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Diddle | 26 | she/they | lesbian

Hi, I'm Diddle. I'm 26 and a lesbian.

main: @saesyndrome (i follow from here)

art blog: @diddlesnap

My favorite characters are Sleekwhisker, Hollyleaf, Ivypool, Needletail, and Mapleshade. I don't particularly care for ANY wc men whatsoever.

Feel free to send drawing requests or questions!

Now to the main part of this post: as someone who grew up being "pro-ship", i just want to say that it was the primary method through which i was groomed online. It is extremely dangerous to push this rhetoric (with terms made by and for pedophiles, might I add!) through a series made for children and teenagers in a fandom full of children and teenagers. I am not interested in arguing about this.

So tl;dr: block me if you call normal people antis

Anonymous asked:

the tigerdove elder's quest stuff is literally absurd and as you said makes me astounded that tigerstar hasnt been given the bramblestar treatment one thousand times over because it is maybe one of the most explicit on page examples of an abusive relationship that wc has allowed for. tiger not only interrupts her but speaks FOR her, dictating what "they" have decided (which is purposefully ignoring their child for doing something THEY both did, hypocritical behavior at its finest) while dove sits there and looks distinctly uncomfortable and upset to a point where tawnypelt can blatantly distinguish her barely concealed discomfort as her agency and any right to an opinion she has is trampled on by her mate. but yeah. wife guy of the year ig.

nothing to add just posting as confirmation

Anonymous asked:

the worst part imo is when people acknowledge that tigerdove have had a "rough start" to their relationship then go on to act like they're the cutest healthiest most perfect couple today. as if he isn't still controlling her every decision and actively harming dovewing's relationships with their kids by making her agree to stupid rules and arbitrary punishments. i guess they're Better if better means they fight less because dovewing's gotten more complacent. yay? keep speaking ur truth wholesome wifeguy himbo or whatever they're calling him tigerheart needs to be dismantled

no literally. like shes been totally isolated from her family and any friends (close or not)/acquaintances in thunderclan, now surrounded by tigerheart's family, friends, and clanmates who think tigerheart is the second coming of jesus for some fucking reason. if she has a problem, who is everyone going to side with? even if they don't think he's right, hes their leader. are they going to insult him? his marriage? by siding with dovewing is out of the question.

abuser tactic 101 btw.

and as ive said before, in the elder's quest, dovewing is upset her one remaining kitten of this litter is leaving. tigerheart decides freezing him out is the appropriate response. dovewing, when she tries to talk more at length with tawnypelt, is interrupted by tigerheart and swept away before she can contradict him. THIS IS NOT OUT OF CHARACTER. THIS IS WHAT HES BEEN DOING SINCE DAY ONE. so it isnt out of the realm of possibility that dovewing DOESNT WANT to be cold to her child who is leaving the clan. but again, what choice does she have?

Anonymous asked:

truly SPEAK MORE on how unbearable tigerheart is because witnessing the fandom like. essentially rewrite history to make him a sweet dedicated wifeguy who just loves dovewing soooo much and that redeems him as a character (because there is truly no denying that he is an asshole in every regard if you have like. an ounce of reading comprehension + the ability to see what is on page in front of you) makes me CRAZYYY !! it feels like people just realized the narrative was never going to give dovewing (or ivypool. or their relationship) her dues and so they hardcore settled for what she was given which is the world's worst husband ever. and trying to pretend otherwise is insane. one of the worst instances of wc fanon if i am being so honest

it's really interesting how it's such a problem for tigerheart when dovewing says she can't have her kittens in thunderclan but she doesn't want to have them in shadowclan either, he immediately tries to figure out a way to push her into shadowclan. he even comes up with an idea to manipulate her by getting ivypool to convince her to stay as well despite their fraught relationship. this is in the first four chapters of tigerheart's shadow.

and to make it very clear because ive seen tigerheart's exchange with ivypool taken out of context, he DOESN'T confront ivypool because he knows dovewing wants to make up with her and wants dovewing to be happy. he knows dovewing wants to make up with her, so he tries to convince ivypool to "forgive" dovewing so dovewing will be so thankful that she will move to shadowclan with him. THIS IS EXPLICIT BTW.

tigerheart decides shadowclan is more important than dovewing and lets her go off by herself. he misses their meeting (in almost the exact same way as that infuriating situation in Peach Girl btw. iykyk) then after dovewing disappears and her family starts asking about her, tigerheart decides the best course of action is to pretend like he doesn't know anything.

im getting really frustrated with ppl taking exchanges out of context and whatever to demonize ivypool in relation to dovewing like give it a fucking rest. tigerheart treats dovewing like shit at every turn and everyone ignores it and instead targets another female character. i feel like im going crazy.

it's just really fascinating how ppl insist they're shitting on ivypool bc they care about dovewing but then proceed ignore everything tigerheart does to dovewing

im getting really frustrated with ppl taking exchanges out of context and whatever to demonize ivypool in relation to dovewing like give it a fucking rest. tigerheart treats dovewing like shit at every turn and everyone ignores it and instead targets another female character. i feel like im going crazy.

𝓂𝑜𝓂, 𝐼’𝓁𝓁 𝒷𝑒 𝓆𝓊𝒾𝑒𝓉.

𝒾𝓉 𝓌𝑜𝓊𝓁𝒹 𝒷𝑒 𝒿𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝓉𝑜 𝓈𝓁𝑒𝑒𝓅 𝒶𝓉 𝓃𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉.

𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼’𝓁𝓁 𝓁𝑒𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝑜𝓃𝒸𝑒 𝐼 𝒻𝒾𝑔𝓊𝓇𝑒 𝑜𝓊𝓉,

𝒽𝑜𝓌 𝓉𝑜 𝓅𝒶𝓎 𝓂𝓎 𝑜𝓌𝓃 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓉𝑜𝑜.

btw whats y'all's favorite non-wc xenofiction? DO NOT SAY WATERSHIP DOWN. mine is the fox and the hound by daniel p mannix 😌

Watersh-

Well, i really enjoyed Wild Animals i Have know and The last Curlew.

And the first book of Ga Hoole but i need to read the rest

THE DUNCTON CHRONICLES

Those Holy Warrior Moles are sacred to my heart, and I will never exchange this epic series for any other book.

You'll have to pry them from my cold, dead hands.

Xenofiction media isn’t specified in this post but imma have to go with my favorite xenofiction film 🦌

have to reply to this one. if you haven't read the bambi novel (cant speak to the sequel though) i definitely recommend it. really poignant allegory for the experience as a Jewish man around the time period before and during WWI. beautiful imagery to boot.

after much consideration and criticism of my interpretation of fallenholly, i’ve decided to rethink how i portray them. i hope this is better than my toxic and (looks at notes) “proship adjacent” fallenholly!

can we perhaps start channeling more energy in being angry at tigerheart who is the one that strong armed dovewing to return to the clans in the first place? it really irritates me when ppl act like dovewing changing clans is some profound act of exerting her agency when tigerheart has been grooming and using her since she was 7 months old. even in the most recent book he cuts her off when she tries to speak like he doesn't want her contradicting him.

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