Hi I'm Zora and this my blog. Level 35 aego/ace panromantic & genderqueer (demiboy) thing from Sweden. they/them, he/him. ISFJ. Don't follow/interact with me if you're an anti/purist/terf/racist/homophobe/aphobe/bigot. I reblog and post fandom/series related nerdy things and sometimes I squee a bit over whatever I happen to ship at the moment.
Sometimes personal posts happen.
sometimes other people’s easy stuff is your difficult stuff. sometimes it’s the other way around. it all depends. we all have different strengths and weaknesses. i hope you can find a way to be proud of your strengths and okay with your weaknesses.
i think there’s actually nothing better than being randomly told “I love you” after doing something characteristically stupid. Like what do you mean I’m a lovable person and I just did something silly and you thought “of course you would do that. I love you.”. No better feeling
the problem with autism is sometimes you want to do something (brave) but you need someone to gently walk you through each step so you know what will happen. and people don’t like doing that
i had to phone a taxi today, scary
every time i see this post i think of that person who posted on reddit that they wanted to go to subway for the first time but they were scared they would say the wrong thing so someone gave them step by step instructions for the entire process and what all the choices would be and when they would ask what question and i just think
someone will
someone out there will see you and say “yes. the world is scary. but let me hold your hand and show you how to do it anyways”
everyone needs that someone, and everyone can be that someone
The subreddit r/explainlikeimscared is a surprisingly good resource for this. People are always very kind and thorough from what I’ve seen, and I spend a decent amount of time there giving walkthroughs and answering questions when I know the process.
