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Sprout ๐ŸŒฑ

@zoophilic-disorder

A blog for people with zoophilia who need positivity, community, discussion, or help.

๐ŸŒฑ Welcome to my account for people like me (but really anyone).

This is a primarily positivity blog for those with zoophilia, but I will work to have education, discussion, and community as well.

If you're a zoophile and struggle with finding any sort of community outside of pro-contact/animal abuse rings, please have hope. There are resources and places for you to be okay and not worry about harming an animal. These thoughts can be violent, scary, and deeply uncomfortable and unsettling, but you will be okay, and you will not act on them.

Feel free to send requests for posts! (ie. "Can you make affirmations for zoos who..."Can you make a positivity post for zoos who are..." or anything really, as long as it's relevant).

๐ŸŒฑ This blog advocates for:

โ€ข destigmatization of paraphilias, primarily zoophilia.

โ€ข anti harassment against anyone.

โ€ข pro fiction- acting out fantasies and attractions in fictional settings to cope does not make you a bad person, and you are not failing at "repressing" your paraphilia.

โ€ข anti offending/contact stances for any paraphilia that's harmful to act on. there will be no posts that cater towards other stances.

โ€ข understanding that paraphilias cannot be "cured" and instead must be accepted and coped with healithy to survive.

โ€ข saving people. you should not die simply because you have a paraphilia, your life is valuable and wanted, and you are not disgusting.

๐ŸŒฑ About Me & Tag Key below the line...

Anonymous asked:

I don't know if I should just keep my mouth shut like always, but I just came across your blog and you're the first anti-c open zoophile I've come across besides myself, though I've lately been trying to stop having zoophilic attraction altogether by decreasing my exposure to zoo content personally...

Indulging in my zoophilic attractions with fictional animals made everything worse for me personally. It makes me think of it more. It makes me more attracted to animals.

I feel like I'm a danger to other anti-c paras because of this. Because they say the opposite. They say fiction is harmless, and that channeling their desires into fictional animals or kids or corpses helps them. But not me! Nope! I feel like a fucking failure.

You're not a failure, it's entirely reasonable to have negative reactions to fiction. Fiction is not INHERENTLY harmful, but can be to some people. If it does not work for you, it doesn't work, you're not a danger.

Fiction can be an incredibly helpful outlet to some, while incredibly harmful to others. Your boundaries are your own, if fiction makes things worse, you're not a failure, you're not doing anything wrong. It's okay, it's not the only way to handle things.

I think people get so into defending fiction at times that they forget nuances. I've always preferred the statement "Fiction is not equal to reality" over "Fiction doesn't affect reality" because that's blatantly not true. As long as you're not harassing or policing others' ways of coping and self-help, you are not harming anyone.

You are no different than any other being with zoophilia. If indulging hurts, there's nothing wrong with not, if you think it hurts, please don't.

Please take care of yourself, please love yourself.

๐ŸŒฑ Affirmations for zoophiles who feel ashamed or upset.

It's okay to be scared, it's okay to not be sure how to feel about yourself.

Many people feel deep shame, embarrassment, or sadness over their zoophilia. This isn't abnormal to feel, and you're not alone in it. It can be hard to reconcile with your attractions and urges. You might feel the need to punish yourself, to feel bad, to make it so you don't feel comfortable as long as you have those thoughts.

But you do not deserve that, you deserve to love and accept yourself. You never need to be happy that you have zoophilia, but accept that it's okay, that there's nothing wrong with you. Urges and attractions are not actions, and punishing yourself in any way for your feelings will not make them go away.

You're not bad for simply living as you are, feeling how you do. You are good, you will be okay.

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Embracing myself as a zoo therian has honestly been so freeing /gen

Sure, I might be officially "problematic" now, but honestly, I don't care!!

I truly feel inside myself that I am just an animal. A creature. Relegating that identity to only fashion, emojis, or a username is not enough.

Embracing the side of me that identifies as an animal has been great. Therianthropy has made my life so much happier and honest to what I really am. But what about the side of me that feels a bond with the animals I relate to? I can't deny that a creature I see myself as is more appealing than one I don't (*cough* humans *cough*).

Obviously I can't just appear in the woods and have everything be hunky-dory, but my mind is free. What I imagine is limitless. What I dream of is up to me.

Embracing freedom of thought, to believe what I believe without needing to censor myself for thinking of quadrupeds - that is the honesty and freedom that makes life really worth living for.

So hey! To the pro-para community as a whole and zoo community here more specifically, thank you~

You all are really cool (โยดโ—ก`โ)

shout out to zoos who use fiction to cope with their para

shout out to zoos who selfship themselves with a fictional animal

shout out to zoos who draw feral art

shout out to zoos who write to cope too

shout out to sadistic zoos

shout out to necrophile zoos

shout out to asexual zoos

shout out to aromantic zoos

shout out to aroace zoos

just shout out to all anti-c zoos out there (โ *โ ๏ผพโ 3โ ๏ผพโ )โ /โ ๏ฝžโ โ™ก

My heart goes out to trans paraphiles.

You are not a disgrace or making the trans community look bad. The stereotype of the โ€œperverted, predatory transgenderโ€ should have never existed in the first place.ย 

You belong here and are beautiful โ™ฅ๏ธ

I'll be back sometime soon, I hope (going through some rough patches, but I will be okay). Thank you, everyone, for your kind messages, I promise I read all of them.

