there are some autistic “traits” that people find really annoying but that are inherently kind
like overexplaining. a lot of autistic people didn’t have certain things explained to them because “everyone knows that.” so when an autistic person overexplains something it’s not because they think you’re stupid it’s because they know how it feels for someone to assume you know something you don’t and just not ever explain how or why. it’s a kindness. autistic people aren’t annoying or stupid for this. they’re kind.
your mid-late 20s are for realizing you aren’t a morally reprehensible person for being a living breathing human being that has wants and needs and emotions and takes up space and fucks up sometimes and isn’t always ‘productive’
you used to have to keep fires going alllllll the time and i bet thats why theres always some dude at the bonfire who really fucks with keeping the fire going. instincts deep within their minds of a purpose long since lost
Matching your freak is beautiful and all but what you really need is a boy who’s infatuated with your freak. Down bad for your freak. Deeply intrigued by your freak. Eager to see more of your freak. Supportive of your freak. Gets bricked up witnessing your freak, even.
every time you assume that others are thinking negatively of you or judging you behind your back, you are bullying yourself through them. at the end of the day, you don’t know what thoughts are running through their heads unless they verbally express them to you. until then, every one of ‘their’ opinions about you is nothing more than your fear, and whatever assumption is born from your fear is yours to let go - not theirs to disprove.
can you imagine going up to a stranger in public who looked at you for a beat too long and going, “I bet you think I look stupid. You think my walk is strange, right? And you think that this coat does not suit me at all, in fact, I look ridiculous and it’s embarrassing! You also definitely don’t like this haircut. You think it makes my head look like it has a weird shape and it’s not flattering at all, don’t you? I see it in the way you just looked at me.”
And the whole time they didn’t even register you were there in their sight. Those thoughts you just prescribed to them– about your walk and your coat and your haircut– are yours. It wouldn’t be fair to go up to them and tell them what you assume that they think, and the fact that you keep those beliefs to yourself but still prescribe them to other people, does not make it more fair. Not to them, and definitely not to you.
“When you’re mean to me this is who ur being mean to” meme with Sanrio characters and small kitten is overused. Trite. It’s done I can’t relate. When ur mean to me this is who you’re being mean to:
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