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and i can only do my best

@waterbearable / waterbearable.tumblr.com

Ari. 24. she/they/he. tme. bi, black, and doing the best i can. dragon age sideblog is @oopsallmabari. art-only blog is @waterbear-art.

Im not gonna stop yelling about it until people remember that fat trans women exist. And I mean actual fat trans women. Not the trans girl you know with a little bit of a tummy who had to start buying medium sized shorts after being on HRT for a year I mean women who've had problems finding clothes that fit since before we started transitioning. Women who's "flat as a board" moments were having C cups before E even kicked in. Women who are often made the face of offensive stereotypes aimed at the entire transfem community. Women who's weight hasn't started with a 1 since they were 13. You have to remember we exist. You have to know that we're here. You have to hype us up just like all the girls with more palatable physiques that you wanna fuck.

Fuck with all of us or fuck off.

I vote that your writing continues to be:

  • self indulgent
  • cringe
  • weird
  • bizarre
  • long
  • short
  • sappy
  • only for your eyes
  • obnoxious

You're allowed to have your own voice. You're allowed to write something only you want to read. Seize the freedom you were never given in your 8th grade English class!

sorry i covered your neck in dark hickeys and clamped down hard on your throat like limp prey while i was giving you a handjob. you whimpered a little too soft and i blacked out and believed myself to be a feral dog in possession of an entire rotisserie chicken

Update from the man himself

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holdtightclothing

The Porn Guy aka The Nice Guy aka The Canadian side of Pornhub aka SFW Pornhub’s REAL NAME is Ryan Creamer. No joke, that is legit his real name.

Also this.

Which led him to this.

Bless this man.

I can appreciate him and the service he’s providing independently of the shitshow that is the platform he’s hosted on.

He remains just as funny and weird on other platforms dw

By the way, the topic he was presenting was

‘Can I get an Honorary Degree if I Just Ask Really Nicely’

happy tdov to people who don't pass or have no interest in passing, who can't pass because there is no culturally recognised category for the way they want to be recognised, who flip flop and fuck around, who can't hide their transness and have to plan their everyday around being visible, who can't signal their transness and have to come out over and over because the default presumption is intolerable, who don't have the resources yet or the knowhow or the willpower to change what they want to change, whose transness is warped by a hegemonic image of ideal transness that is almost as difficult to escape as the hegemonic image of cisness, who don't have a justification prepared for the assertion that they are trans but can no longer justify the assertion that they are not, who have a million justifications that are all surplus to the fundamental requirement (that society mandated one articulation of you and you chose another), et cetera and so forth across the world and universe forever. your version is right. don't concede.

full article

"For over a year, we have sent eSIMs every day, from our bed, from the toilet, in the hospital, while waiting for the bus. With over 160+ volunteers, we have sent over 18,000 eSIMs and kept several thousand active continuously, some for over half a year, totalling more than 41,000 eSIMs and top ups.

... With keeping eSIMs active for this long, and Canadian-US exchange rate at a disadvantage due to, among other reasons, the Trump candidacy, our spending has ballooned while donations have dropped.

As a result, we are currently several thousand dollars in the negatives, and need to raise at least $42K CAD to comfortably send new eSIMs to Gazans again. We have been eager to keep all our active eSIMs going, especially users who use 10GB or more a day, knowing one single eSIM can power a whole family or apartment, and knowing how dangerous it is to activate a new one in elevated locations."

*as an added incentive, the founders of crips for esims are offering a book giveaway for every $100 donation. read the full article for more information

I think people mean well when they insist that America isn't a Christian country but it just obfuscates the situation and makes it more difficult for minorities to frame their experiences. America is a fundamentally, structurally, ideologically Christian country from top to bottom. It's exhausting, it's suffocating, and it's the truth. Nearly all political forces, pop culture phenomena, and major life philosophies here are either built on Christianity or propped up as subverting Christianity in a way that is, of course, still entirely about Christianity. Leftwing movements here that are ostensibly hostile to Christianity still ultimately structure their worldviews around their own versions of salvation, rapture, original sin, eternal judgement, heaven, and hell. Most people here fail to see Christianity all around them, influencing every facet of American life, for the same reason that a fish can't see water.

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"I am Musab Ahmed. I was severely injured in the war and have already undergone one surgery, but I still need a second life-saving operation. With the war in Gaza raging again, we live in constant fear and worsening conditions, while my injury continues to bring unbearable pain.

The cost of surgery is beyond my means, but your donation—even 25 euros—or simply sharing my story could be my lifeline. Your kindness could mean the difference between life and death for me. ❤️"**

https://gofund.me/8590ec0b

✔️ Vetted by @gazavetters, my number on the list is (#520).

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