Her is a feeling.
Her is something you’ve wanted to say but you couldn’t.
Her makes you think what could have been, what could have happened.
Her makes you smile, as much as it makes you somber.
Spike Jonze shared this experience that everyone could relate to in some way but didn’t know how to feel it properly. In my case, I still don’t know, but I may be closer (and no, I’m not talking about dating ChatGPT).