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jack. 20s. she/her. black. the dove is dead and we feast upon its corpse. no minors, no immature adults. reblogging ≠ agreeing. don't assume bad faith just because i don't use a million emojis or smiley faces in my replies, thank you.
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jack. 20s. she/her. this is an adult space, so if you are under 18, please do not follow me. i am pro-sex, pro-kink, anti-generative ai, anti-censorship and a dead dove enjoyer. you've been warned. i'm not your leader, nor do i want to be. reblog ≠ endorsement. following ≠ endorsement. i'm kind of just here. multifandom + multishipper. read the faq. i try to tag for spoilers, but sometimes i don't; therefore, this blog is not spoiler free. come say hi. i don't bite.

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Reblogged roomunderthestairsdeluxe
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goblord-deactivated20240911

we were not born to text we were put on this earth to smoke blunts and jerk eachother off in massive fields of soft grass on a breezy sunny day

#[nods]
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Anonymous asked:

Okay, so you’re fair and also not a pushover, which I need.

I have this aunt I call every other week and have been for the last couple of years. She was diagnosed with cancer a little while ago (they caught it super early so luckily she’s in remission). I know the chemo has absolutely kicked her ass. I also work kind of weird hours, so she never calls me in case I’m busy.

Which is totally fine, I have a buttload of free minutes that I only ever use to call her and my other aunt.

There times where she doesn’t answer. No probs, it’s fine. But the thing is, she also never calls me back. Which again, is fine, I know I can’t even begin to imagine how shitty chemo is. But when I called her the other day, she said she was out with some people and she said she’d call me back. I’m still waiting. Same thing with the time before that. Not even a text to say, hey, listen, thanks for calling, not really feeling up for chatting. Just. Zip.

When it happened before, a few months ago, she said she’d seen my missed call and just didn’t bother calling me back. Which kinda hurts, I’ll be honest. But she’s been sick and I feel like she was entitled to be a bit crabby.

So I’m not sure if I should just keep on making the effort, even if it’s starting to feel a bit one-sided.

One thing I know about human relationships is that we often take the people we love for granted. We don't mean to. We don't even necessarily want to. But we become so used to the continued presence of another person in our atmosphere that it doesn't even register after a while that, one day, they won't always be there. It sounds like your aunt feels that way about you. In some ways, it's a beautiful thing to take someone for granted because the inherent implication beneath it all is that you're reliable, that it never crosses the person's mind that you won't ever be there, and that's a good thing. But it hurts, sometimes, when you don't feel appreciated or respected.

I won't tell you to stop calling her altogether because that's between you and your conscience, what you can and can't live with in the event of her passing (even though she's in remission! We all have to go sometime). But what I will say is that you should never put yourself in a position where you feel like you're lesser. No, relationships are not always 50/50. But they shouldn't be 100/0, either. And if your aunt is making you feel that way, it's worth talking to her about. Whatever you decide, do what you know you can live with because life is very short and regrets are very long. You don't want to have to live with that.

#Hope this helps and sorry it took a day or two for me to answer this xoxo#jack answers mail
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Anonymous asked:

for people with vulvas; does your underwear ever smell really bad even after you shower? like you're leaking something or i don't know, not sure what happens exactly

yes, often

yes, sometimes

i haven't noticed

no, never

see results

apolladay answered:

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#Aw this person sounds young :c#Your vagina is naturally leaky. This is called discharge and it's normal#You have a natural scent. This is also normal.#If you smell stinky or you notice a change in your natural scent#that usually means that you're sick and need to go to the doctor to get some medicine#If you discharge a lot#or don't like it getting into your underwear#you can buy panty liners from the store#You're NEVER gonna smell like roses and candy and fruit down there but if you smell bad or different#talk to your doctor and don't be embarrassed about it. They've seen worse than vaginal discharge in med school it's literally fine
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Reblogged anti-homophobia-cheese
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Anonymous asked:

How do you think Trump will leave office?

Peacefully and voluntarily at the end of this term

Impeachment and conviction during this term

Death during this term

Forcible removal at the end of this term

He will remain in office after the end of this term

(For clarity, "this term" refers to his current 4-year administration, which will end in January 2029.)

apolladay answered:

(For clarity, "this term" refers to his current 4-year administration, which will end in January 2029.)

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#One of those polls where Americans should just reblog without comment
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