Sapphology

super girlfailure 🫶🏻

something something ‘feminine’ female characters being deserving of all things good and righteous and holy because of them overcoming their suffering by working within the system that hurts them using their wiley feminine attributes and charm something something ‘masculine’ female characters being villainized for fighting outside the constraints of the system they’re still subjected to in a more hands on approach and being victims of similar if not the same circumstances as their ‘feminine’ female peers but it doesn’t count for some reason because they don’t suffer as prettily as their counterparts something something

and EVERY time there’s a female protagonist who is even SLIGHTLY gnc, it’s met with immediate backlash of “there’s nothing wrong with being feminine, we need more traditionally feminine female characters!” hello horseshoe theory.

"we need more feminine-" TRADITIONAL FEMINITY ARE EVERYWHERE! Its already as abundant as a boring Christmas movie

THANK YOU SO MUCH

I love Arya because she’s fierce and she sees past the constructs of lady hood and how woman in Westeros are expected to be and want to be. She wants more for herself. Im tired of people thinking that it’s a bad thing for Arya to have more traditional masculine traits like her love of sword fighting and her passion for architecture. But guess what, those traits shouldn’t be seen as gendered. That’s the whole freaking point is that gender is a construct

As a gnc woman I am so TIRED

Can we have yuri for two characters who haven’t even interacted on screen yet or even had their movies come out yet

(comms opened^^)

characters who are undead. characters who die in the end and so they've been dead from the start. characters who are chased by death. characters that chase death. characters who died and came back to life. characters that die again and again and again. characters who consider their past self dead. characters who were born in someone else's corpse. characters that claw their way out of the grave. characters whose deaths leave such a gaping wound that even their absence is still a presence. characters who are emissaries of death. characters who are alive but consider themselves dead. characters whose deaths are ambiguous. characters whose existences are defined by death.

reblog to remind prev they're not a bother and their presence is wanted <3

Had to make this first

Just gonna drop these here as a starting point :)

How to identify, and then deal with, your emotions

Emotional regulation skills

Conflict resolution skills

Creating and enforcing boundaries

Dialectical Behavioural Therapy skills

Emotional intelligence ideals to aim for

Axes of self-care/wellbeing

Self-care self-evaluation (find out where you’re starting)

How to make a self-care checklist

How to start a self-care habit

Reparenting resources

Crash Course Psychology

KhanAcademy: Understanding the Self and Society (some units more relevant than others)

Emotional education activities for children and teens

Social-Emotional Learning activities for kids (information can be adapted for adults)

Hell yeah

i love and miss arrow!sara so much

i can’t stand “it’s not that deep” attitudes like even if it really really isn’t that deep just PLAY WITH ME. just fucking PLAY. have a meaningless but deep analytical conversation with me. just like think about shit for fun. does anyone else like to think about stuff for fun. it’s so lonely

how it feels being a dyke trying to present the concept of lesbian arya stark to the asoiaf fandom

sorry im late i sat on my bed in a towel for 45 minutes staring at the wall

Our Japanese class found it funny that in common terminology "food" isn't very distinguished from specifically "rice" until it was pointed out to us that in English "meal" is "loose roughly ground grain"

humans be like staple crop

staple crop to what

directly to forehead

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