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Baring my very soul, this is an oc I made as a much much younger Lava. I remember she was steampunk, and the umbrella was a multi tool weapon grappling hook thing

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it’s like saying white Americans are Native American LMAOO

So by this logic, one can only be from where their original/oldest ancestors were from? Does time spent somewhere not matter? Does this mean absolutly no one except white people can be British or European? Should Hispanic/Latino people not say they are from Central America since their ancestors 500 years ago might have been from Spain?

You’re gonna get a massive headache with all of this mental gymnastics that you’re doing.

It seems like ethnicity, race and nationality are beating y’all’s asses.

I’m gonna speak to y’all like y’all are 5 years old and give y’all two examples:

Lupita’s race is black, her nationality is MEXICAN and her ethnicity (cultural background) is Kenyan.

Charlize’s race is WHITE, her nationality is South African and her ethnicity is Afrikaner.

African and Afrikaner are not interchangeable. Those of Afrikaan are those with DUTCH background (from EUROPE) and those are the colonizers that came from The Netherlands and other European countries that wreak havoc on South Africa by stealing resources, enslaving the native Africans that live there and implementing apartheid.

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Siren baby learns how to sunbathe.

i’m so done with amab afab language, just use the fucking names of the body parts jesus fucking christ.

I think we’re kind of starting to get away from this but have y’all noticed how in the vast majority of popular media, sex scenes don’t actually tend to involve a lot of talking/fumbling/awkwardness unless it’s for humor or to indicate that the people having sex are a.) probably Wrong for each other somehow or b.) inexperienced, possibly having sex for the first time?

but “good” sex, between people who are experienced and In Love etc, is almost always effortlessly athletic and steamy and they somehow telepathically know exactly what to do. I’m not talking about knowing what their lover enjoys, that’s entirely feasible, but they never even have to coordinate what they’re doing. there’s no “do you want me on top?” or “do you want to do [x]?” or accidentally getting in each other’s way.

the overwhelming message that I’ve always gotten from pop culture is that Good Sex happens without communication and, more dangerously, that needing to communicate is a sign that you’re somehow bad at sex, when in reality that’s almost definitely a sign that you’re, you know, a considerate partner who actually gives a shit about people being comfortable when they have sex with you.  

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because I posted it less than 12 hours ago; give it time, friend

Not only that but like, overwhelmingly sex in media is portrayed as this steamy, well-oiled, SERIOUS machine. Like… where’s the fun? Pop culture seems to be so obsessed with this communication-less pantomime of actual intimacy rather than the reality of intimacy going hand in hand with not only consideration but humour and mutual vulnerability.

Sex is by nature so awkward and odd and it NEVER works the way you see in films or on tv. It’s never seamless and perfect and that is not a BAD THING. 

You’re not “doing it wrong” if you’re having problems getting a good rhythm and keep messin’ each other up by trying to help.

You’re not doing it wrong if you’re laughing and talking and not taking it seriously.

And additionally, and now this is a complete tangent from the original point here, but you’re not doing it wrong if you don’t manage to get off or get your partner off.

Sometimes sex is just the action and not the climax and that’s COMPLETELY FINE. My partner and I struggled a LOT with this when we first started having sex because we both had terrible guilt when we couldn’t reach climax or couldn’t get the other off because we felt like that was what the whole point of sex was.

Media puts a lot of PRESSURE on sex and what it looks like that shouldn’t be there and it’s AWFUL.

The focus is just so … wrong. 

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This is under the pretense that you would not get any illnesses from doing so + the meat comes from a person who had agreed to be eaten (after dying of natural causes) or had a limb amputated (due to injury/illness).

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