Anonymous asked:
so you're 1) crazy smart 2) crazy beautiful and i'm 1) crazy in awe 2) crazy jealous
Omg stoppppp that's so sweet!!! Thank you ๐ฅบ๐ซถ๐พ
i graduated medical school yesterday :)
#she's a doctor????????#so surreal i remember starting like it was yesterday!!!#im like lowkey sad it's over like it was rough but im emotional#and if anyone is still on here thank you for playing a part in keeping me sane for the first two years#like you literally have no idea how much i needed an escape and this was a damn good one for a while!#i am putting it into the universe that harry is releasing an album in the fall#so i will hopefully have something to look forward to as i transition into residency :)#will probably delete this later but i wanted to update in case anyone is still around lol#medical school#graduation
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#hi!!!!!!#i feel like i should update here bc despite the stress it caused me this place got me through some of the roughest parts of med school#so if anyone at all is still around thank you <3#im updating to say match day was friday and im very excited to have matched into my dream specialty in a program im very excited about!#im thankfully moving much closer to my family which im stoked about and ill have excellent opportunities here so im super grateful#im graduating med school in two months which is surreal#i will be a literal doctor like who allowed that im just a young girl#anyways thank you to harry and this place for giving me stuff to look forward to during the rough patches#idk what he's up to these days but i hope he's well!!!#anyways byeeeeeeeeeee hope you guys are doing great
Anonymous asked:
Not you on my dash rn. HOW ARE YOU?!
Lmao I KNOW. Fandom is just not for me anymore ๐ I think Harry's has scarred me from ever joining another one lol. I liked the little community we had on here but it was overwhelmingly a negative experience for me. I'm not equipped to deal with misinformation and cruelty on a daily basis ๐๐พ But anyways I've been okay! Last year was reallyyyyyyy rough but since April/May I've been doing better! I got my board exam scores back last week and got above my goal score so that was exciting and now I'm just working on residency application stuff!
#ask#also to be clear i don't regret joining the fandom or anything#i think harry is incredible and im very grateful for all of the happiness and fun times he gave me#i just want to appreciate him from afar now#i admire all of you who stay around to be sane voices idk how you do it for so long#stronger than me!!!!
Anonymous asked:
Oh people are not handling it well. Larries are in denial and saying it's for Gemma's cat or that it says some other word in a language no ones ever heard of, Harries are either making fun of him for it, saying they have the ick, using it to drag her further, or making a big joke of it and trivializing their love to just "that was some good salad dressing" or "she must've been great at sex" etc. I have seen some people actually admit that he did love her after all which is progress I guess but few and far between.
Same old fandom I see!
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#aw#harry is such a sweetie#i just heard about the tattoo on the radio of all places#so i had to look it up to see for myself lol#OUCH#it just makes me even sadder that they aren't together anymore#and it brings back so much anger and resentment towards so many people#like people were SO FUCKING MEAN#never gave him or her or their relationship an ounce of respect#and like he was obviously in it for the long haul#which DUH like as if that wasn't clear when he had her children living with him#but alas#shit happens and outside forces are sometimes too much to withstand#between tour and her ex and the never ending harassment#it was a lot#and sometimes you can love each other a whole lot but it's not always enough to overcome all the other shit#i think they knew it was gonna be tough from the start with her ex and the kids and his traveling and his fans and the media#but idk if they thought it would be THAT tough#i hope the people who love to console themselves by saying he never cared about her are feeling terrible#im sure theyve come up with reasons it's not about her and decided to make fun of her and him for it#because theyre awful terrible people who do not know how to take accountability#but one can only hope#anyways i just hope he puts allllllllll the feelings into hs4
is this thing still on......
#wow long time no see#popping on out of nostalgia ๐ฅฒ#ive just started studying for my second medical licensing exam#and i was just reminiscing about studying for the first one last year#bc it was at the same time as you are home and as it was release and all the album stuff in general#and i seriously wouldn't have survived that period without harry and everything he was up to#it's so much isolation and weeks upon weeks of just studying from sunrise to sunset and it's mentally draining#so ofc im not excited to do that again ๐#and feeling stressed that i don't have anything to really look forward to day to day like i did the first time#so i was like aw i should see what people are up to#i still keep up with harry a little like he still comes up on my socials and i see his concert videos and stuff#still rooting for him and still love him to bits tbh but his fandom is unbearable#i gave it an honest try but i didn't even make it 3 years lmao it was hell#maybe it's better now! but better not to risk it lol#i'll find some other way to not off myself these next few weeks#i hope everyone is well!!!!!!
the anon you got about cinema ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ i don't know why people fixate so much like who cares if it's about it or not
They fixate bc they wanna believe it so bad lol. It is absolutely not about that - he's already talked about the meaning in interviews like it's not a mystery. They just don't like the explanation so they have to search for one they do like