Reminder to give yourself space, love yourself, and understand you are not broken. You are loved, you do not need to be fixed.

You're not evil, you're just yourself. That's enough. Your attractions will never be your actions, don't let anyone convince you of that.

Much love,

Sprout.

Anonymous asked:

Just wanna put this out there but as a necrophile I just wanted to share my love and support for zoophiles as others dealing with similar stuff to me! Some of my friends are zoophiles and they deserve to have kindness and safety. I am so glad that you're able to help give people a way to feel open and safe in this :)

Much love right back at you guys!! I hope all necrophiles are having a great day. You guys are awesome, and I love seeing the contributions y'all make to this community.

Reminder to tell your friends you love them because they're cool (and so are you).

Anonymous asked:

Sometimes I think I'm a zoophile.

But it freaks me out so bad. I don't feel like the "stereotype"

I wouldn't say zoo is a main attraction of mine, and the idea of human x animal disgusts me. So *obviously* I'm not a zoo. Right? Right??

But that attraction is still there. Lingering.

Logically I know that attraction is morally neutral. That it's the action, the Offense that's the issue. But that stigma, that shame, is strong.

I'm scared.

I think we're in the same boat here.

Zoophilia isn't my "main attraction" either, but it's always there. It's always been an "option" in my mind, and I've always hated that.

It's stressful and scary to feel, it's confusing too.

The stigma makes everything so much worse as well, so many people refuse to understand because hating others irrationally is easier.

It's hard to feel okay about it, ever. But, you can and will, someday.

I hope someday it's not scary at all, and people can have paraphilias without living their lives in fear all the time.

Anonymous asked:

I love this blog. I am so happy to have found it. I am a therian who experiences zoophilic tendencies, and much like a previous anon has mentioned (i think?) this blog is the first place I've seen around that does not demonize zoophilia, yet doesn't encourage the.. err.. act of it either, and not only that; this blog brings comfort, it reminds me that I am not a bad person, and for that I have immense gratitude. i haven't proofread this ask.. but point is. I am happy to have found this blog. very.

Your ask is fine, don't worry.

I'm so happy I've made this blog, I was originally terrified to- so much stigmatization and fear mongering. But I'm glad I did. I'm happy to help you and anyone else, this is very healing for me and I hope it heals others.

I'm also a therian, it's scary sometimes- I fear that I'm making the stereotypes true or giving the community more reasons for hatred... but I'm not. I'm just me, I'm not hurting anyone or anything and that's what matters most at the end of the day.

I'm proud of you for making this blog and helping so many people, genuinely. I love seeing anons come and thank you for the support and positivity and how it helps them

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Thank you!

And I love hearing from them, it encourages me to keep posting and everything. I hope I can really help build us all a better, stronger, safer community.

Thank you for your blog too, and every other paras blog. I really enjoy your posts.

Anonymous asked:

Iโ€™ve been feeling really bad about my disorder recently, and this was the first place I came for comfort. It means a lot, especially your intro post where you say it canโ€™t be cured and we just have to learn to live with it. Thanks ๐Ÿพ

I'm glad this place has brought comfort, you're so so welcome.

I hope I can write more and help as much as possible. I promise you, you will learn to live on such a happy life with your paraphilia. You're gonna do great!

Anonymous asked:

oh. oh, my god.

thank you.

thank you for what you do. thank you for being here. it means so, so much.

i have suicidal urges and strong self-injury urges over my zoophilia. hearing someone fully say that itโ€™s not my fault and iโ€™m not evil for it and i donโ€™t deserve to hurtโ€ฆ itโ€™s revolutionary. itโ€™s incredible even if i canโ€™t believe it myself just yet.

thank you.

thank you.

๐Ÿซ‚ it's gonna be okay. I'm so sorry you've had to deal with so much pain over something that you can't even control.

I made this blog out of frustration over similar issues- I really wanted to let people know they weren't alone and didn't have to suffer. There is so much love waiting for you, so much good you deserve.

I'm happy this place is helping, I've almost cried over some messages I've gotten like this because I truly just want to help people understand that they're okay. I'm glad I am helping.

You are not evil for these feelings and never will be, I'm sorry the world has made you feel like you are.

Thank you for staying and continuing on through all these struggles. I'm so proud of you, genuinely.

๐ŸŒฑ Shoutout to zoos who use art as an outlet!

Shoutout to zoos who draw themselves happy and at peace with their identity!

Shoutout to zoos who draw vent art of their urges and attractions!

Shoutout to zoos who draw animals from their fandoms or their own ocs!

Shoutout to zoos who draw themselves as animals!

Shoutout to zoos who draw self ship with exclusively animal characters!

Shoutout to zoos who draw self ship with exclusively human characters!

Shoutout to zoos who draw feral/feral!

Shoutout to zoos who draw feral/anthro!

Shoutout to zoos who draw anthro/anthro!

Shoutout to zoos who draw!!

๐ŸŒฑ Shoutout to all therian zoos, you have a place in this community and don't deserve the discrimination and hate you get!

Your experiences with therianthropy are just as valuable as anyone else within the community.

Peoples stereotypes and the misinformation surrounding your identity don't define you.

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