Might be chance to be creative. Might be chance connect to world. Or maybe just way to pass time.

Whatever reason, they mean something to you. And that what most important. They important. You important.

nonverbal / nonspeaking ppl, what you sound like inside head (internal voice)? like when talk to self inside head

[nonverbal nonspeaking as in full time experience not episode or “go __”]

try include as much option as can think of but am sure missed some… feel free tell me / elaborate in comments / reblog / tags >:)

Gentlest reminder that you're allowed to change your AAC if you need/want to

You're not wasting time or resources, it's meant to help you

Sometimes what worked earlier no longer works for you

And that's okay

Anonymous asked:

9. What is your story of how you got diagnosed?

So sorry answer so late anon, this post took while make.

Bit hard because bad memory, but tried best explain.

Was late diagnosed, teenager.

Was recommend for diagnosis lot years before was able, but was not able access doctor who could diagnose autism where lived.

Lot problems in school and home were why testing recommended. Was not able keep up in school and not able stay in school building, so had switch to a weird homeschool program.

Catatonia made everything really complicated. Symptoms for it start for us around 11/12 years old. The functioning loss confuse everyone.

Later, family move to place that did have doctor who could diagnose autism. Was able get tested and got diagnosed.

"I wish i could be nonverbal it would be so peaceful"

I promise you it wont feel peaceful when you need to call an ambulance

when your in a situation with police

when there's a fire, when you need help, when you are stuck,

when you need to call literally anyone to do basic life things

when you need to answer the door

when you need to buy something from a shop

when you need to have a conversation

when you need to get a job

when you need to participate in school

when you need to do basic life things that involve speech but that never crosses your mind because you have the privilege of speech

Stop saying you wish you could be nonverbal, you dont know what you are wishing for

[THIS IS ABOUT BEING NONVERBAL, NOT ABOUT VERBAL SHUTDOWNS. "Going nonverbal" does not exist. You are having a verbal shutdown. Which is fundamentally a different experience than being nonverbal.]

the action this person took is bad because it's directly harmful and exploits and leverages their social capital "also they're cringe" not what I said "adults who like cartoons are always shitty" no they aren't "their artistic tastes reflect their bad morals" I don't believe that is the case "typical tenderqueer" I honestly just think you're being homophobic "mid 30s polyamorous neurospicy kinky asexual picrew icon fanfic writer" do you even care about the bad thing they did or are you just using this as an excuse to make fun of people you don't like

Please share!

Lets try this again.

Kiku is trying to crowdfund to get a nimbo posterior walker because Kiku's current mobility aids aren't meeting Kiku's needs.

Kiku is try to raise enough to get the walker, a seat harness, and a tablet mount for Kiku's talker.

The walker is $322.64, the seat harness is $94.50, and the tablet mount is 37.04.

Kiku's goal is $510 to cover taxes and fees.

$0/$510

Update! Someone donated!

And Kiku has decided to make the accessories a secondary goal. Kiku wants to focus on actually getting the walker first.

Goal is now $360 (forgot to account for taxes before)

$20/$360

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you are allowed to be proud of the victories that no one else can see. like showering without completely hating your body, not breaking into tears at the thought of the future, talking yourself out of a dark mindset, calming yourself down in public, or like waking up every single day and choosing life. be proud of the progress no matter if it is visible for others or not. you’re doing great, keep up the good work!

people with tooth decay aren't bad people. they aren't lazy either. neither are they unclean or irresponsible. tooth decay doesn't make you a bad person. you don't deserve mockery, judgement, or tooth pain for having any. the only thing people with tooth decay deserve is healthcare.

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