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@what-a-bastard

Valentine's self-ship and personal blog. 20s, it/he. Main/Art: bastard-valentine, occasionally nsft (inconsistently tagged but I try)

F/Os (Romantic):

🌵 - Canach (Guild Wars 2)

⚙️ - Enver Gortash (Baldur's Gate 3)

🕶️ - Johnny Gat (Saints Row)

🖤 - Lucien Lachance (Oblivion)

🧪 - Nathaniel (actual boyfriend)

🍄 - Neloth (Morrowind/Skyrim)

🩹 - Syd (OC)

🗡 - Teldryn Sero (Skyrim)

🎸 - Vaden Todd Lewis (Real Life/Toadies)

F/Os (Familial):

🐲 - Oleander, Daughter - (OC, Oblivion/Skyrim)

🃏 - Cicero, Son-in-law - (Skyrim)

S/Is:

💖 - Valentine (general)

⚜️ - Boss Valentine (Saints Row)

🫀 - Silencer Valentine (Oblivion/Skyrim)

🍋 - Lemon (Guild Wars 2)

Other Stuff:

Boyfriend's Bug Blog: @nathaniel-bug-hours

NSFT: @vals-horny-jail (18+)

Middle aged men OCs Blog: @bramares (18+)

AO3:

did you know, you CANNOT fuckin copyright an artstyle?

or do yall think the artists who learn to mimic styles of their favourite shows and movies are art thieves and that disney should sue them?

"May I interest you in some odd Chinese dogs from Rednote "

the fact. that i can't have sources and additional images of these dogs is driving me to insanity, every single one of them is so good, and so deserving of their own post oh my god

I think if you're of the opinion that "transradfem" is some kind of new made-up insult specifically crafted to shut down discussions of transmisogyny the least you could do is maybe not reblog posts from the author of a book called "trans/rad/fem" that is about how transfeminism is the lost true heir of radical feminism.

It ends up looking either ignorant or dishonest.

Obviously I can't actually tell you what to do (nor do I want to) but I also won't believe you if you say it's just something "TMEs" invented to discredit transfeminism, especially when some of the more notable actually transfeminist writers don't actually seem to be fans of this whole discourse.

Like, they share articles with over 5000 notes and somehow never notice the substack they linked to and ostensibly read is titled "Trans/Rad/Fem" or that the description says this:

Or that the writer is in the notes advertising a book where she says she's rehabilitating radical feminism as transfeminism.

People be like "afab transfems(not even correct label use should be transfems afab) aren't valid why aren't there amab transmascs?"

Like, there are, but I'll do yall one better, I'm a cis man afab. If you can't handle intersex people being "technically cis" and identifying as trans I can't *wait* to see your reactions to us being "technically trans" but identifying as cis.

Like honey, it's not that simple. I wasn't even fucking raised as one gender or another, and I consider myself CTM, so guess what? Cistransinator 3000.

There are people assigned male who get raised female, assigned female who get raised male, people who don't get raised as or assigned as either, and hell, even people who get *reassigned* later in life. Some people have the opposite letter on their birth certificate their entire lives and never find out until they need their own legal documentation.

Also, yall's definition of being trans? Intersex exclusionary and based on a form of oppression. Drop AGAB, leave that shit in the past people.

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