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actualized-animal:

whenever people say shit like “i couldn’t be polyamorous, i’m so jealous and possessive. if my partner even LOOKS at another girl/guy i’m gonna kick them out of a window” i’m like well you should probably be working on that. like even if you don’t end up doing polyamory it’s probably good to not be like that

tagged: #lol  #text 

genderpunk:

i don’t know who needs to hear this but if you’re having that internal debate of “passing vs looking hot”: pick hot. “oh but the cisgenders” don’t care. pick hot. “oh but im supposed to-” being trans is about being whoever the fuck you want to. put the shit you were told to rest. pick hot. embrace it. why are you worrying ab people that think a cis man wearing eyeliner is groundbreaking.

tagged: #FRRR dropping my desperation to pass pre-everything  #and instead focusing on creating my own sense of style  #was what helped me start to picture the man i actually wanted to be  #passing without style literally put me backwards w self discovery  #finding my style and letting the t catch up to me was like  #the answer. for everything  #i will never ever regret my decision to prioritize style over passing for real  #forcing myself to have short hair and button ups and oversized shirts and etc etc  #just to look like a man i didnt even envision myself as  #whats the point  #are you transitioning into an npc  #are you transitioning into the vague intangible concept of a man  #or are you trying to become your truest most authentic self  #lol  #text  #lgbt 
NIVEK’S PUPPY!!!!! I asked him to draw me something to get tattooed when I saw him in September and NOW it’s on me forever. :3 It’s still very swollen and red and sensitive LOL but I’M SO HAPPY!!! (that’s my upper leg, btw!)

NIVEK’S PUPPY!!!!! I asked him to draw me something to get tattooed when I saw him in September and NOW it’s on me forever. :3 It’s still very swollen and red and sensitive LOL but I’M SO HAPPY!!!

(that’s my upper leg, btw!)

tagged: #soft hooting  #ya know what I’m tagging with  #nivek ogre  #lol